Do you believe in friendship first?

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I know I am almost 30, but I have to hear the consensus on this..

Here it goes...Hypothetically of course 🙄

You are set in your ways; the other is as well.
You know what you want and the other does as well..

There's that "body is a temple" phenomena, but if there isn't physical chemistry (forgive me), will a relationship or beginnings of MAYBE MAYBE really survive??

I am just curious about this.. You can never win with these guessing games without divulging all to the other party.

Being a woman, you are pretty much pegged as a whore or a prude either way you choose.... What's the verdict here?

Can you guess I am beating around the bush??????
 
Listen,go with what you felt the very first time this
came to mind.Yes chemistry is something to look for
but you got to be creative at times.Remember us guys
can be blind at times if you hide what your feeling.
I think begginings can survive but it takes two to make it
so.
 
Thank you sweetie...

I have some thinking to do.... I am such a stubborn guinea..

Thank you for your reponse....

I don't know if it is a "win" situation..Hmmm😕


-bella😛
 
Your quite welcome.
Don't worry good things come to those who wait
even if the person claims she's stubborn.I don't think shes stubborn at all personally.
Take care..


Nick-
 
Girl I hear you on the stubborness! I'm a Leo and Irish...enough said.

I hear what your saying. The phrase, been there, done that comes to mind. I have been in situations like that. There were the no win times when one had feelings, the other didn't, things happened anyway and led to screwed up friendship. Then on the other side, it started same way, one had feelings, other didn't, but then feelings caught, things were fine, well for a while anyway, then it just went no where. So I understand the no-win situation.

I back up what Silent said....go with what you feel. As for the whole "either a whore or a prude", I say screw it. I don't belive in labels, nor do I give a rats ass of what people think. I do what's best for me and what I feel is best, no matter how many people try to tell me otherwise. I look at it this way, its your life, do what you want. (Just for the record, not trying to send bitchy or snotty or anyhing, just my philosophy here, plus I think I've taken too many psychology classes...LOL)

Hope that helps!


~Meg~
 
shhhhhhhhhhhh

Love,

Something that can never be figured out. It's like a wind and your a kite. It just takes you and you don't know where. Love, just like the wind doesn't blow all the time.

Can you be friends first, well that's the most important step. You'll see what he really wants, forever or one night. Then you can be the judge and see if the winds of love fly your kite.


:nyasia shhhhhhh, don't wake the moon. Until you reach the stars
 
SOMETIMES THE MOST BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIPS COME FROM BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIPS BUT YOU ALSO TAKE THE RISK OF MESSING UP A FRIENDSHIP AND IN THE END YOU CAN LOOSE BOTH SO ALWAYS BE SURE OF THE CHOICE U AKE AND PREPARE URSELF FOR EITHER OUTCOME 🙂
 
Speaking from experience.....its the best but I wouldn't do it again
 
I agree with Heaven on this one. From experience it is best to be friends, but I wouldn't do it again. Screwed up a very good friendship that way. But oh well...I'm not going to start ranting...it's in the past, behind me, I'm over it.


~Meg~
 
Wish I was over it......I don't know if I'm still trying to hold on to our friendship or just soo in love still that I am kidding myself....ohhh wells. Just think about it REALLY hard, make sure your friendship is well worth it cuz no matter how close you were once you cross that barrier.....that closeness is gone. I know from experience. :sosad
 
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