Do they really change?

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With a few things going on in my life these days...I've been thinking...do people really change or were they just always like that and either you were too blind to see it or they hid it well enough but eventually their true colors came thru
 
but knowing you... you were probably blind lol 😛
 
😱 that's funny and mean at the same time lol 😛 :sosad
 
People change but than there are those that can hide things very well...which is why you have to be careful about who you trust. 🙂
 
Ok so how can you figure out if someone changed or was really always like that
 
Civic_Si_Gina

It's either time that tells that or human instinct. 🙂 Some people can read others really well. 😉 That is why you must ALWAYS keep the guards up and study that person you give your trust too.

Take it from me...someone can hide their colors REALLY well. Like Krystal said you have to be careful. 🙂

-antonio
 
Hmmmmm that's hard to say...I guess you'd have to go back and think about the times you spent with that person and really analyze their actions and stuff.
 
Yeah I've thought back...that's why it makes no sense :crap
 
But I tell you this much...those that hide it really deep...never stay on their own two feet.

-ant
 
Remember sometimes our own actions make people change. Sometimes without us even realizing it we could influence people and they could change either for good or for the bad. So it’s not ONLY a question of if people change because they hide it, insteractions causes things to change.

Look at it from this point: When you throw a pebble in the pond...
Who caused the ripples, the rock or the person that threw the rock???

I think we all change from time to time and we are influenced by others too.
 
Gina just remember...

As Lao Tsu observed, "To be great is to go forward, to go forward is to travel far, to travel far is to return home."

See what I'm saying? :spliff
 
The only person I know who changed was my ex husband and that was after I left him which was too late and even then some of the old still remained. I think sometimes we get so caught up in what we want to see on that vision of perfection, on wanting to believe we have found that which we can call our own that we don't realize we tend to build people up never really seeing them for who they truly are. You can live beautiful moments with a person, because thats what they are beautiful moments as we live them, but what we tend to think is change in a person is just change in what surrounds us and the believeing that this person was all WE wanted them to be and not what they have awlays been. I believe people can change but you can't dwell on it happening whats the point when if you love them you will always see them differently. 😀
 
Sexyangel329 said:
... I think sometimes we get so caught up in what we want to see on that vision of perfection, on wanting to believe we have found that which we can call our own that we don't realize we tend to build people up never really seeing them for who they truly are. You can live beautiful moments with a person, because thats what they are beautiful moments as we live them, but what we tend to think is change in a person is just change in what surrounds us and the believeing that this person was all WE wanted them to be and not what they have awlays been. I believe people can change but you can't dwell on it happening whats the point when if you love them you will always see them differently. 😀

I like your thoughts on this too. :fkinaman
 
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