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Naturalstyle said:
Thanks 4 the advice Nessa.

It's tough either way.
it is sweetie, but to be real........will u be ready to handle her wanting to get serious if ur not or vice versa. she's still a kid remember that. don't get me wrong there are the few exceptions w/ good heads on their shoulders but the majority now-a-days aren't like that.....
 
What everyone says is true.... she is too young but IF You're gonna go for it ....atleast be honest
 
Oldest: when I was 18 he was 23 or 24...it actually was a relationship but only for a few months

Youngest:when I was 20 he was 19 and it started of casual but became a relationship that ended not too long ago actually
 
Oldest, she was 28, I was 18...and casual.....youngest, she was 14 and I was 17, ended up becoming my wife 6 years later, then exwife.
 
To Heavenly and Nessa!

You are ALL right and I feel you. I am in NO WAY twisting her arm or trying to seduce her. I am very respectful of her and when I'm not thinking "Damn, she's hot" all I want to do is hug her and protect her.

I AM being careful for both of us, but if anyone's gonna get hurt is me 'cuz I think if I kiss her my heart's gonna come out of my chest.

I think SHE is more casual than me. I think she sees me more like a conquest (which is fine -w- me).

And I am in NO position to get into a relationship. I still need time to sort out all of my feelings about my wife, life, etc.

Hangin' -w- her is cool, and that's where it is now. She knows I find her attractive, and she asks if she could come over so I'm like (oh no...what's next?).

It's a good place to be if you're me, but the age difference gives me pause. I asked the question about "age" to see if any of you have ever been in this situation.
 
I was 39 when I dated a 24 yr old.. we dated almost 6 months..

Oldest- my ex husband- I was 19 and he was 22. We were married for 14 yrs..

As far as Natural..nothing wrong w/ going out and having fun if you know your boundaries. If you feel the attraction will take u further then just proceed w/ caution. Dating sucks! Im glad i'm married again..
 
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