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Thats right doos. This sorry ass Mutha Fuc*er wouldnt even buy his daughter a easter basket just because he bought her clothes the day before. He only sees her on the weekends and he makes a big fuc*kin deal out of a fuc*in basket. Im not sorry to say I HATE MY BABY DADDY! I GOT NO LOVE FOR HIM, NOT ANYMORE 😡
 
You know i was just thinking that all you guys are telling me that he shouldn't make me cry and that i should't cry over him, but what about what i did to him? I cheated on him. So what about that? 😕
 
yo you know what , what you did was something that everyone does and thats in the past you cant mix wat happened in the past w/ the future you gotta keep lookin straight so if that is always going to be the effect of things in wat you did than thats nonsense
but for real thats a natural instinct that everybody goes through everybody has tricked on someone b-4
or will eventually do it

so freestylegoddess keep keepin ya head up 🙂
 
FreestyleGoddess 😕

I dont understand? Do you have a Low Self esteem? Why are you starting to blame yourself for tears that he has caused you? How old are you? are you new to this? I dont know I guess it takes alot of experience to get over things like this? Come on you a "WOMAN" So what you cheated on him. its obvious your relationship wasnt that good, so............. he gets what he deserves. sh*t be happy you cheated on him. at least you did something to hurt him!
 
No!!! The relationship was too good for even words to explain. I just slipped and went into temptation. I'm 18. I'm not all that new to this. I have cheated on a guy before only cause he was an ass. But Rich was something different. I'm not blaming myself, but I did have a lot of fault in this. And yeah i do have a low self esteem. 🙁
 
GIRLY I WAS WHERE YOU WERE BUT THE MAN WASNT GOOD TO ME BUT PAIN IS PAIN. I HAD LOW SELF ESTEEM AND THATS WHY I STOOD WITH HIM FOR SO LONG, MY FRIENDS AND SISTER GOT ME THROUGH IT ALL THOUGH SO I THANK GOD FOR THEM BUT LISTEN MAMA WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO YOURSELF IS NOT GOOD YOU NEED TO LET GO AND MOVE ON. YOU ARE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF BY BLAMING YOURSELF YOU FELL INTO TEMPTATION SO THERE HAS TO BE A REASON FOR THAT BUT DONT TRIP ON IT SO YOU MADE A MISTAKE DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP ABOUT IT ASKING YOURSELF WHY YOU DID IT . MAMA MOVE ON WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE AND WHAT FEELS LIKE WILL NEVER STOP HURTING WILL YOU ARE 18 YOU HAVE A WHOLE WORLD OF ROMANCE AHEAD OF YOU. I KNOW ITS HARD BELIEVE ME WHAT I WENT THROUGH CANNOT REALLY BE DESCRIBED IN WORDS, BUT LOOK AT ME NOW IM CHILLIN I BUILT MY SELF ESTEEM AND REALIZED KNOW MAN WHO HURTS ME DESERVES ME OR THE LOVE I HAVE TO GIVE. SOMETIMES THE TEARS ARE HARD TO STOP FROM FALLING BUT FROM EXPIERIENCE THEY DO STOP. MUCH LOVE GIRLY 🙂
 
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I helped her get through this........... SO believe me I know exactly what Im talking about. Move on and stop crying and dwelling over one nigga. this is one in a million. you know how the saying goes "theres plenty of fish in the sea" your prince charming will come one day,....... which by the way Im still waiting for mine 😉.(LOL)
 
YES SHE DEFFINITLY HELPED ME GET THROUGH THAT AND A LOT MORE. I FOUND IT SO MUCH EASIER TO GET THROUGH WHEN I SURROUNDED MYSELF WITH MY FRIENDS BECAUSE THEY KEPT MY MIND OFF OF THE PAIN HE PUT ME THROUGH I WASNT HURTING FOR HIM BUT OVER THE REALIZATION OF EVERYTHING HE PUT ME THROUGH IT WAS LIKE THE CLOUDS HAD BEEN LIFTED AND I SAW EVERYTHING FOR WHAT IT REALLY WAS. MAMA GO OUT HAVE SOME FUN CALL A FEW FRIENDS OVER ANYTHING TO GET YOUR MIND OFF OF IT AND EVENTUALLY THE PAIN WILL FADE. 🙂 SASSY ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU LUV YA LOCA.
 
You guys are making it seem like he is the one that did wrong! He isn't. I am. I love him til death. I stopped crying for him, but I still miss him. There is just something about him that I got to loving. I know I should move on and little by little I am. I learn to let go a little more each day. If he comes back to me one day I will be happy like I was before, but honestly I don't think I would go back with him if he did. It just wouldn't be the same and I have to learn that all good things come to an end. But he isn't an ass. He is one of those good guys that every girl wants. I just didn't know it until it was too late. I thought I wanted my ex. Bad mistake that i learned from. But I left that in the past and maybe I should leave Rich there too. And one day he will be my past and in the present and future there will be somebody better for me.
 
OK GIRLY SO HE DIDNT MESS UP, BUT IT IS UNFAIR FOR YOU TO TORTURE YOURSELF OVER WHAT YOU DID. YOU ARE ONLY HUMAN ALL I AM SAYING IS DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP ABOUT IT. YOU DONT DESERVE TO PUT ANYMORE PAIN ON YOURSELF. WHEN THINGS ARE MEANT TO BE THEY WILL BE. I DONT KNOW YOU BUT YOU SEEM LIKE A SWEET GIRL WANTING WHAT JUST ABOUT EVERY WOMAN WANTS A GOOD MAN IN YOUR CASE YOU HAD ONE BUT SLIPPED UP. IT DOESNT MEAN YOU WONT HAVE IT AGAIN. BELIEVE ME I KNOW WHAT IM SAYING YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU SEE THAT THERE IS A LIGHT IN THE END. TAKE CARE GIRLY. 🙂 DRY THOSE TEARS FOR YOU.
 
OKAY...HOLD ON

Freestylegoddess.........honey.......... QUEEN LATIFA said it best in UNITY........I think you are young and have a life full of possiblities ahead of you........but first you need to find what you love and what you want out of life ........then the man will come......I am not going to lie...i am a cry baby...so I am not gonna tell you he's not worth your tears...but I will say NEVER EVER LET HIM SEE THEM.........you sound like you have a lot of issues to work out inside yourself......I hope he is not why you are moving........cause believe me it does not work!!!!!!!!!!

The love that you feel for him is emptiness and lonliness....because if you really loved him....you would of let someone else in

Martini we should share our secret!!!!!!!!!

MEN SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Honestly he is partly the reason that i want to move, but not all the reason. I need to know what is out there for me and maybe I'll find what i really need somewhere else. I need a change in my life.😛
 
OK. I see the problem now. You are young. That's it. Eventually you'll learn that it is not healthy to cry and obsess over a guy at your age. You need to find yourself before you can totally love someone. I know that may sound like a tired line, but beeeelieve me -- it's true! Don't take this the wrong way, but you are obviously inexperienced in the relationship dept. and that's sooo not a bad thing. It's natural -- you're going to experience a lot more. You have to. I started a relationship when I was 17 and we just broke up 3 mths ago, I'm 21 now. We had the perfect relationship... never fought...lots of love...blah blah. I cheated on him 2 yrs ago and felt miserable. Never did it again, but also never felt the same way about him. Things did not get better. We pretended that everything was dandy when really we were tired of each other. It happened naturally. We grew apart, just like you would with friends. I still love him and miss him, but it's like a stored love. It will always be there. But just because you love someone doesn't mean you should be together. I might not be making sense to you, but I know what I'm saying. lolll. You just have to experience more girlie. Otherwise, you'll regret it, like I did.... and you'll miss out and lose your identity.
 
I understand what you are saying. I am still young and i need to experience more. But I'm not too young to know that i do love him right? and like i have said before, i'm trying to move on and little by little i am. the problem is he is always on my mind. So that holds me back a little. Thanx for the words. Much love.😛
 
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