Could you forgive??

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Okay peep's here's the situation: What would you do if you fell for someone and were trying to hook up with that person for a meaningful relationship and someone who was a good friend you grew up with tried to get that person and even kissed that person behind your back? What if that friend was nasty at 1st with you and said you weren't going out and it was fair game, and much later they tried to appologize but still didn't see their wrong. Also you did not hook up with that person in the end because of some stuff. I am finding it very hard to try and forgive. It's been month's since I've spoken or hungout and I had a couple of dreams of a confrontation and still couldn't forgive. To me it was disrespect and dishonor. He knew I had feeling's for her and told me to forget about her. I was with her hangingout and stuff for a few months but knew her for 2 years.Then I found out he was trying to see her behind my back. She dissed him cause she didn't want him and thing's eventually got bad with me and her. He cursed at me immaturly through the internet in the beginning. I did not lower myself to his level. He has somewhat tried through the months. I still can't find myself to forgive him though. What would you do???
 
Well judging by the silence I guess I got my answer. It's what I've been feeling. I will not forgive. Even though we grew up together. Even if a mutual friend want's us to talk again, it's not going to happen. I felt our friendship was fizzling anyway. So that's it. He and she are in the past. Even though I have relic's of what was. It is over. I am moving forward and leaving the crap behind to fester in it's own bile! No more drama!!! 😡
 
Water under the bridge babes, you can't let yourself spend another mooment thinking of them and the situation ,cause your life is passin gyou by babyboy😉
 
I will not forgive.
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FG, I'm sorry to hear about all the non-sense bro. That would make me mad/angry also. But I think you should Forgive him. That doesn't mean you have to start talking to him again, or share anymore information. But just to be on a Good *Tip. You know? I know another fine lady will come into your life, if she hasn't come already. So keep your mind at ease man, and keep on Freestylin'. 🙂

True Love 4 Always!

Rolando,
 
Rolando thank's for the kind words bro!! I hear ya but.... I also know I can't really do that now. If I ever bump into him I won't curse at him. I will say what's up, and keep thing's brief. It is over for me. I will treat her the same if I ever bump into her. It is over! As for that special lady?? Well I believe she is not here. I think when I move to Florida(next year) is where I will find her. In the meantime I have friends and family and my CF peep's!!! 😉
 
You know it!

And be sure to let us know about her, once you two meet, or hook it up. 😉
 
I will Rolando, I will!!! I sure hope I find my Soul Mate there. So far I haven't found her up here. All that comes my way are Ditzes, Non english speaking girls I have nothing in common with, Very young girls, And girls that have the qualities I'm looking for but have boyfriends! And then there are the unworthy one's who seem good but are really deceptive creatures! Anything else is just friends. Arrrrgh!! Oh well, I guess I just have to wait. In the meantime I have a carreer to create. Much nub to my CF peep's!!😉
 
FreestyleGod said:
And then there are the unworthy one's who seem good but are really deceptive creatures!
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😱 Sowwy to hear that you met some chicks like that
 
ARRRRGGH!!!!!!

ARRRRGGH!!!!!! Okay I'm annoyed and stressed now!!!!😡 Just the other day my younger bro went to play baseball with our cousin and guess who show's up unexpectedly?!? My ex-friend!! He spoke to my brother briefly and asked about me. My brother didn't want to speak to him because he know's what happened. He spoke to him briefly because of the game situation. That ex-friend also bumped into my other brother and they talked. He still kinda see's his view of what happened. Today his ex-girlfriend who I am still friends with email's me and tell's me she spoke to him and he want's to talk to me and gave his number. I DON"T WANT TO TALK TO HIM!!!! I feel I'm being forced here and I don't like it!!! Our friendship is over!! I don't know what to do!?!! ARRRRGH!!!!!😡
 
Change your number, email address.....ooooh I got it: Send them a Freestyle singing telegram!!! Have her sing What Goes Around Comes Around...that oughta work!
 
Yeah Brklyn 345 I hear ya! I wish I could do that but I can't. The good news is he hasn't called or emailed me at my place. The bad news is peep's I know have been bumping into him and telling me he wan't's to talk. I have a gut feeling there may be a confrontation soon. I don't want to talk to an ex-freind who attempted to get the girl I wanted behind my back! I don't care if I ultimately didn't end up with that girl. The point is what he did!! I would have never done that to anyone!! To me it's an honor, brotherhood thing! He betrayed that. I have no interest in continuing and yet here I am. ARRRGH!!!😡
 
what ur friend did was low and disrespectful..... i seen that happen to my friends.. and though they talk cos we all hang out together.. it stops right after we all go home.

what i mean is.. though people may tell u to let it go... u wont be able to.

Though u and that girl didn't get together, the point stands.. he let that happen.

I'm sorry but I won't forget..... it's better to keep people like that away..... for the trouble sake.
 
Yes I agree!! I don't want to deal with him! I know I said earlier in this post if I bump into him I would say "what's up". In reality I rather not see him at all. I thought I would be okay. But I'm not. What happened really bothered me!! I really really cared alot for that girl and he knew it!! In the end she wasn't worth it! I guess I saw something in her that she didn't see in me. He also wasn't the friend I thought he was! I just don't want to deal with this!! Unfortunately it look's like I will have too. He will probably stop by. Oh well. 😡
 
hey dios mio!

listen babes, you don't need ppl like that in your life. although this guy may want to "talk" and still be "friends", don't let him.......u truly don't need him your life. but of course that's just my opinion.....much nub mi dios!
 
Thank's Nessa darlin!!! I did get 2 messages on my voice mail from him recently. He still want's to talk. I don't want to. But maybe to shut him up I will let him say what he's got to say and then I will truly end it there. I need to move on from this!! Thank's again Nessa!! Much nub!!!🙂
 
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