Condoning Fighting....

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in school? How many of you do? I for one don't but there are just certain situations where I feel there is a need for it....

so yesterday, my son got into a fight in school and I had to go to a parent/teacher/principal conference. of course they quick to jump down my throat dique violence is not condoned in the Osceola County School district let alone in their school blazey bla bla bla so b4 anything I wanted to talk to my son alone and find out what happened. turns out this kid been bullying him and picking on him b/c of his ecsyma....since he's just now getting over the chicken pox things are getting worse in school. so this punk pushed my son and my son popped him in the nose. he was bleeding therefore they felt the need to fill out the paperwork...ta'to but I said that I will not allow my child to be bullied. no i do not condone fighting but since MY CHILD was the one being bullied and pestered that kid got what he deserved. the other kids parents flipped saying my son had no right to put his hands on him and then I said that their son had no right to put his hands on my son FIRST! i've taught my children never to throw the first punch but so help me if they do get sucker punched they better have knocked the other kid out pq si no God help them that I'll be showing them how its done on them....anywho - what do u guys think?
 
nessa, i have taught my children the same thing........do not put your hands on anyone first, but if someone touches you, you better fight back. I'm sorry, but if your child doesn't defend themself, they will continue to be bullied. You are not wrong at all. Good for your son for sticking up for himself. 😉
 
I don't condone fighting, but no child should be bullied.

If the other kid wanted to pick on your son, he has to pay the consequences.
 
Don't condone it either but if someone lays a hand on my child he knows he has to defend himself. Is your lil one OK?
 
I am teachign Tavian that now cause he is rough he plays rough because he isnt around other kids I dotn condone fighting but I am going to teach my son is someone hits you you hit them back . In schoole the kids are supposed to be supervised if someone is bullying a child they should tell the teacher if the teacher does nothing then pop em 🙂
 
Guy or Girl , you touch my kid knock them the *uck out! been there already, they had to nerve to call me at work talkign bout my son has the girl in a head lock, so I said oh yeah, how about when the girl and her two classmates took his glasses threw them out and ganged up on him in the stairwell? I said I hope she was unconcious too! I went to pick him up he got suspended, but I fought until the girl got suspended too and the other two little pricks as well. after that they knew better than to call me, unless it was an extreme emergency!

GO NATE! GO NATE!
 
I agree...My mom taught us never to hit anyone. But should someone hit us she gave us "permission" to defend ourselves...

I had a similar situation...my sister used to get bullied all the time cuz she was quiet and really smart...it went on for years and then one day I just snapped and ended up severly injuring some girl...I got kicked out of skool for that I was 16yrs old when it happened...my mom was livid cuz here this girls were pushing my sis against the lockers I defend her and get expelled and everyone else got nada...skools are fuked up...they pick sides.
 
Hey yoli yeah he's good, nate didn't get nothing but the other boy got a bloody nose :whistle

y aqui ta la otra cheering him on ROFLMFAOOOO I told him what titi naya said and he got all red....wanted to hear ur CD all the way HOME! ROFLMFAOOOOOOOOOOo

thx everyone for ur input and ummm sa ur just a trouble maker ROFLMFAO J/K MA good thing u kicked her ass!
 
I was bullied so much in elemantary school so when I got to junior high I was like f**k that and I became a bully myself...so I beat up this kid, and he complained to the principal. Instead of expulsion or suspension, my punishment was that I had to protect the very kid I beat up from the other bullies for the rest of the school year! THAT was embarassing LOL!!
 
nessa's302 said:
thx everyone for ur input and ummm sa ur just a trouble maker ROFLMFAO J/K MA good thing u kicked her ass!
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I am not :angel
 
Hey Nessa......Personally I have done the same as many others, I tell my son, never be the first to lay a hand.....But with the way things work in school its hard.....so I tell him that if no one is around and someone pushes u or something....drop to the floor and start screaming bloody mary like they nearly killed you so they are the ones to get in trouble.....there's a little prick in my son's grade whose mom is the PA president so he thinks he can get away with everything......the kid once went to go punch Jason's friend, so Jay stepped in and took the hit......and then punched him back....lol.....just the other day the kid tells my son lets fight when we get outside....he did good, he went and told the principal.....i told my son, since we are movin in a few months lets wait until we are almost outta here and then if he lays a finger on you, knock him out.......i try to tell him to keep his hands to himself but sometimes you just gotta let ppl know......especially with this kid, he thinks he can run the world......i cant wait for my son, i mean reality to hit him hard......i know its bad but these little sh8ts think they can run a muck and just push ppl around.....i dont know what it is about boys, but there is never a conflict that doesnt end without a fight.....i've been to the principals office quit a few times over the years.....my son is pretty patient with other kids, but only to a certain degree.....if ur bothering him, he will first tell u to leave him alone....like 5 times......if u dont, then he will make u......and ive explained this to the principal......they just dont have enuf staff to keep an eye on all the kids when they are in the yard during lunch....
nessa.....i especially tell him never to do anything more than the other kid has done to him......next time, just tell ur son to drop and scream and then he can have the last laugh when the kid is getting in trouble.....
 
Go Nate!!! DAMN STRAIGHT HE DID GOOD. AND IF THEY FUK WITH HIM AGAIN HE NEED TO LET THEM KNOW NOT TO FUK WITH HIM OR ELSE!.
 
Good for you!....I hear ya....same here.....

When my son was 7 or so (2nd grade) I was in school everyday cause he was fearing some kid that was bullying him during pick up. He would hang onto my leg and cry....the security would let me in b efore 9 cause she knew all I had to do is get him to class and he would calm down.....this happened for weeks.... i went to see the principal the asst principal, his father did too......i put him in karate and all...so he can know how to defend himself....his father and his uncles were teaching him what to do .... whick is hit this sucker.....he was in an higher grade too....one time he was coming into the school and my son pointed him out....but i missed him....i ran inside and there he was standing...i went up to him and told him.....why are you bother him..(my son) he was an asian kid......he stood shut...i told him, you want me to tell your mother.....he walked away....my son continued with his cries....i guess he continued....but one day my son woke up.....when he was bullying him....he kicked him on the shin.....he never bothered him again.

I always tell him, dont start but dont stay hit.....if your pushed in the halls by mistake its no biggy but do not stay hit if its an intended push.

One time his excuse to his teacher was "my mom told me if they h it me to hit them back" LMAO
 
You did the right thing Nessa 😉 No kid likes to be suckered or bullied around. :nono

Now it's your son's turn to bully his enemy! :stoned j/k
 
that little sh8t i told ya'll about tried to trip jay at lunch today......so when jay went to move his foot, the kid kicked him in the balls....i went to speak to the principal and she said she has spoken to everyone involved and that they should just stay away from each other.....wtf..... i told her im gonna be at the school 3 days a week during lunch to supervise from now on......and as for jay, he's been given the green light to do what he needs to do within reason to let the kid know that this isnt gonna fly....as long as the kid does something to him first.....anything else happens and im writing a letter to the department of education to notify them that because this kids mother is the PA president, he is never reprimanded for his actions.....
 
Those same bullies are the bullies you find in the workplace, believe it or not. And its only because their parents didn't teach them that its wrong to bully other people. Those same assholes work in the corporate world. And still as an adult, I find myself standing my ground with tough skin against these sucker cowards. Anyway, I don't condone fighting, but if someone puts their hands on you, you have every right to knock them the phuck out. I know I do, and if I have kids in the future, I will teach them the same thing, but they can always come to me if they need help in knocking someone the phuck out lol. Seriously, especially in the world these days, you need to have tough skin.
 
imfromqueenz said:
that little sh8t i told ya'll about tried to trip jay at lunch today......so when jay went to move his foot, the kid kicked him in the balls....i went to speak to the principal and she said she has spoken to everyone involved and that they should just stay away from each other.....wtf..... i told her im gonna be at the school 3 days a week during lunch to supervise from now on......and as for jay, he's been given the green light to do what he needs to do within reason to let the kid know that this isnt gonna fly....as long as the kid does something to him first.....anything else happens and im writing a letter to the department of education to notify them that because this kids mother is the PA president, he is never reprimanded for his actions.....
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If it were me, I'd just go there to scare the living daylights out of that bully...and if the bully's parents want to try and pop some shit, kick their ass too lol. I also feel like the schools don't know how to handle bullying properly. Its like they don't take it seriously. So I feel like the parents have to take matters into their own hands. But I would scare the bully for fun :dgrin .
 
I agree 100% with the way you & your son handled it... 🙂 Never start the fight, but always defend yourself.... 🙂
 
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