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You wouldn't have to struggle in the first place if you would've taken the time to get to know your man before having the kids. Do whatever the phuck you want to do.....but don't make a kid in the process until YOU KNOW for a FACT that things will go ok. Once the kid is born, then things (other than your relationship that you claim is serious) are for a FACT serious. Like it or not. It's another ball game. And a child deserves better.
 
Mysterious, go to another thread because you don't know the deal. This is a sore subject and no one ever can predict the out come of a relationship. My ex lost her god damn mind and I ended up w/ custody with a huge fight. My main purpose is my daughter and my son and I want the $ from my ex to go to my daughter for college. Too bad my ex can't grow up for my daughter's sake, but watch how you attack people.
 
Attack wasn't my purpose. You do what you gotta do and take care of yours. This message goes out to anyone. Not just you. Especially those who haven't had kids.

If we were more secure of ourselves and the things we do then things like this wouldn't happen.
 
I agree you have no idea about what its like to be a single parent and raising him/her by yourself... I new the father of my daughter since high school, we were best friends, but understand this, best friends can turn out to be big assholes just like an enemy can turn out to be your friend. This world and people change everyday so for you to say that people in our situation need to learn about the person we are with before kids come into the picture, well i agree, but that doesnt mean people dont change into something totally oposite of what we new and LEARNED.
Im not looking for drama/argument so dont take it like this M.D like dave g said its a touchy post. I dont think your opinion on this matter means anything exspecially if its negative towards anyone who's in a situation like this.
Thank you for your time.................
 
Are you guys saying that you don't have control over your own choices??? Cuz that's all I hear but the wording come's out different.
 
Ok, I understand that shit happens. Ok. Right. BUT.......this is going on back and forth, back and forth. Single parent's everywhere. I mean come on.........wake up!!!!!! Soon the gov't is going to treat this as a natural thing. People are going to look at it as a natural thing. That kids shouldn't have 2 different genders as a figure in their life. lolz
 
I have control, but somethings are beyond our control, like my ex trying to lock me up to take away my child and get funds fron the state to live for free. Meanwhile I'm sitting in a cell for something I didn't do. The system takes all control from you and it's hard to come back especially from lies. In my case my ex had full control because she used the system to get my daughter and because she had my daughter, she had control over me. This is what you were talking about, using the child. But to me it's not a control thing. I'll say it again, I just want what's fair! I do appriciate all of your input, just do it in a well manner. Thanks!
 
Dave G> said:
I have control, but somethings are beyond our control, like my ex trying to lock me up to take away my child and get funds fron the state to live for free. Meanwhile I'm sitting in a cell for something I didn't do. The system takes all control from you and it's hard to come back especially from lies. In my case my ex had full control because she used the system to get my daughter and because she had my daughter, she had control over me. This is what you were talking about, using the child. But to me it's not a control thing. I'll say it again, I just want what's fair! I do appriciate all of your input, just do it in a well manner. Thanks!
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You should've thought about that before having a kid. Before taking the relationship further. This sounds like a psycho to me.
 
Are you in any relation to Nostradamus? I never new of another that could predict how the future will turn out... Keep me posted!
again Thanks for your time..........
 
The point is.........

For men: no matter how good the p***y is.........if a bitch is a bitch......she will always be a bitch.

For women: you shouldn't be so sensitive to a man's words. they're just words. make sure action comes along with their words.
 
NY_Beauty said:
Are you in any relation to Nostradamus? I never new of another that could predict how the future will turn out... Keep me posted!
again Thanks for your time..........
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I've been in two serious relationships. Out of the two, as much as I wanted to, I never had kids. Trust is something very important to me. And I go to an extent as far as trust is concerned depending on the individual.

But i'm still living with a dream and I still know that I will find that one girl that will never leave me nor would I leave her. And with her, is who I would have my kids with.


Thanks for calling me Nostradamus. I know I pissed you off. But you guys piss me off more. It's not just one or two that get's to me. But it's numerous. Numerous failed relationships with kids caught in the middle.....they dont even deserve it. Everywhere I look there's a single parent. I'm like wtf is going on???
 
We all wish for a perfect life. My situation got very complicated and in the long run this looked out for me (as far as getting custody) ,but I moved on. I have a fiance and a son by her. Maybe this life will work out, it has already. I mean in my past, my divorce lasted longer than my relationship. LOL!
 
Mysterious, I know you want to be all about the kids and that's great, but as parents, we already established that our kids come first. I'm talking about the system and our rights. If you don't like the way we lived our lives, then move on w/ yours. You seem to be getting all bent out of shape.
 
You didnt piss me of M.D your ignorance did, when you came up in here talking about shit you have no clue about... everyone is looking for that "Perfect" someone dont you think some of us thought and believed we found them until one day out of nowhere it all falls apart. My daughter deserves the best as she has it and thats me, a mother who puts her before myself. I couldnt offer her anything more that what I have. and what I have is a love bigger then I can contain. I voiced my opinion on this topic, and now I am done............... M.D I hope you do find and have your fairytale, I do wish you the best really, but dont down anyone in a situation like this when you dont know what its all about, till it does and hopefully not happen to you.
 
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You didnt piss me of M.D your ignorance did, when you came up in here talking about shit you have no clue about... everyone is looking for that "Perfect" someone dont you think some of us thought and believed we found them until one day out of nowhere it all falls apart. My daughter deserves the best as she has it and thats me, a mother who puts her before myself. I couldnt offer her anything more that what I have. and what I have is a love bigger then I can contain. I voiced my opinion on this topic, and now I am done............... M.D I hope you do find and have your fairytale, I do wish you the best really, but dont down anyone in a situation like this when you dont know what its all about, till it does and hopefully not happen to you.
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I know it wont happen to me because I actually listened to my parents and know what I want. I'm 26 years old.

I will never find myself in that situation. So I will never know the aftermaths btw. But I will try and help those out there to stop it before it happens. Like me or not.
 
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