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Well...I had a little situation where I am involved with someone that I really care about and an ex from my past started writing to me. Old feelingz came with her letter, and it confused me for a while, but I read all the advice from some ppls here at CF in a previous thread I posted and some of the advice was very well written and greatly appreciated, but I have come to a decision.
:idea I have an idea...I am going to bone the s*it out of my ex-girlfriend. Please dont be mad at me ladies...it aint no disrespect to any of you...in fact if you were in my situation I'd encourage you to do the same. I took the advice from a married woman who is a good friend of mind, and she iz absolutly right, I am only 20 yrs old, and I am not married yet so I might as well just get it all outta my system now cause when I am married I will regret passing up my youth...so the decision is made. When my ex comes back to Massachusetts next month she is going to get a greeting that she will never 4get!! :biggrin
 
So then you don't really care about the girl you have now????????
 
Ghost said:
Well, I do have feelings 4 my ex but I dont want a relationship with her, I just want to reminisce about what was so great about our relationship which just happened to be the sex
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and the girl you are with now?????? You dont think she is going to go along with this idea, do ya??
 
Ghost said:
Nah, you crazy...my friend that gave me the advice told me that what she dont know wont hurt her...and yes I do care about her, and I am going to stay with her...Like I said I just want to have a one night stand with my ex...
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Ok Brah!! More power to ya! But... can I give you a dollars worth of free advice.... This girl you are with now, the whole, what she dont know wont hurt her thing.... it doesnt work that way in the real life brah!!! But its good you are so honest and upfront... Hope it works out for you in the end.. it usually never does, but maybe for you it will.. who knows...
 
what your going to do will be a big mistake, one because if you are with someone now, who you think is great, why tempt fate and botch it up? because everything in the end is always found out..an example, I was with my ex for four years right? one day things didn't seem to be on the up and up, so I did some checking only to find out that in those four years that I gave this guy my everything, he had cheated on me with his ex and had a kid with her, by the time I came to find out the kid was 2 years old already.. so for two years he was just boning his ex, because she was ok with that, meanwhile I felt like they tore my heart out and left it to dry.

think about it good, it's not a good feeling to be on the end of that, and in the end, what goes around comes around.
 
I think you should think long and hard if you really care about this girl. How do you really feel about her? It doesn't seem like love, because you wouldn't have any desire to be untrue. If this is what you're planning, sooner or later the truth will come out, so think twice if there may be a future with your girl. If you really do care, think about how she feels...
 
I will think about it...I have a month to process this. Again, Im only 20 yrs old and if i do bone my ex, it aint gonna be more than once... I kno that for a fact.Well, we'll find out if shit falls into place...I'll keep u all posted...
 
Whether it's your ex or someone else, it's still ya girl you aint boning...yeah at 20 you got your whole life ahead of you and ya want to get it out your system, but that doesn't give you the right to do it at someone else's expense....I say tell ya girl about it BEFORE you do it..ya never know, cuz she could be going thru the same thing and keeping it on the DL from YOU.
 
Brklyn345 said:
Whether it's your ex or someone else, it's still ya girl you aint boning...yeah at 20 you got your whole life ahead of you and ya want to get it out your system, but that doesn't give you the right to do it at someone else's expense....I say tell ya girl about it BEFORE you do it..ya never know, cuz she could be going thru the same thing and keeping it on the DL from YOU.
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yeah be a man and tell her... she might be into the menage-toi thing... :zoots
 
Yeah...seeing someone exclusively but not married....that's a gray area, I know cuz I've been through it...but what's gonna happen if you bone your ex and it's like WHOA! and you decide you want her back? Buddy I was only a few years older than you going through your exact scenario...and it totally doomed the relationship I had....could it be that maybe you arent happy with your girl and looking for an out?
 
Ghost said:
I dont think its that Im unhappy with her...its more like, Im unhappy with the situation we're in...I feel she doesnt have time 4 me anymore
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Well if you discuss that with her than maybe yall can come to some sort of decision.. That way then maybe you will be free (really free) to do whatever it is you want to do with your ex. :yeey
 
Ghost said:
I dont think its that Im unhappy with her...its more like, Im unhappy with the situation we're in...I feel she doesnt have time 4 me anymore
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I don't quite think that it means for youto go out and do something stupid like that... let her know what your feeeling.. and if the situation ain't just working out for you two then let go of each other and time will tell. then you can have the chance to do the ex. thing but only if you's ain't together. let me see question how would you like it if she was doing that to youuuuuu??????? HHHHHHUUUUUMMMMM???? think about it.....
 
Adriana said:
I don't quite think that it means for youto go out and do something stupid like that... let her know what your feeeling.. and if the situation ain't just working out for you two then let go of each other and time will tell. then you can have the chance to do the ex. thing but only if you's ain't together. let me see question how would you like it if she was doing that to youuuuuu??????? HHHHHHUUUUUMMMMM???? think about it.....
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AMEN to Adriana...
 
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