cant change lol

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Edalgiere

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some of u all know i was going to try to change things about my personality guess i cant be something i am not all i want is to find some one to spend time with preferably female was that so wrong ? but do not want to alienate my friends have to figure on what to do
 
Krystal said:
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Change for yourself Ed...not for anyone else. That NEVER works.
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see if i did it for my self i like the way i am but until recently had nothing to show for it thats why i figured a change was nessasary but so far a friend doesnt like it so i am not sure of what to do
 
Ed? Were this person a true friend...they would support you no matter what. If they don't like the change then that's on them! NOT on you! If you're happy with it...rock on! 😉

Monaaaaaaa! Thank you! I try ya know? :lol
 
anytime you try to change for someone, it won't last. It's not gonna stick, because it was done for the wrong reason.

As for your friend who doesn't like the "new" you, any true friend would accept you as you are 100%. That is the only way to be a friend. If they are criticizing you for changes, they aren't not the friends they present themselves as.
 
it was not to change for some one but for a reason right now my life is becoming a living hell once again just as soon as things seems to start falling into place something comes and !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it up once again my mom has what they call b cell lymphma and there not giving me any details
 
Edalgiere said:
it was not to change for some one but for a reason right now my life is becoming a living hell once again just as soon as things seems to start falling into place something comes and !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it up once again my mom has what they call b cell lymphma and there not giving me any details
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Ed!!! Very Sorry to hear that!!! You and your Mom are in my prayers.

Peace my brother!
 
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