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Hello my CF peeps well let me tell you my lil story. Well like almost a year ago i had broke up wit my long time Girlfriend or as i like to call her "la sucia" well i found out she was Fuc*** my best friend or as I like to call him "el cabron" while she was still wit me. So after I found dat out it was over. Than I was alone till like this past may me and this special someone was mad close and we was doin our thing. Than i found out this person was seeing my own enemy at da same time as they were wit me.
I mean I get hurt all da time why me Im not a bad person am i 2 blind 2 see.

So I have this question if any of yaw been played and what did you do after?
Also is there like any way 2 tell a playa from a faithful person?😕 🙄
 
WOW CHAOS that is F*** Up! I'm so sorry to hear that, but maybe its best you found out NOW then later. I too have been screwed over many times, but I took it in and held my head up high. First I would like to say.....I don't think it's YOU not at all!!! Maybe it has to do on the girls you choose to date and the friends you choose to hang out with. Just be careful next time you start dating......damn I'm sowwy but I am at loss of words.....Can I just kick her arse??? WOuld be soooo much easier and probaly make you feel alot better......LMFAO
 
WELL SWEETY I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED. LISTEN SWEETY YOU ARE STILL YOUNG MY ADVICE TO YOU IS DO YOUR THANG. BABY I WAS 15 WHEN I GOT INVOLVED WITH MY EX AND I WAS WITH HIM FOR 8 YEARS DOWN FOR HIM THROUGH SOME REAL SHIT TO REALIZE I NEVER LOVED HIM IM 24 NOW AND I HAVE BEEN OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP FOR TWO YEARS NOW AND I MET THIS ONE GUY THE FIRST GUY I WAS FEELING FOR REAL FOR THE FIRST TIME AFTER MY EX AND HE HAS HURT ME NOT INTENTIONALLY BUT HE DID AND I CANT FRONT IM STILL FEELING HIM BUT THIS IS ALL BESIDES THE POINT THE POINT IS SWEETY YOU CAN NEVER TELL WHO IS A PLAYER AND WHO IS NOT THATS WHY I ALWAYS KEEP MY GUARD UP BUT AT THE SAME TIME SOMETIMES PEOPLE DO THINGS UNINTENTIONALLY AND YEAH IT WAS WRONG FOR THIS GIRL TO DO YOU THE WAY SHE DID BUT HOLD NO REMORSE TOWARDS HER LEARN FROM YOUR EXPIERIENCE PAPA THAT IS WHAT WILL MAKE YOU THAT MUCH THE WISER. DONT HATE ON THIS GIRL JUST KNOW YOU WERE REAL ABOUT YOURS AND THAT IN THE END IT IS HER LOSS NOT YOURS YOU KEPT IT FUNKY WITH HER AND IF IN RETURN TO PLAY YOU WAS HER TJING THEN SO BE IT. I KNOW IT HURTS BUT SWETY IN TIME THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG DONT RUSH IT. EVERYTHING COMES IN ITS DUE TIME SWEETY SO TAKE YOUR TIME 🙂
 
Thanx Heavenly and Sexyangel. You really opened my eye's I mean I actually cried a nigga cryin ova alil hoe . How pitiful am I but Im over it now. Thanx mama's
MUAH!😀 😉
 
Hey No Problem Chao$ thats why we're here for.....Jack trusted us Hot Mamas and I'm starting to think he was right!!!

Hey if ya need to talk Chao$ ......just say the word
 
I'm sorry! I thought that you wanted to hear about songs that had been played one too many times..."I'll Be Loving You" by Collage would have been my nominee...

Apologetically,
Harv Roman

Anyhow, you can't always tell a playa, but most of the time you can sense when something is wrong. The trust has to be developed and then you take it from there. If things go wrong, it's better to find out sooner rather than later. At least now you can start to compile a list of the traits that you won't be looking for in your next relationship. As for those so called friends, by now you ought to know that sometimes, guys don't think with the proper "h***". They can be rather selfish (as can be the ladies).

Should you take the blame? Probably not, but recognize the common traits that the last two displayed and maybe analyze how you handled things a bit. Look for common ground and then work to avoid the same roadblocks. Sooner or later, you'll get where you want to go...these are just Life's Little Lessons...you know things aren't supposed to be easy-but when it all comes together and works...Disney!
 
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CHAOS IM SORRY TO HEAR WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU. THERE IS NO WAY TO REPARE FOR A BLOW LIKE THAT. Y ADVICE TO YOU WILL BE SHORT AND SIMPLE. PLAYAS COME IN ALL DIFFERENT SHAPES AND SIZES, THEY ALL HAVE DIFFERENT WAYS TO GO ABOUT THERE LIES. SOME ARE BETTER THAN OTHERS. SO THE ONLY DEFENSE YOU CAN HAVE IS LEARN FROM YOR PAST MISTAKES. TRY TO KEEP YOUR GUARD UP UNTIL YOU KNOW FOR SURE THAT YOU CAN TRUST THAT PERSON. LOOK FOR CERTAIN SIGNS THAT MAY SHOW THEY ARE UNTRUSTWORTHY.
UNFORTANETLY LIFE SHOULDNT BE LIKE THAT BUT IT IS AD YOU HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF.
SO JUST REMEMBER TRY NT TO TRUST THE NEXT ONE SO EASILY, MAKETHEM EARN THAT TRUST FROM YOU.
HOPE THIGNS GO BETTER FOR U............
 
in words by "Pain" (freestyle group that is, hehe)

"...Time is the one thing that they say can heal wounds
In this case I would have to say they're wrong ..." (it could have been love)

hehe i had to throw that in dere since someone mention somethin about that and dat was da first thing dat came to my mind 🙂

chao$, dont worry bro, i been there and am still dere .. yer stilll young, jus let it flowwww ... 🙂
 
It's called the game of life,it seems real bad now,but you are still young,don't focus on girls now,that will all come in due time, and it's also not just the girls you choose to be with but the friends you choose as well(i know this was mentioned already,but its true!) when you get older and you start meeting women and not girls this will all be smallfries believe me you!!!!😉
 
HEY SEETY YOUR WELCOME I AGREE WITH WHOCAREZ FROM YOUR EXPIERIENCES YOU SHOULD LEARN NOT TO TRUST SO EASILY THAT PERSON HAS TO EARN IT ND WHEN YOU GIVE OF YOURSELF TO SOMEONE ALWAYS HOLD BACK A LITTLE UNTILL YOU ARE SURE YOU CAN TRUST THAT PERSON WITH ALL THAT IS YOU. ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR HEART IS THE MOST PRECIOUS THING DONT EVER LET IT GO SO EASILY MAKE SURE THAT PERSON IS WORTHY OF WHAT IS MOST PRECIOUS TO YOU SWEETY 🙂
 
Chao$.... let me tell you why you can't trust females:

" cuz a b*tch would cutt me, f*ck my homie, be a dyke and spike my hennesy... have a baby by one of my enemies... and then, then, try and be my friend?"
...be careful on how you handle the other gender
 
wish i could offer some insightful advice about relationships and how not to get played but asking me makes about as much sense as asking a blind man if a shirt makes you look fat.

hope it gets better.

peace out
 
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