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dont laugh, but i was crying, cause my doctor told me he doesnt think i should ever get pregnant again due to my heart condition. that was fine with me til i met the guy i feel is my soul mate.
also i cant hurt my son by bringing another child into my home when i am not alwys there for him now.
it just hurts that i have that yearning again and will not be able to act upon it.

so i guess the factory is closed for me. i will have to just enjoy all these cf babies.:sadsmile
 
sorry to hear that . the way things are going with me i dont think i will be a dad anytime soon . just cant find the right one true love always ends up being a backstaber in my book .
 
Damn that sucks 🙁 Aim sorry to hear that, but you never know, miracles do happen.
 
thanks. i dont want a kid now, but in a few yrs maybe. but reality just hit me hard.
 
Well First Of All Get A Second Opinion, He Says He Doesnt Think Not That You Shouldnt. Dont Give Up Hope Miralcles Do Happen Mama. If God Chooses For U To Have Another U Will. Be Strong

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sorry to hear that aim but atleast you got your prince and thats all that matters but i agree with naya miracles do happen
 
AIM...let me tell you something mama..I am a living miracle. Through God we can do it all. Maybe right now is not the time...so use this time to get to really know your soul mate and be the best mom you could be for your child.

In due time, if you want it bad enough and persevere at it enough and always keeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep your faith...you will see.

Doctors could say a million things....but if it's meant to be, nenita it's meant to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Well you have to take care of your health first. And always get different opinions from different doctors. Then you'll know if you should permanently shut down factory. Because risking your life to bring another life into this world is very serious. Something to look into with different docs.
 
Life is full of surprises and many of them have to do with heartbreaking stories. I am really sorry to hear about your situation and my prayers go out to you. I really hope that you can sit down and talk about this with your mate and discuss how this will affect your relantionship if he loves and he is truly your soul mate than there will be no problem. Each of you can be there for eachother. Believe me when I tell you that you will get through this. But don't put your life in danger because you will not only be hurting yourself but you will also hurt your little boy. All that love that you yearn to give you can give it to your son and good luck. LEAVE IT IN THE HANDS OF THE LORD.
 
o believe me i do give alot of love to my son. and my current guy says he is fine if i dont have a baby with him. he thinks of my well being. i am not reslly sure if i want to get pregnant again. it was just that the news finally hit me after seeing how great my guy is with kids. the reality set in. something i thought i didnt yearn for any more suddenly surfaced and i relized it maY never happen.
 
aim4night said:
dont laugh, but i was crying, cause my doctor told me he doesnt think i should ever get pregnant again due to my heart condition. that was fine with me til i met the guy i feel is my soul mate.
also i cant hurt my son by bringing another child into my home when i am not alwys there for him now.
it just hurts that i have that yearning again and will not be able to act upon it.

so i guess the factory is closed for me. i will have to just enjoy all these cf babies.:sadsmile
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Amy I can't see why anyone would laugh at something so serious.
 
aim4night said:
o believe me i do give alot of love to my son. and my current guy says he is fine if i dont have a baby with him. he thinks of my well being. i am not reslly sure if i want to get pregnant again. it was just that the news finally hit me after seeing how great my guy is with kids. the reality set in. something i thought i didnt yearn for any more suddenly surfaced and i relized it maY never happen.
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Mamita, its alright. we have steven. don't feel bad. i told you i understood your situation, and i am fine with it 🙂 keep your head up and smile. muahhhhh
 
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Mamita, its alright. we have steven. don't feel bad. i told you i understood your situation, and i am fine with it 🙂 keep your head up and smile. muahhhhh
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aww thank you so much papito. your words mean so much to me.
 
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