am i acctually hurting myself

[aim4night]

:sround sometimes i shut out my heart and my feelings so i will not end up getting hurt but am i acctually hurting myself ??

sometimes we feel lonely and alone. we can be single or in a relationship. sometimes we like our freedom. sometimes we want to share our specialness with someone dear.

the worst feeling is having someone and still feeling distant and alone. always remember that you have yourself and you r the most important person.
:flowery

 

[Melly22]

i feel the same way aim

 

[aim4night]

i hate feelings and when guys try for you to open them up.:tounge

 

[Orgntr1]

i hate feelings and when guys try for you to open them up.:tounge

.....Why not? They don't call it love for nothing right? The worst thing a women can do to a guy is mislead them. We give and never receive. We need feedback or were gonna think that you dont like us. Be like that Sasha chick when she once said...."i'm gonna open up my heart to you but there's one thing you cannot do......don't hurt me". .......Make yourself heard straight up. You've nothing to lose.

 

[Melly22]

.....Why not? They don't call love for nothing right? The worst thing a women can do to a guy is mislead them. We give and never receive. We need feedback or were gonna think that you dont like us. Be like that Sasha chick when she once said...."i'm gonna open up my heart to you but there's one thing you cannot do......don't hurt me". .......Make yourself heard straight up. You've nothing to lose.

easier said than done

 

[aim4night]

cause with love there is pain.

 

[Orgntr1]

Well. Then why be with someone if you gonna feel pain? You're only gonna hurt yourself and/or maybe your loved one. Love is what it is......love.

As for me....I either love you all the way or I dont. I'm straight forward like that. If I love you that means I trust you to the fullest.

 

[MonaLisa]

I think putting up a guard is natural after being hurt
Once you get to know the person and trust them you are cheating yourself out of something if you dont put it down. What you wanted could be right there but you dont wanna see it!

 

[aim4night]

true mona. my wall is up and will be . 3 months is too short of a time to let my wall down just yet.

 

[JOEDOCPA]

love is not that easy and all love brings is alot of pain . sometimies i dont know if i would be better off alone or better off with somebody my hearts been broke so many times i dont know who i can and not trust.

 

[Melly22]

hey aim are you still with that guy you told us about?? if you are how are things with him good i would hope... :makeout

 

[aim4night]

yea i am with him. he signed up for a college class that i am taking so i'll let ya know what happens. i didnt see him for 2 weeks cause of the holidays and cause he was sick. saw him yesterday and my feelings were playing gmaes with me. lol.

 

[mzcrazybtch]

Aim, I feel you girl....You can be with someone for multiples of years and still feel alone. Some shit, huh?

 

[aim4night]

thats a good point mz.

 

[Shorty3869]

I think so cuz I done it and is hard cuz the relationship dont go good and I end it up knowing that I really wanna to be with this guy and messed it up and I was lucky to work things out with him you know and still be with him but all relationship have there ups and downs you feel me ....The hard part is making it work and if you got the hang of that everything else falls into place ...

 

[dbzdb2000]

like aim said with love come pain but that how all love is. u made have the most prefect relationship and stuff but sooner or later there will be a fight then pain with come. it depend on the people and the strenthg of the relation. i might not know what im talkin about but of well lol

 

[Melly22]

yea i am with him. he signed up for a college class that i am taking so i'll let ya know what happens. i didnt see him for 2 weeks cause of the holidays and cause he was sick. saw him yesterday and my feelings were playing gmaes with me. lol.

Well i hope things stay good with you two :biggrin :biggrin

 

[aim4night]

so do i but he's in the dog house again. he CALLED SAYING HE IS SICK AGAIN.HMM MAKES ME WONDER.

 

[LABELLANJ224]

:sround sometimes i shut out my heart and my feelings so i will not end up getting hurt but am i acctually hurting myself ??

sometimes we feel lonely and alone. we can be single or in a relationship. sometimes we like our freedom. sometimes we want to share our specialness with someone dear.

the worst feeling is having someone and still feeling distant and alone. always remember that you have yourself and you r the most important person.
:flowery

I feel the same way. We have to understand that love is about taking risks of maybe ending up hurt when its over but we make those decisions. We live and we learn. Good luck.