Advise from woman not with their kids father

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Mama I feel you cuz am in there some what and am feeling like you cuz I see it we work are ass off for are kids and as much as we want to show for it we always have bills after bills plus we have to get there things first then us with thats nothing they always come first .. But mama I feel you in my side I found someone and hoping for the best and planing in moving out with him and having a family of are own with my daughter .. As for her father he just had is sec kid this month and he have a house that they just moved in and all But I see it like this no matter what me and him would of never got that far cuz I couldn't put up with his bullshit I couldn;t go out or see my mother or if I did you know when I got home I was going to hear about it or I was going to feel it cuz he used to hit me .. So in a way I see it no matter what he wouldn't change with me maybe he like that with her maybe not but with me it was a different story....

Am happy with the guy am with now we been of and on but latey everything is going good we talk more and that is the key to be open talk about everything ..

Mama I wish you the best ... Your kids look up to you no one else then you ..You are showing them no matter what you are there for them and that you are a stronger mother ... **What doesn't kill you make you stronger **

MUahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhz Keep your head up ...mama
 
Liz_Torres said:
just a thought- Have u ever thought that maybe it's not him- it's her w/ all the luxuries and she's supporting him????
he's with her BCUZ she's supporting him?
Here we are busting our asses and it seems like we're not getting anywhere.And that we have nothing to show, But I think it keeps us humble and real-
I guess whe He THINKS is love- is nothing and empty- and Our hearts are pure and filled with love to spread and share-

how that?
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omg its like you know my life lol no but on the real what you say is true thou
 
:lol

Thank you so much Ladies. It's funny how some of you, I really did not know your situations... yet, I always thought of you as strong woman. Now, I know why. Your moms.. and at one time or another, single moms.... and those who aren't moms... You have been through heartache, making you the person you are, a person I look forward to talking too. 😉

Naya, I just might have to take you and NYPRCAN up on that... :lol

It's so funny... it has taken me such a long time to get over my ex, then this. And yes, what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger... by now, I should be able to lift a tall building. lol

Believe me, I know she has the "finer" things... and a good dad.. but a faithful husband she does not have. That I know. I can not sit here and say bad things about my ex because with all the dead beat dads I see and know, I am very grateful he is my boys dad.

I am feeling better and I appreciate all your advise/comments. You ladies are the best... Did you know that?

Always,
Gina
 
Kudos to all the single moms out there! :yeey

Not a mom yet but hope to be one day. Reading all of your stories just makes me admire all of you that much more! 🙂
 
ALWYAS KEEP THIS IN MIND, just becuase some one owns more stuff then you, it doesnt make then happier. true happiness comes from within. be grateful for the little things.
 
you have every right to be a little jealous of things like that...i know what it's like to want to give your kids everything but you can't then you see 'him' with his new family and things look great for him but yet here you are living paycheck to paycheck trying to make things run smoothly....i've been a single mom for 10 years....i had my daughter at 15 and have been struggling since....i hope that things work out for you but just remember your kids love you for who you are not for the things that you can buy them....
 
Krystal said:
Kudos to all the single moms out there! :yeey

Not a mom yet but hope to be one day. Reading all of your stories just makes me admire all of you that much more! 🙂
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thank you mama and you will make a great mom

🙂
 
Melly, that's something I would like to know myself? Any single dads out there?

My mother was a single mom with four kids making $8.00 an hour before she died. How she did it, I will never know. My father didn't help her much when he was alive so it was always her.

She was alone most of her life because she struggled so much. She had such a hard life and when she died, I was so angry because I always thought that I would have taken care of her when she got old, but she died before I had the chance. Now, I feel like I'm on that same path. Alone struggling.

It is such a mixture of things that sometimes I think I need to go on medication before I go nuts or something... lol. :buggin

There was another post here regarding someone having a breakdown of sorts and I expressed that I had one a few weeks ago.

I have to admit, after reading all your messages, I have been thinking positive about myself. I am strong, I know that. I had a 17 month old and a new born baby and did it myself. Believe me, I surprised myself with how much I grew up in such a short period of time.

But, why does it always have to be so hard?

I really am thankful for all your comments.

And Krystal, you WOULD be a great mom... 😉

Always,
Gina
 
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