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Have any of you had any "insecurity" issues, Like were you hurt so bad in the past, that now you find it hard to trust and feel 100% secure with your new relationship.....My last relationship was really bad....My mind was really !!!!!!ed with and now I finally meet the right person and its like no matter how much I think I let go of the past I realize that I still feel insecure... Im creating a big damage in my relationship......How can I deal with this? HELP me PLEASE 🙁
 
ITS HARD SWEETY I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I WAS LIKE TAT B4 IVE BEEN HURT SOOO MANY TIMES W/ GIRLS THAT THE LAST GIRL I HAD I LOOKED AT HER AS THE ONES I WAS WITH YOU JUST NEED TO LET GO AND JUST TAKE THE CHANCE IN TRUST AS LONG IT HAPPENS CUZ BY YOU BEING THAT WAY YOU PUSHING THAT PERSON AWAY WILL PROBABLY END UP HURTING YOU I KNOW ITS HARD TO DO BUT YOU NEED START TRUSTING THAT PERSON ATLEAST IF HE AINT DOING ANYTHING WRONG AND HES SHOWING YOU HES WITH YOU THEN YOU GOTTA SLOWLY LET THAT FEELING GO INSECURE WELL I HOPE THAT HELPED YOU A LIL BUT I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
 
WELL MAMA YOU KNOW MY WHOLE LIFE AND EVERYTHING I HAVE GONE THROUGH SO YOU KNOW I GOT TRUST ISSUES AND YOU HAVE SEEN THAT EVEN WHEN I LET MY GUARD DOWN JUST A LITTLE AND GAVE THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT I STILL GOT HURT ITS NOT EASY WHEN YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH GOD GIRL YOU KNOW WTF I WENT THROUGH AND WHEN YOU MEET SOMONE WHO YOU THINK COULD BE THE ONE AND THEN THEY HURT YOU IT MAKES IT EVEN HARDER TO TRUST WE HAVE BOTH BASICALLY GONE THROUGH THE SAME EXACT S*** ONLY YOU HAVE FOUND THE ONE FOR YOU AND I KNOW ITS HARD MAMA BUT NOT ALL MEN ARE THE SAME YOU CANT JUDGE EVERYONE ACCORDING TO THE PAST. I KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE AND I SEE IT AND ITS A BEUTIFUL THING MAMA. LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF AND JUST LET GO A LITTLE BIT AT A TIME. AS LONG AS YOU KNOW YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO FACE ANYTHING IN THIS REALATIONHSHIP COME WHAT MAY. YOU CANT LIVE IN THE PAST I KNOW IM SAYING THIS AS YOU HAVE SAID TO ME SO MANY TIMES 😉
 
HEY INSECURITY PLAYS A MAJOR ROLE IN OUR LIVES.
SASSY IF YOU MET THE RIGHT GUY AND HE MAKES YOU HAPPY AND YOU MAKE HIM HAPPY. I SHOULD SAY GO FOR IT GIRL. THE INSECURITY WILL STILL BE THERE, BUT I FEEL AS THE LOVE BEWCOMES STRONGER THE INSECURITY WILL FADE AWAY
 
Angie,

Your more than anyone here Sees and knows, (BTW Bitch you made me cry....LOL Im sensitive today sorry.) I know I found the right one and thats what Im afraid of losing because of ME, my past which he has nothing to do with him Rookie I hear you, were engaged but Its like lately I've taking it out on him and its becoming a problem. He has NEVER given me reasons to doubt on him 😕 🙁
 
Muneca,
the key to any relationship is to talk it about
communication
they are going to ups and downs in a relationship
don't let that get you down babe
you know what you are doing and he does as well
it will work out
you are going through a bumpy road now that's all
kisses and hugs from philly




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SOWWY MAMA DIDNT MEAN TO BUT LIKE YOU SAID I MORE TEHN ANYONE KNOWS AND SEE'S YOU ARE LUCKY TO HAVE FOUND THE ONE HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU TOLD ME DONT CRY ANG, AND NOW IM TELLING YUO DONT CRY SASSY BE STRONG ABOUT YOURS JUST THINK ABOUT ALL HE HAS GIVEN AND FILLED YOU WITH IN SUCH A SHORT TIME SOMETHING THE OTHERS NEVER GAVE IN YEARS. WHEN EVER YOU FEEL UNCERTAINTY THINK ABOUT HOW HE MAKES YOU FEEL WITH HIS LOVE FOR YOU AND MOST IMPORTANTLY JU. NOTHING IN LIFE IS GUARANTEED MAMA GO WITH THE FLOW AND TRY NOT TO ANALYZE EVERYTHING. LIKE YOU ALWAYS TELL ME YO ANG BE LIKE WHATEVER IM LIKE WHATEVER NOW. YOU HAVE HELPED ME A LOT SO LET ME HELP YO MAMA😉
 
TRUE ROOKIE YOU GOT LET GO AND LET YOUR WOUNDS HEAL MAMA YOU KNOW HOW I AM AND HOW HARD IT IS FOR ME AND YOU KNOW HOW MUCH OF A BIOTCH I AM AT TIMES BECAUSE OF THE PAST BUT SOONER OR LATER WE HAVE TO MOVE ON MA 😉
 
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