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I just wanted to ask you all guys or girls a question. Okay my problem is that im a big girl. And there is nothing wrong witha big girl.!! I dont think that I'm ugly. I dress nice and everyhing. So what guys are scared of big girls or what?lol. But it seems that the guys that I'm interested in don't like me. So whats a girl to do get a guys attention? Yeah, yeah i know ive been trying to get my work out on to..lol but besides that?? thanks
 
im a girl too... but i had to comment.

you keep being you. u shouldnt have to try to get someone's attention. u shouldnt have to "work" at getting a guy. thats crazy.

if they dont like u for who u r... then f em. i know you've prob heard that a lot.... but it's sooo true! because let's say u get a guy on false pretenses, then how will he know the real you? u have to be true to urself and LOVE urself before u can anyone else. dont try to change things about urself so that more guys can like you.

confidence should be the only thing u work on. if u wanna work out... do it for urself. (ur spirit and health). not for a guy. u know?

hope this helps mama... it's still early and im half asleep. lol 😉
 
WELL THIS MY FEMALE OPINION LOL MAMA YOU MUST BE LIKING THE WRONG GUYS BECAUSE THERE ISNT ANYTHING WRONG WITH YOU AND IF A MAN CANT APPRECIATE A GOOD WOMAN REGARDLESS OF HOW SHE LOOKS THEN HE AINT WORTH YOU WASTING YOUR TIME ON. WHAT EVER YOU DO MAKE SURE YOU DO IT FOR YOU AND NOT FOR ANY MAN YOU SEEM TO SOUND AS IF YOU HAVE A GOOD HEART SO DONT GIVE IT AWAY TO JUST ANYBODY AND DEFINTLY DONT SETTLE FOR LESS CHICA 😀
 
ok heres the deal i am a big girl too,and i think its just hype that skinny girls are sexier,no offense to skinny girl like i said its a hype thing, dont worry there are plenty of guys out tthere who can appreciate big ladies, alot of men prefer them,dont worry about it and if anyone here disses you for being a big girl let me know so i can squash them with my big fat booty lol j/k anyways hold your head up high weight aint nuttin but a number know what i am sayin? Its whats in the heart that counts!!! peace,Lisa😀
 
Baby, don't push it. Things will happen when they are ready to and when you least expect it....

Not all guys like small girls too. Personally, I like em smaller, but I have friends that just love the voluptuous ladies.

Now, the best advice that I can give is to forget about what people say. Once you know you're all that on the inside, it will shine though on the outside and that is the most attractive quality to any smart guy; And I emphasize "SMART GUY"...

Peace n Love 😉

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I just wanted to ask you all guys or girls a question. Okay my problem is that im a big girl. And there is nothing wrong witha big girl.!! I dont think that I'm ugly. I dress nice and everyhing. So what guys are scared of big girls or what?lol. But it seems that the guys that I'm interested in don't like me. So whats a girl to do get a guys attention? Yeah, yeah i know ive been trying to get my work out on to..lol but besides that?? thanks
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Let your insides shine baby!

Just like Sueño Latino said, U gotta let it shine babe! Don't let sh*t like weight get U down!

But, looking at the other side of it....

I was a 'fatty boombaladdy' at one point too (5'10" 236 lbs) & I got a little tired of people calling me "Sir Chubs-a-lot" 'n' stuff! Now, I weigh in at 206lbs! A little leaner, but a lot more confident! Perhaps some exercise & lessening your fatty in-take just a little will come in handy! I guess some jerkys in this world see BIG people as weak! Screw them! I'll show ya weak!!!

But, the beauty of a lovely face can NEVER be taken away & I'm sure U R probably beautiful inside as well as out LuvMg!

That's enuff outta me, I'm Audi 5000!
 
I HAVE TO AGREE WITH EVERYONE HERE.....I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER!! JUST BE YOURSELF AND SCREW THEM IF THEY DON'T WANT YOU BELIEVE THERE'S MORE FISH OUT THERE IN THE SEA......
 
heheh...no comment but:

WHOEVER WILL WANT TO GO WITH YA, MUST ACCEPT U THE WAY U ARE...IF NOT, THROW OUT THE GARBAGE. NEXT! THEY'RE PROBABLY NOT WORTH IT..

peaceouttie,

bigMARC..(no pun intended) 😉
 
mami,
mami if these guys don't like you for who you are , then f@#$ them
no need to waste your time with guys who don't appreciate you. we all have a special gift inside
you just need to find it and let it shine.






peace from philly
 
There is somebody out there for everybody, dont fret, or get disappointed, do your own thing, DONT LOOK FOR IT---- IT WILL FIND YOU!!!!


And besides, the human brain is the sexiest part of the body!!! If you cant turn on somebody by expressing yourself than there not worth it!!

Keep yo chin up and everything will be alright!!😎
 
I don't know if there is anything left to add to what everybody else has said...but here it goes.

Confidence and Assertiveness are qualities that just as or more important than physical beauty. Keep your head up, and your heart in the right place. Remember...love is blind, but there is always love@clubfreestyle.com!

Laterz....
 
me i love big women... always have..im talkin like voluptous not three chins with a mole with hair growing out her face!!!no seriously ill take a big girl over an anorexic/bulimac ally mcbeal look alike or a very high maintinence(how much you got in the bank) bitch like pamela anderson..alot of us guys love you big women...alot wont admit it in front of the "boys"..me i dont have that problem..ill wear a t-shirt saying "bring on the thickness" !!!!alot of you are very beatiful but you got this standard stuck in your head that you can only get a man if you fit into a size 7..and alot of you actually believe your ugly and you settle for the first cabron that gives you the time of day..believe me i see it every day..i work in retail and all day long i deal with couples and im like..what the hell is she doing with this loser..doesnt she know she can do much better? now that goes both ways..im a big guy i will never look like a calvin clien model ..i dont eat alot and i workout more than anyone i know as a matter of fact i am a taekwon do instructor on long island but its just my nature to be big...so what ?
i know that i am a gentleman and I know how to have fun how to live and how to love...and thats all i need to get by (and my freestyle of course)😉
 
Thank you all for the wonderful advice. Thats why I love Clubfreestyle. There is nothing but the best up in here. Thank you all lots..!!!
 
You had to see my ex wife, the mass on that ass. She had two cute belly rolls, loved them.

I don't drool over petite chicks hardly at all, me's got to have the mass! I love thick arms, and nice beefy thighs, something I can grab hold of. I never liked skinny chicks, it's not me. (And lord let me not get my hands on one, cause its over kid, guess that is the reason I like chubby chicks, cause I am too strong in the sexuality performing department 😱 )

A lot of females worry and stress themselves out on how they look. What guys think, etc. If a guy does not like the way you look, nor is interested, phuck him! 😡

If you're sweet, nice, down to Earth, and a bit on the heavy side, yet looking sexy at the same time,and you love yourself, how can you lose? What guy wouldn't want to get to know that?
 
one more thing a girl who looks like a penthouse centerfold is ugly in my eyes if she acts like the whole world gotta kiss her ass....id much rather have an average girl who just wants to have fun that doesnt act like a prima donna and bicthin about what she wants every five minutes (aw baby you want that benz..do you sweetie..ok..WELL THEN GO GET A JOB!!! oooh you want some shoes WELL GO GET ANOTHER JOB!!!!) ya know wha imean ..
 
good point taezee glad to see there are some guys out in cf who appreciate big girls,and luvmg you not the only one,girl plenty of Ms Thicknesses out here know what i am sayin....here's one royal Ms.Thickness to begin with,lmao😉
 
hey... no doubt, i gotta agree with my CF peeplz... you gotta be you... guys are just like girls... we don't just like one type of girl.... my friend will think a girls fine that i'm not even remotely attracted too.... so be patient ma... you'll get yours.

One.
 
Lol, wooooord to Larry Bird....


peaceouttee,
da~EM..
 
Luv don't trip. As a guy I am telling you not to change anything about yourself. In my immortal words "DON'T FAKE THE FUNK!!!". I have always been a person to like REAL PEOPLE! You just keep on being yourself & I guarantee you that Mr. Right will come along & then those words will utter out of your mouth ma "WHERE HAVE I BEEN ALL YOUR LIFE PAPI?".

Good things come to those who wait!!!
 
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