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Have any one ever loved someone sooo much that even when ya'll break up somehow you end up back in his arms again... Well this is kind of hard for me now stating that I have a boyfriend but yet cheated on him with my ex the one who I love with all my heart... I feel really bad because I should have never cheated on my man but it felt so right... My ex also has a girl but we both have missed each other soo much... I'm not sure if I should tell my recent boyfriend or leave it the way it is.. And I'm not sure what to say to my ex anymore its just so hard... Love did once break my heart and I am scared to lose what I had before and what I have now..🙁. I do not want to keep on messing around with my ex unless our love is for real... I just do not know how to explain it to him... can someone help me out a little..... Your advice will be greatly appreciated.
 
Well this is truly something hard to have to go through I cant say that I have ever gone through it but I know love and how it draws you to that person to whom your heart belongs too. It seems you and your ex man have left a lot unsaid and because of that things between you too has not yet come to an end you left a door open and you both seemed to have stepped right through it. You have to ask yourself do you truly love him to put the relationship you are in now at risk and also does this man you are currently with deserve to have the woman he loves running into the arms of another man. Mama you need to get things straight between your ex let what ever you feel just flow, tell him what you feel because if you dont you will never know and worse yet you will continue to find yourself running to him when ever he calls. You deserve to know if the love you feel is real if his love for you is real, time is said to heal all wounds and sometimes the second time around is better then the first but you wont know unless you ask. You also have to take into consideration the man you are currently with no one deserves to be lied to honesty is always the best policy but no you run the risk of loosing him as well only you know weather you should tell him or not does it way on your concious, do you think of your ex when you are with him then if so hedeserves to know, no matter what he deserves to know but only you can make that call. In the end what I will deff say is that when you have something to say, say it when you want to know something ask it dont continue beating yourself in the head wondering and asking yourself questions you wont find answers to until you take the step. I wish you the best of luck mama and hope all works out for you in what ever you choose to do 🙂
 
Thanx a ton Sexyangel329... I know I should not be beating myself up but I can't help to think what if?... Its really tough when you cant help to think if I take this step what will it lead to heart break or should that be a chance I should take... I do have feelings for my recent boyfriend but they do not run deep like the feelings that I feel for my ex... We used to be best~friends before we got together and now its hard to have a friendship with some who you feel more feel I've tried but its hard.. I guess I'm just scared of what he might say... I guess your right just let it what I have to say flow, even if it could be something that I do not want to hear but I guess I would never know unless I ask.. Once again thank you for your support it really helped.
 
Anytime mama 🙂 remember with anything you do in life you are taking a chance but you never know unless you do and in this case someone will get hurt its inevitable but by opening yourself up to any possibility you are doing what is best for you and always do whats best for you. 🙂
 
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