2/14 has passed. Things still the same

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Everybody know about my no-luck love life. Not having a date since Shaq played for The Magic. I made a pact that on 2/14/05, I would shut my love life down if I could not find a date. For some reason, I got talked out of that. Now 4 months have passed, things are still the same. Or, worse! To the point where my mother is on my case saying I need a girlfriend! I have tried placing a personal ad in a free city paper, no resposes except for one woman, who kept procastinating, and we never met. I have tried talking to the lovely students at my job place; Georgetown University. They look at me like I'm bothering them. So, i'm at a loss. What do I do now? Did I make a big mistake not shutting it down?
 
Know What,i Hate To Say This,but Society Today Make There First Judgments Based On Looks,instead Of Personalitty.it Makes Us As Not That Goodlooking People,work Harder To Get That One.kinda Burns Ya Out
 
mike4949 said:
OK, But Jazzy, you are my age, and you're married.
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And I'm 33 and still not married. Don't rush it. Love will come when it's ready. (notice I said when IT'S ready, not when you're ready)
 
as my friends used to tell me. i couldnt get a date even with a fist ful of hundreds but mike you are young and have a better chance then i will ever have thats why i called itquits i stoped trying it is not worth the effort anymore for me . i am kind of liking going and coming and doing things by my self dont depend on any one and do what i want with out having to consult any one
 
mike4949 said:
Maybe, since I have had over 10 years of patience. I don't want my patience to become Red Sox patience wating over 80 years. Never!!
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unfortunately Mike, patience is all we have. when we try to rush u end up w/ the wrong one and not only are you alone but also enduring alot of pain as well. believe me.....there is someone out there for everyone and when you least expect it. it will come.

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Know What,i Hate To Say This,but Society Today Make There First Judgments Based On Looks,instead Of Personalitty.it Makes Us As Not That Goodlooking People,work Harder To Get That One.kinda Burns Ya Out
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KNOWS VERY WELL FIRSTHAND!!!!
 
mike4949 said:
OK, But Jazzy, you are my age, and you're married.
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Understandable I have been with him since I was 19. But this goes diffently for everyone and it come sooner for some and later for others and that dasy will come Mike u need to be positive and take it one day at a time and ur mom needs to lay off ur back about it because it is more pressure added on u
 
Awww Mike don't give up! I don't mean to repeat what everyone else said but PATIENCE is all we got! I'm in the same situation you are!!! I haven't had a boyfriend in awhile. I see my friends find their special someone and I know there is someone out there for me too!!
 
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I don't know. Almost everydaY, someone on the board is eith hooking up, or gettimg married. Most people on my job is hooking up. It's hard for me to escape this when it's in my face constantly.

Know what: I'm ready to make a challenge. I would like 1 lady to give me just one chance at a date. I say that i'll be a good date. I'm ready to walk the walk! I will be willing to prove that I am a good man. I will prove that I am a good man that got lost in the shuffle. If I do not turn out to be that way, I will never speak of this subject again! Never!! I will let it be! It's time for me to throw all my chips on the table!!! I'm all in!!
 
Honestly Mike I've learned that when you're looking for it nothing ever happens...it's when you're busy focusing on something else (like work for example) that it happens...just something I've noticed either way if it will happen it will regardless what you do Mike
 
There is a point where, having this long of a dateless dry spell wears on you. It has worn on me big time. It's sad, because being dateless, you start not to have an idea what you want in a lady. When you have many dates you get the idea of what you want in a woman and not what you want. You can't learn and determine what you want sitting on the bench for 10 years holding a clip board. If I have a couple of dates that go bad, it may be heartbreaking, but I can learn somethings about what have in a woman and how I should act in a woman. But for 10 years, no woman have giving me that oppurtunity.
 
dont worry Mike dont lose sleep over the females they are not worth getting sick over single life is fun no ball and chain on my end nobody tellin me were to go and when to come back
 
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