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Sexyangel329

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Ok I have a question. I have gone through a lot emotionally during this pregnancy its been hard but with the help of some real good friends and my parents I have pulled through. Now my baby will be here soon and I had planned on moving to Miami in May but financially I cant do it or at least right now it looks like I wont be able to do it at least not the way I want to. I was thinking since I couldn't make my move just yet that I could just go for a about a month during the time I will be home with Tiny. Now if I do this it will affect my mom and sis because I will be getting up and leaving to go away for a month right after Tiny is born and I know how much they are awaiting his arrival. My mom and her boyfirend are looking forward to having him sleep over lol. So my question is would it be fair for me to go away for that amount of time so soon after my Tiny is born, it is also the reason why I don't want to leave NY jsut yet I dont want to take him away from thepeople who love him most so soon. Let me know what ya think. Thank you :angel
 
you would be bringing him with you or your mom would watch him??
 
Tough spot to be in Angie but I think your mom and sis would understand you wanting to get away for awhile after all you've been thru. You have to figure this...the doctor isn't gonna clear you for travel right away anyway so you're looking at about 4-6 weeks time anyway. Maybe you can break it to them gently.

Of course watch Destiny be all up in here tomorrow! :lol
 
Wow That's A Hard One Ma. You Have To Do What Feels Right For You, Just Make Sure That Where You Go You Have Peeps There For You And Tiny B/c It's Very Hard At First And It's Harder With Out Help. Sometimes Women Get Post-partem Depression After They Give Birth, And The Only Way To Make It Through Is With Help From Loved Ones. But Do What Feels Right For You Mamas.
 
I strongly believe Angie that you will know what decision to make when the times comes. Sometimes planning ahead of time doesn't work. So you just have to wait and see how the situation is by then and how you feel. You'll know. 😉
 
LaBettyBoop said:
I strongly believe Angie that you will know what decision to make when the times comes. Sometimes planning ahead of time doesn't work. So you just have to wait and see how the situation is by then and how you feel. You'll know. 😉
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yep, like Labettyboop said, you know planning ahead always backfires for some reason, but also like Krystal said you won't have clearance for travel right away. but um, you know I am selfish..lol😉 I will be further away from Miami by then, BUT! when you do come down you can split your time here and come visit me!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙂 :jiggy
 
You should consult with your doctor and your baby’s doctor first BEFORE making any decisions. After you give birth you will need all the loving care from all those who have supported you through this.

The decision you’re about to make is really a tough one. You should talk to those who really will be affected. If you decide to go anyway, I suggest you start reminding them of your decision and let them take part of your decision so they wont feel left out.
 
who better than him? 😉 but definitely let your sis and mom know ahead of time.
 
I would stay. There's nothing like having your mom around. My mom lives in Florida and i would've killed to have her by my side when i gave birth. My husband is great but nothing like mom.
 
A family unity is always important ma, if all your fam is in ny
then they should be a part of tiny's growing years..
maybe when he's a couple yrs older, maybe right now you
need a breath of fresh air, but maybe you'll feel differently
down the road...go with what your heart tells you...
 
It would only e for amonth during the time I am not working. i deff need my mom specially that first week home she lives out in Long Island so i cant have her there with me every day but knowing I can run to her helps. Thanks mommiess lol 😀
 
yeah it's not like she coming here to live!.lolol well not now anyway😉
 
OHHHHH DAYYYUMMMMM WHEN I FIRST READ THIS THREAD I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU WERE GONNA LEAVE RIGHT AFTER THE BABY WAS BORN,...HEHEHE ANGIE DON'T LEAVE RIGHT AWAY, IT IS SOOOOO SPECIAL THAT TINY IS THE FIRST GRANDCHILD!! AND YOUR MOM IS GONNA WANNA BOND WITH TINY. :baby ...LOL MY FIRST BABY WAS THE FIRST GRANDCHILD AND OHHH BOYYYYY MY PARENTS WERE SOOOOO EXCITED!! MY MOM STAYED WITH ME A WEEK TO SHOW ME WHAT TO DO AND TO HELP ME OF COURSE.. LIKE THEY SAID UP THERE LET THEM KNOW AHEAD OF TIME THAT YOU WILL BE TAKING A TRIP AFTER THE BABY IS BORN. DON'T GO TOO SOON THO ANG... :sflower GOOD LUCK IN YOUR DECISION MAMA!!
 
Hey mama I hope my mom can stay with me lol but she has her responsiblitys I will need helpthat first week dats fo sho lol. My son is already spoiled lol so I can imagine when she gets her hands on him lol 😀
 
Mamita- seriously U'll be too tired to even think about a trip
u having MOM and Casey right away will be great for u.

and I think it would be best for TINY if he went on his first trip after 8 weeks........ especially wait till Spring....
 
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