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OK I'm SOOOOO PISSED RIGHT NOW I can't even think straight.

I just finished getting off the phone with my best friend in New York...and DAMNIT I want to ream her neck!!!! She is dating this LOSER and the only reason she stays with him cuz she can't afford to live on her own and her two kids. SHE IS SOOOO NOT HAPPY WITH THIS JERK and YET she stays with him.....NOW I find out that he has been out of work for 2 months and doesn't EVEN want to look for another job until June when he gets into the Police Academy ....WTF!!!!!

SO WHY DO WOMEN STAY WITH LOSERS LIKE THIS!!!! IS IT JUST ME OR IS THIS GUY A JERK!!!!! SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE THAT MAYBE WILL FINALLY GET THRU HER THICK HEAD! I'VE ALREADY TOLD HER TO MOVE OUT AND MOVE WITH ME.....ANYONE .....JUST WANT HER OUT!!!!

ok calm down heaven.....breathe.....😡
 
Tell me about it....

ohh dam...🙁...what makes him think hes getting into the academy in june, that dont work like that......???? He may not get into this class??? Is he sure hes getting into this one???? Does he have money to survive until then...dam sh*t I hate when women think like this...like if he is her savior,let her move in with a roommate then....Heaven Im in NY, can I tell her personally she can do it on her own and with out that a&&????😡
 
You know I hate when women do that!! Maybe she feels she has no alternative. Maybe she feels safe and its something she's kinda used to even though it's not the best thing. No matter what it doesn't matter. She has to really want to leave. Other wise it's not going to happen. She'll keep complaining and stay and if she can't complain to you anymore she will find someone else to complain to. It all just gets annoyingly complicated! Believe me I know. This all sounds like a girl I am trying to move on from. She is with a total loser for pretty much the same reason(minus the kids part) It is sooooooo annoying!!!! Anyway in the end Heavenly I hope your friend wisen's up. I wish her a whole lot of luck! Good luck to you Heaven in dealing with this friendship. I hope everything turns out eventually! LOL!! Keep it real!!
 
That sux man! 🙁

Thats his wifey there and his two seeds. :crap

Damn man I reading this get teared eye. Im a man...and at times Im a bit lazy but not for my boo and my two kids!!! Shit.

~Antonio
 
Heaven, this is a freaky situation right there! But girl don't blame the dude, I mean he's not holding her there. They are not married... and if she really wanted to I'm sure she would have found another place to stay.
You even offered her your place, why doesn't she move? I mean she complains so much about the dude yet does nothing? I understnad that it's soooo difficult for her because she got kids, but still, she shouldn't feel as if she's tied down. There are alternatives.
Talk to her again... there must be something else holding her down and maybe there is another solution.
And if the dude wants her there, he should be able to provide her and her children with food, clothing, aid and shelter.
 
Oh damn!! 😱 She's dating him! Its not her husband my bad I mis-read 😱

Oh my she should be out!!!

1sxychica

Amen!!! Its not the dude to blame...its her!!! She has kids and she's dating a lump on the log!

~Antonio
 
MAN/WOMAN SOMETIMES CAN BE IN THE MOST F***ED UP SITUATIONS AND BE AS UNHAPPY AS EVER WITH SOMEONE BUT LOVE WILL ALWAYS MAKE YOU DO SOME CRAZY A$$ SHIAT EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW THINGS ARENT GOOD YOU STICK AROUND YOUR FRIENDS WILL TELL YOU TO MOVE ON BUT THE LOVE YOU FEEL WONT LET YOU. SO I AM ASSUMING SHE LOVES THIS DUDE BECAUSE IF THERE WASNT ANY LOVE WHY WOULD SHE PUT UP WITH HIS NO WORKING A$$. YOU SAID THE WHOLE POINT IN HER BEING WITH HIM IS BECAUSE SHE CANT AFFORD TO BE ON HER OWN OBVIOUSLY IF THIS DUDE IS NOT WORKING SHE IS ALREADY ON HER OWN AND ON TOP OF THAT TAKING CARE OF ANOTHER PERSON WHEN SHE CAN BARLY AFFORD TO DO HERSELF. NOW IF SHE DOESNT LOVE HIM SHE NEEDS TO LET THIS DUDE GO HE AINT RIGHT DATS FO SHO. IF ABOVE ALL TEHRE IS NO LOVE OR THE LOVE IS GONE IT IS TIME FOR HER TO SAY BYE BYE BECAUSE SHE IS HOLDING HERSELF BACK WHEN THERE IS PROBABLY SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO WILL DO AND GIVE HER WHAT SHE DESERVES. NEVER LET YOUR SELF REMAIN IN AN UNHAPPY SITUATION IF A PERSON IS TRULY MISERABLE WITH THERE PARNAH,LOVER OR WATEVA THEY NEED TO LET IT GO WE ALL DESERVE TO BE HAPPY TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO IS GOING OT MAKE US HAPPY. YOUR FRIEND DOESNT SEEM TO BE HAPPY BUT SHE HAS TO LOVE HIM TO BE STICKING AROUND. MY MOM HAS ALWAYS TAUGHT ME AND MY SISTER THAT ANYTHING A MAN CAN GIVE AND DO FOR US WE CAN DO FOR OURSELVES. SO I KNOW THAT THERE ISNT ANYTHING A MAN CAN DO FOR ME THAT I CANT ALREADY DO FOR MYSELF I THINK YOUR FRIEND NEEDS TO KNOW THAT 🙂
 
Thanks for those who answered....the plot actually thickens, but in respect to my best friend I do not want to go any further...but I will tell you this.....They are not married and both kids are not HIS.....the younger one is....the older child is now with his Daddy until she can care for both kids.....

Angie....I agree with you 100% My mom taught me the same values ....maybe that is why I am SOO independent! Her mom also taught her the same and she has always been independent but this LOSER has literally stipped her of all of her INDEPENDENCE!!! It kills me to see her like this....she has NEVER let a man do this to her.....just makes me sad. She says she is NOT in love with him and I believe her.....there is MORE to it then that.....but I just don't UNDERSTAND WHY she is with him IF she doesn't love him.....has he literally stripped her of her self eesteem??? Does she not think that SOMEONE out there is waiting for her to love her and her kids??? Does she think that having two kids that no man would want her??? Has he put this in her HEAD!!! URGGGGG I wish I could shake her and make her see that she is SOOO SPECIAL and HAS FRIENDS that can help!!!

Thanks again guys for your responses keep them coming 🙂
 
ANYTIME MAMA I LOVE THE FACT THAT MY MOTHER RAISED ME TO BE AS INDEPENDENT AS I AM AND NEVER TO SETTLE FOR LESS I HOPE YOUR HOMEGIRL LEARNS THAT 😀
 
You know I had a friend like that. She was with this guy that used to beat her and everyday she said she was going to leave him and she never did. One day he puched her in front of everybody at her job. Pissed everybody off. She didn't leave him for awhile until i think she realized that she could do so much better.
I honestly think that girls when it comes to guys like to look for a challenge. You ever notice how most girls go for the bad boys? It's weird to explain, but it's so true. I mean i was with this guy that was a total ass and I kept running back to him time after time. Then I just cut him lose and now he wants to be all nice to me, but i already know how he is and I don't need or want him anymore. I'm with somebody good now. somebody who treats me like i want to be treated. Somebody who treats me like a Goddess.:hearton
 
Awwwwwwwww you go Freestyle Goddess that is how ALL Women should be treated 🙂
 
Amen to that! It's good to know that eventually the good girls do go to the good guys! And only a God know's how to treat a Goddess well! The idiot men are ignorant mere mortals that don't recognize a divine being when they see one! Freestyle Goddess and Freestyle God are here whenever the CF peeps need us!! 😀 LOL!!!!!!
 
and don't forget me ....HEAVEN!!! Without me there wouldn't be any GODS.....LMFAO
 
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