When in doubt...

[bellaregazza]

What do you do... If you pretty much sense its a dead issue and you feel slightly if you feel at all, what do ya do??

How come feelings come on so strong and fast and disappear as quick??

Does that mean they were never there to begin with if they go away so fast??

Can you make yourself love or feel for someone even if you don't have 100% of your heart into it??

Sex In the City Correspondent...

Bella Amore 😛

 

[Martini]

How come feelings come on so strong and fast and disappear as quick??

in my book, that's called infatuation. the appeal, the image, the "spark" fades after a while... that's when u know it was never real to begin with. true feelings of love don't fade.

 

[Sexyangel329]

I THINK THAT WHEN ITS REAL YOU FLOW EVERYTHING JUST FLOWS THE FEELINGS. WHEN ITS ALL NEW FEELINGS WILL JUST RUSH YOU ITS ONLY NATURAL THE MORE YOU GET TO KNOW SOMEONE AND THE TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER IS USUALLY WHAT WILL MAKE IT OR BREAK IT. I MEAN I HAVE HAD SUCH BAD LUCK WITH MEN IT AINT EVEN FUNNY BUT I HAVE NEVER REALLY HAD ANYONE WHO COULD JUST CREEP INTO EVERY THOUGHT AND I TEND TO GO INTO THINGS WELL AWARE THAT THEY WONT WORK OUT I GOT THIS SICK ASS SENSE BUT I NEVER PAY IT NO MIND BUT THIS BABYGIRL HAS LEARNED TO KEEP HER GUARD UP SO WHEN IT SLIPS I KNOW ITS BECAUSE WHOMEVER THAT PERSON IS IS REALLY AFFECTING ME TOUCHING ME. EVERYTHING AT FIRST IS ALL GOOD CUZ UITS ALL NEW YOR GOING THROUGH THE LEARNING PROCESS (THATS WHAT IM GOING TO CALL IT) YOUR GETTING TO KNOW THAT PERSON SO ITS GOING TO BRING ABOUT FEELINGS THE INTIAL INTREST, INTRIGUE ETC IF IT FADES I WONT SAY THAT IT WASNT REAL CUZ SHIT HAPPENS IT JUST WASNT MEANT TO BE 😀

 

[Enigma]

Originally posted by bellaregazza

Can you make yourself love or feel for someone even if you don't have 100% of your heart into it??

You definately can. 😀

At first i wasn't attracted to my ex wife. We started out as friends...and we kept talking. I noticed she never gave up in heart wanting to be with me. I just wasn't attracted to her! 🙁

Then the more it kept going...the more she was winning my heart. Then WHAM i fell in love!

Unfortunately it didnt last to long (Divorced in 2nd year we were together) for other reasons.

~Antonio