When do you think is the right time to talk to CHILDREN....

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about sex??????

I personally think, there is not time, when they ask, just tell them, I don't think that beating around the bush is a good idea.

Why do we need to wait till they are a certain age?
Why do we need to wait for when my little girl gets her period?
Why do we need to wait, wait for what????

What do we do when, my kids say.....

Is sex a dirty word?
Where do babies come from?
What does being pregnant mean?
Why does mom and dad sleep together?

What do you think????
 
Honestly it totally depends on the kid...some kids are more mature than others and different ages...so a parent should use their own common sense with it...but if the kid asks don't lie or make it seem wrong...at that point I think you have to tell the kid...just my opinion
 
Well not to voluntarily tell them, but my nephew ask my pregnant sister in law, where do babies come from, and her answer was, from GOD, yes part of it, is, but what bullshyt is that???
 
Yeah at that point the truth should have been told...
 
ohh no, they say, they dont need to know, Im like sure, tell them the truth, and they ganged up on me, they say, they wont leave their kids with mine alone, cause they see they know too much and will make them curious....they so stupid, they got me upset, I told them, there nothign wrong with tellign them, as long as they know, nobody touches you and you dont touch nobody, but whats wrong with nature, theres nothign wrong with the word sex, their kids will be hiding out on them while mine will have confidence to ask me. I want my kids to trust me, to come and ask questions, not to go to others.
 
Like in everything people are different...but you know what in the end all kids find out 😛 but I do see and agree with you point of view 🙂
 
I agree with you BabyBettyBoop. And I also want my son to feel as though he can come to me with any question or just with anything he wants to talk to me about. I think that is very important in a parent/child relationship....honesty & openess.
 
They say that my kids, will come home pregnant at an early age bacause I expose them to sex at an early age, I disagree, they will be more educated. It is not that I voluntarily told them, I'll tell/told them if they ask, Im not gonna lie to them. I did have to address them on the no touches, cause I did have a man living with me at one time. I bought them books and one of them is about "talking about sex with boys and girls", and it sits in their library, like all others. I think if they are blinded they are more curious. :crap
 
well my daughter asked me what gay was....and it was so difficult to try and explain it to her. I mean she's 6 and nowadays it's everywhere! gonna have a talk w/ her tonight...let's see how that goes!
 
I HAVE A LITTLE GIRL AND I BELIEVE THAT THEY SHOULD BE EDUCATED YOUNG...THESE DAYS SO MANY BAD THINGS ARE GOING ON AND SOME KIDS ARE GULLIBLE. IF THEY ASK TELL THEM! BETTER YOU THAN A STRANGER.
 
Thanks folks, just wanted to see if I was wrong, but seems that all agree with me.

Chalu...same here.....when I got my mestruation, my moms told me go to the bathroom, Ill be right there, she came back with a pad (she always told me the pad was a pastel..lol) and told me, Im now a senorita, that Ill get that once a month... do you think she told me anything about sex. Some kids now a days are having sex before their mentruation....! I sit here and laugh...I remember when I first, you know....I thought I would come out pregnant if I swallowed the cum....LMAO...🙂 I really needed to learn alot..and I blame Moms for that, I learned everything on the streets, I hid everything from Mom, played hookey, and was curious about it all.
 
lmfao@pastel...aye dios mio! my daughter be thinking I have a boo boo so I don't allow her in the bathroom around that time anymore (she's 4) but that's crazy....communication is important these days...especially with our lil girls.
 
MY DAUGHTER ASKED ME WHY I WAS BLEEDING TWICE, THE FIRST TIME SHE WAS THREE AND I TOLD HER IT WAS A BOO BOO, WHEN HER DAD CAME HOME THAT EVENING SHE TOLD HIM THAT MAMI HAD A BOO BOO IN THE TUN TUN AND HE HAD TO KISS IT TO MAKE IT FEEL BETTER. LOL NEEDLESS TO SAY HE WAS STUNNED. BUT RECENTLY SHE CAME INTO THE BATHROOM AND SAW THAT I WAS BLEEDING AND SHE ASKED AGAIN. SO I TOLD HER WHY AND SHE UNDERSTOOD WHAT I WAS SAYING. JUST ANSWER THEY QUESTIONS THAT WAY THEY DONT FEEL THEY HAVE TO GO SOME WHERE ELSE FOR ANSWERS.

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You see...god does have a weird sense of humor. He made something evil. (Women) Think about it, they bleed for a week and yet dont die. How evil can that be? But oh....they feel sooooooo good when in the huckle buck!! LOL

I think education at a young age is a good thing. As long as it is done with responsible parents and shown in a respectable manor towards both sexes. Especially when it comes to private matters for little girls. How traumatized they must get when they first received there menstral cycle? Heck, I freak out when my urine is the color of the beer I drink!!

Education is the key to good upbringing. Just look at Krystal! Wait a second...isn't there a new rumor about her and her sweat shop? Hummmmm.
 
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