What the hell is wrong with me?!

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Why is it that everytime I want to ask out a girl, even for the simplest thing (like for coffee) I freak out and freeze? I need help folks, and badly... I've missed out on so many opportunities on account of my fear. Like last night, I stuck around for a couple of hours after class waiting for a certain girl that I run into every week around the same time, usually while I'm chatting it up with my friends. (I'm 4th year, she's 1st :eek) I saw the girl last night and when face to face with her, all I did was say "Hey, what's up?". What the heck is that?! I need any kinda REAL advice folks; my friends were all in shock when they saw my actions, they knew I wanted to ask her out. Sorry for the ranting, but I'm just frustrated with myself and pretty tired at how many missed opportunities I've had. Thanks... :crap
 
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smoothie, urr right! holllaaaaaaaaa! 🙂
eluder.....go get her! The worst thing she can say is no, den u move on!! give it a try!!lol🙂
 
ELUDER!! AWWWWWWWWW hun wow, u just seem to be too shy and uncertain of urself!!! get over that.. u know ur a great guy and u know u will make any girl happy... i mean what are u losing here anyway? chat her up! and goodluck...
 
Well, my friends have tried, trust me, but I am a very shy person. I'm gonna try again I guess after my reading week, if I crumble again, then I guess I just don't have it in me. :sosad
 
That was the plan, lol... but I fell apart when I saw her. Honestly, my legs started to shake... holy, I need to get drunk before I ask a woman out or something! :sadsmile
 
Eluder

So you need alcohol to confront your fears eh? Im tellin you I used to be in your shoes I know what you talkin about!!! 🙁 But I no longer have that fear because I realized the females are adorable. I get a kick of out watching them smile. Even if I mess up they laugh, and thats good enough for me lol

You got nothing to lose...give it a shot 😉 A woman can't do nothing except say she's not interested. In no time you see you get better at the game 😉

-antonio
 
Smooth, don't worry, I'm not 18, I can control my horomones, lol.

Lonely, no drugs for me... I'm a 'clean' kid. 😉

Ant, I was kiddin' about the drinking, not much of a drinker, but I dunno what to do anymore. I can flirt like a mad man with my female friends, but I can't even talk to a girl I don't know, total opposite ends of the spectrum. I guess I'll have to see what happens in about 2 weeks time... 🙁
 
Eluderrr... stop saying that.. there is NOTHING wrong with you... oh my gosh like every second person is like you! it's hard to talk to someone you like.. and it's easy with ur friends (well obviously u know them and don't feel 'that' way for them)...

u should start up some silly basic conversation... cos maybe u won't even like that girl after u talk to her (hey it happened before)... so just talk to her about what she's taking or some party that's comeing up at Ryerson.. ask if she's going, etc etc... then it'll be so much easier 🙂 (i told my friend to do the exact same thing, when he had ur problem and they're together now, so u see)

goodluck and PLZ don't stress urself all that much alright? A girl should do her part too.. like eye contact, periodic smiles... so u know she noticed u too.
 
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