What is one thing u have learned

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from relationships? has it helped you in your present relationship? and why?I guess from past relationships I have learned to be a stronger person, not to be dependent, be honest with urself and the person..meaning if the feeling has died then let it go...Also sometimes u just have to say goodbye, just for the best. well speaking from my last relationship, I can honesty say he taught me how to love, and to see nothing beyond that and love is by far the greatest euphemism in this world ...I mean we may not be together, but I don't regret one part of it, because I have become ten times stronger, realize not to fight over petty bullshit, that can really !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! up a relationship.... One more thing the love and feelings should be reciprocal, there should be respect for one another, and no one should depend on one person or need the person....these are a few things I have learned and believe me they the best things I can take with me in life

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Yes, I have learned to get stronger, and love more than ever. 🙂
 
WHAT HAVE I LEARNED GOD WHAT HAVNT I LEARNED I WAS IN A REALTIONSHIP FOUR 8 YRS AND THE LAST 4YRS TOOK THE MOST FROM ME IT TAUGHT PAIN MORE THEN ANYTHING BECAUSE OF THAT PAIN ITS NOW THA TI SEE NOW THAT I HAVE SOMEONE SPECIAL IN MY LIFE THAT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO TRULY KNOW TRUE SADNESS IN ORDER TO APPRECIATE TRUE HAPPINESS AND I HAV. OUT OF EVERYTHING I LEARNED THE MOST FILLING ONE HAS BEEN THE STRENGTH I GAINED IN IT ALL, HOW TO SPEAK MY MIND AND NEVER HOLD MY TONGUE FOR NOONE NO MATTER WHAT AFFECT I HAVE TO SAY HAS ON ANYONE, ITS TO ME TO SEE THE BULLSHIT THAT IS OUT THERE. THERE IS THIS SAYING IM SURE MANY OF YOU GUYS HAVE HEARD ITS REAL ALWAYS RECOGNIZES REAL AND I CAN TRULY SAY THAT THE SPECIAL AND I DO MEAN SPECIAL PERSON IN MY LIFE IS BEYOND REAL AND I THOUGHT THAT WOULD NEVER TOUCH MY LIFE AND IT HAS OUT OF NO WHERE. I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH AND STILL FIND MYSELF LEARNING. LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND ITS MORE THEN JUST THOSE FOUR LETTERS ITS MEANING AND ITS SENTIMENT RUNS FAR DEEPER. 🙂
 
Ok what I learned.....

I learned to be honest with the one you love.....

I learned not to be selfish....to give them the time they need...

I learned to not move too quickly into the love stage to take your time.....listen to your heart and mind and all will balance itself out

I learned to be myself and if the man doesn't love me for me than he doesn't love.

I learned to be dependent on myself not on someone. Its good to depend on the one you love, but not if that is all you got. When I was with my ex of 8yrs he was my world, my only friend, my only confidante, and I see now that was his doing.....taking over my independence and being possesive.

Damn I could go on forever cuz I learned alot but I think the main thing I learned was to enjoy what you have, give all the love you have, and be happy no looking back.......cuz you never know when it will end.....

I have hope that the man I love will come back to me and I need to do is be patient and thats another thing.....patience is a biotch
 
I think I need to clarify. I only been in only one relationship, so, it was pretty good. Guess I learned not to date heavy heavy everything based on religion type of girls. lol

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i've learned never ever ever fall for someone...never give yourself totally...keep things to yourself dont let them think they have got you completely....let go...when its time...and dont be upset...cause once u are unhappy you need just to say see ya!!!!

now after all the crap that i have been through in my short life, lol i can be with a man for a long time...and leave him the next day and move on with it...i think thats the best part of my attitude!!!! oh well so thats what i have learned
 
YEP I HAVE LEARNED A FEW THINGS THROUGH MY PAST REALTIONSHIPS ABOUT WOMAN W/ THERE FEELINGS HOW A GIRL WANTS THIS NOT THAT OR HOW THEY ACT OR HOW THEY MADE ME STRONG W/ THE NEXT PERSON

I LEARNED AND STILL LEARNING THINGS
 
I KNOW THAT FROM ALL I HAVE LEARNED I HAVE DEFINITLY GAINED MORE STRENGTH THEN ANYTHING ELSE AND ITS MADE ME STRONGER AND MUCH MORE WISER AND EVEN WITH ALL THAT EXPIERIENCE WE STILL SLIP UP I KNOW I DID BUT IM BACK ON TRACK AND JUST LOOK BACK ON EVERYTHING TO KNOW WHAT I HAVE GAINED 🙂
 
I'VE LEARNED THAT COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP...IF U DON'T TALK ABOUT THINGS U HAVE A TICKING BOMB ON YOUR HANDS.

EVERYTHING ELSE, I AM BY NATURE AND UPBRINGING. LOYAL, UNDERSTANDING, AND HONEST.
 
I THINK THAT EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS DIFFERENT THINGS TO TEACH US, THEY R LESSONS OF LIFE THAT ONE DAY WE WILL LOOK BACK AND CALL EXPERIENCES, BUT I HAVE LEARNED THAT LOVE IS NOT SELFISH, LOVE IS HONEST AND UNDERSTANDING, I BELIEVE IN GOING WITH YOUR INSTICNT, TO ME A WOMAN ALWAYS KNOWS AND WHEN WE GET THAT FEELING THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG 99% OF THE TIME WE R RIGHT, I LEARNED THAT SOMETIMES US WOMEN FOR THE FEAR OF BEING ALONE SOMETIMES PUT UP WITH ALOT OF B.S. FORM MEN BUT IN THE LONG WRONG ITS NOT WORTH IT AND BASICLY ALL WE'RE DOING IS WASTING OUR TIME, TO ME A RELATIONSHIP IS 50/50 NOT 80/20 AND WHEN UR GIVING MORE THAN WHAT UR GETTING THEN SOMETHING IS WRONG LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT IS SHARED NOT SOMETHING U GIVE FOR THE HELL OF IT, I FEEL LIKE ONCE A MAN DISRESPECTS U THATS IT THE RESPECT IS GONE AND ONCE HE CHEATS THE TRUST IS GONE SO IM VERY CAREFUL ABOUT WHO I LET IN AND OUT MY HEART EVEN THOUGH OUR JUDGEMENTS FAIL US SOMETIMES CUZ WE R HUMAN AND BOUND TO MAKE MISTAKES, BUT THEN AGAIN THOSE R THINGS WE LEARN AS WE GO ON, IM STRONGER THAN I WAS LAST YEAR AND EACH YEAR ILL BE MORE STRONGER THAN THE LAST, BUT LIKE THE GREAT AALIYAH SAID DUST YOURSELF OFF AND TRY AGAIN, ITS ALL A PART OF LIFE...
 
I have learned to not take love your love one for granted..you always gotta show them some loving..my mom used to tell me love is like a plant..you gotta water it daily or it will wither and die out..I think its very true! 🙂
 
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