What if you found out......

[Chula]

Let's say you have been in a relationship for about 3 years and you are in love with this man; you guys are trying to work things out to have a future together....everything is good let's say (the girl) thinks "o.k. I'm 23 been with this guy for a while and where planning to have a future together" and you both want to have a baby and are trying to get pregnant but for the past year has had no results. What if you found out (the girl) you couldn't have kids...how would you take this? (guys) in time would you feel that since your girl can't give you kids would you go somewhere else? would you support adoption? girls would you feel useless and what would you do in this situation???

 

[FreestyleCraze]

Well....

Well....I wouldn't mind adoption, because I'm the type of guy that loves to show love to other peeps. But also, we can keep trying to, if that's cool with her(he he)!😛

- Where is my "freestyle child"? ha ha...

 

[Rookie]

If i was in that situation....
i would still love my lady... no matter what.... if we want to have children there are other ways on having children.... when you are in love you have that bond... that can never be broken and you live through problems..

 

[clubgirl]

Chula

PM me I have a story to tell u !!

Ayza

 

[brenda]

WELL I FOR ONE WOULDN'T FEEL USELESS MAYBE DISAPPOINTED BUT I WOULDN'T GIVE UP I TELL YA THAT..AND IF ALL FAILS THEN ADOPTION WOULD BE MY NEXT OPTION..SO MANY BABIES OUT THERE WHO NEED LOVING PARENTS!!🙂

 

[Sonja]

girls would you feel useless and what would you do in this situation??? [/B]

Chula,
I am so happy that i've been blessed with 3 beautiful, gorgeous kiddies. But if that problem were to have happened, I would have considered adoption because there are so many great kids out there that need a good loving home. It's so sad to see Americans go over-seas to get babies when there are plenty in our own country that need a home. I've even thought of adopting another child in the future, but it's been just a thought, my 3 drive me insane and that is enough for me! LOL!!!

Sonja

 

[Enigma]

Chula

I wont have mixed feelings if my future girl cant have kids. 🙂

I will be the same as I been before, except tighter, making sure she understands that I mean it, when I say everything is ok. I be more than happy to adopt. 😎

No biggie in all aspects, for me all is good as always.

~Antonio Martinez

 

[Putana]

For myself personally, I wouldn't want to adopt. Some close friends of the family have had SEVERAL bad experiences & its ignorantly glued to my head!

As for going elsewhere...that's plain 'ol SILLY! If I love U, I'm wit' U through thick & thin. Looks like it just might be U & me kid! 😉

 

[doos]

I WOULDNT BOUNCE ON HER IF MY LADY COULDNT HAVE KIDS IM DOWN TO GET A PUPPY NO IM KIDDING ILL DO ANYTHING MY LADY DESIRES IF SHE WANTS TO ADOPT THEN IM DOWN WITH THAT IF SHE WANTS TO KEEP ON TRYIN THEN IM DOWN WITH THAT TOO IF THE PROBLEM IS WITH ME THEN IM DOWN TO GO TO THE DOC AND TELL HIM TO GIVE ME THAT SPECIAL UNDERWEAR TO SUPPORT MY NUT CASES AND KEEP ON TRYING

 

[mzcrazybtch]

LOL@DOOS....SERIOUSLY ANIMALS ARE FULFILLING WHEN A PERSON IS ALONE IN LIFE...KIDS ARE WONDERFUL....I WOULD PROBABLY ADOPT AT LEAST ONE CHILD...TOO MANY KIDS IN THE WORLD ARE SUFFERING AND NEED OUR HELP. IT'S EITHER THAT OR OWN TWO CATS...I THANK GOD I HAVE A CUTE LITTLE GIRL AND SHE MEANS THE WORLD TO ME.