marilisa
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Here is the deal, I knew this guy whom I use to mess with about 6 years ago, and I was messing with alot of guys at the time so I did not take anyone serious. Well he was such a cutie and I did not allow myself to have any feelings for him because he was messing around with alot of girls as well. Well then a year and 4 months ago after not seeing him for almost 6 years we run into each other at a club and he asked me for my number. I did not think anything about it at the time so I gave him my number. He called and after we started cathcing up he said that he was seperated and was going to divorce his wife whom he was with off and on for about 13 years and they had 2 children. He was living with his brother at the time when we started hanging out then we started getting closer and he got his own apartment , we were together all the time and she his wife knew it and he promised me that he was going to divorce her and that there was nothing between them. Well he ended up moving in with me and the big problem with him was he seemed to drink and do cocaine. I tried to help him but he didnt seem to want help he was in denial. Well I ended up getting pregnant after he had moved out and went to live with his cousin and he wanted me to have an abortion , he said that he was not ready. We stayed together for maybe a few weeks after he moved out which was on April 28, 2005 then we still talked and it started getting rocky, why I don't know he was not calling me as much, we started seeing each other less and me being pregnant at the time still I was feeling really bad and I got on to him about him not spending time with me and not calling me and I did not hear from him for a week and I did not call him , keep in mind I was still pregnant and I needed to know what we were going to do this was on June 7, to be exact. I left him messages on his cell and he never called me back so I waited for his next woRK day and I called him at work yes I did, that was not like me but I needed to know I was desperate , I had so many questions for him , why he stopped calling me what happened, well he got to the phone he was sursprised that it was me he said that he did not call me because he was busy, he had other things going on, he did not want anything to do with anyone right now , he said that he could not explain to me right now since he was at work and he said that he would call me later to explain, he said that he was going to forget about us and that he did not want the baby. I was so shocked to hear him speak to me like that because he had never been so cold with me. He was a complete stranger, all I remember saying is for him to remember that I loved him and how coudl he have been so cruel. Well I hung up after that since I could not believe what my ears were hearing. At that point I knew what I needed to do and where I stood. So needless to say I decided to have the abortion. Its been 3 months sine then and I havent heard from him. Like he disappeared. I don't know what happened but how could he have done me that way. I know everything happens for a reason and he was not good for me but I still miss him and care about him. What happened? Has this happened to anyone.
