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LaBettyBoop

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I don't believe in cheating in a relationship because it's a waste of time. Why go through the troubles and remembering your lies? That's me! I'm a straight up person and tell it like it is. I follow that saying and it's my motto: "Ask me no questions and I'll tell you NO lies!"

From men's point of views, what are the reasons for cheating in a relationship?

From women's point of views, what are the reasons for cheating in a relationship?

If you've cheated, then this question is for you. :biggrin
 
I didn't think that font 5 is that big. I thought it was 24. 🙂 And now I can't edit it. Too late. So if you want to delete it, go ahead and I'll re-do it. Okay? 🙂 Let me know please.
 
Mmkay so here's a situation...and a question.

First the question...why use a font larger than normal unless you are trying to stress a particular word in the post?

The situation now...I'm sittin here at work readin up on CF cuz it's a lil slow and most of my work is done for the day. I happen to be reading this post and from behind me i hear...damn that's a nosy question! I turn around and my boss who is across the room is reading the post! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! OUCH! Busted! :crap hehehe
 
well, to answer the question, not that i've cheated , but for some, not all, they simply cannot keep their clothes on, no matter who they're with. some people like variety and cannot or will not stay faithful to one person, those people should just stay single. (some, not all) 😉
 
Krystal said:
Mmkay so here's a situation...and a question.

First the question...why use a font larger than normal unless you are trying to stress a particular word in the post?

The situation now...I'm sittin here at work readin up on CF cuz it's a lil slow and most of my work is done for the day. I happen to be reading this post and from behind me i hear...damn that's a nosy question! I turn around and my boss who is across the room is reading the post! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! OUCH! Busted! :crap hehehe
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:lol LMAO that is hilarious. Your boss? Maybe he has the answer Krystal! :lol
 
OHHH, Krystal don't feel bad I've been there...
my supervisor came over to ask me a question right when I was using my instant messenger. I tried to minimize but instead I maximize...I was so embarrassed, 🙁luckely she didn't say anything.
 
well i can go online at my job but when my dept. secretary looks over my shoulder i get that feeling.. a o!!
 
Well at work as long as everything is done no really cares if we go online or not.
Now to answer your question betty, I think people cheat for the thrill of it. Its just a way to see how far I can go with this. Another reason might be unhappiness but cant seem to find a way out yet. So their only outlet is cheating. I'm not saying its right or wrong, just different situations.
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I agree w/ my homegirl above me.....

some people are so happy in their LTR's but....one can be unhappy, and it's hard to walk away for certain reasons....Financial, peeps can have debts that need to be cleared up- or one just does not make enuff $$$ to support themselves. Or their could be children involved ( which is always a bad reason to stay together) Each household has a diff. situation.
 
My boss is a female 😀 And she knows I go on CF and she's cool with it as long as my work is done. 🙂

Guess she just thought the question was a lil out there! LOL

Now I'm gonna play devil's advocate here :dgrin...

Financial reasons...get a second job, stoppin spendin unnecessary monies, save up on the side and than get the hell out! That's not an excuse to step out on someone you're supposed to be faithful to.

Children...always a bad reason to stay together cuz all you end up doing is showing them the bad things in a relationship and they get caught in the middle.
 
When I did cheat I did it because I just wanted to see how many I can get with while cheating. I got caught in the end. It had to do with excitement too, and I wasn't in love with my girlfriend. She was just someone to kill time with.
 
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I agree Krys- but so much easier said than done.....sometimes there are not enough hours in the day no matter how many jobs u hold.....
I'm a Mon-Fri 9-5...and I tell ya, I really wouldn't take another job, because of my kids (which is why i declined the MGR's position)money is good- but too much time....

Funny my parents split when I was 16 & preggie.....and it's now clear that they stood together for me, but almost for nothing........I was low maintenace..always in my room....Rumor has it my father cheated- but whatever......I dunno if she did- she thinks she's slick though( I'm talkin about my mom)
 
i dont think i have it in me to cheat been working hard to find someone special for me to mess it up theres only room in my heart for one female
 
Krystal said:
I happen to be reading this post and from behind me i hear...damn that's a nosy question! I turn around and my boss who is across the room is reading the post! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! OUCH! Busted! :crap hehehe
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Krystal I'm gonna tell you something, your boss could say it's a nosey question, but 95% of the threads are questions. Now I guess your boss being a NON-CF member wouldn't know about what's nosey and what's NOT nosey because if he/she joins he/she will see that basically all questions are "nosey" as he/she puts it. :lol Especially on "Love @ CF". 😉 Can't win them all. Know what I mean?
 
I wasn't tryin to make it an issue LaBetty. But I agree...most of the questions on here are nosey! Some more than others but hey...that's curiousity for you. :shrug:
 
Krystal said:
I wasn't tryin to make it an issue LaBetty. But I agree...most of the questions on here are nosey! Some more than others but hey...that's curiousity for you. :shrug:
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Yep! :lol Oh well let's just have fun......... :cheer
 
I Have To Agree With Liz On This One, Its Hard Sometimes To Breakup. For Some It Might Seem Like A Piece Of Cake But Its Not. Especially When There Are Kids Involve. Again Im Saying Its Right But I'm Not Gonna Condemn Anyone For Doing It.

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cause some people want what they cant have and dont appreciate what they do have. they like a thrill. they want the chase . they like excitment w/out gettin caught. it's the animal instinct...so they say.
 
Sometimes one partner gets boring in bed. Sometimes your partner doesn't make you feel like your important. Sometimes you just want to be with someone else for that sexual intamacy (if I spelled that right). Most of the time it's because the person you're cheating with, gives you a reaction that makes you feel like god's gift to them. :boing That's what I think.
 
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