jazzy4u
New member
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2003
- Messages
- 4,983
- Reaction score
- 6
- Points
- 0
Okay this is the scenario A friend well so called friend was in need a couple of months a go for some money and I told her I can lend her half of what she asked for. After that she told me she didnt need it and said she didnt want me to feel pressured. I expalined it was fine as long as she paid me back. Time went by and nothing.
A couple of weeks ago I lend my sister money for an emergency and this friend called stating that she really needs the money . I returned the call and explained that unfortunately I cant lend her the money due to the fact that I lend it to my sister, I just got a coop and I am going on vacation. She never returned my call.
While I was in Florida I called her and she sounded like she didnot want to talk to me. so I told her I would call her when I came back.
Who dont know I am getting married in June and this person was one of the girls in the wedding party. Well I called her this week and she didnt seemed to thrill to hear from me. I apologized for not being there and that I have been very occupied. Then she came out and said that when you think friends are going to be there and they are not that hurts. Well I was like wow she is really bothered, any way when I came out and said well next month I am having a get together with the wedding party so we can discuss the wedding she came out and said I dont think Im going to be in the wedding, I said well u need to make up your mind and she stated for me to do me. Anyway when I told her would you at least come she stated she don't know. I was like alright call me when you want cause I need to do what i got to do.
To be honest this whole thing really semmed phucked up because I feel that she is punishing me for not lending her the money, I feel like a true friend she should have been honest with me and not pull out of my wedding. I said phuck it im not even going to invite her, I would have been different if she pulled out, but not even go that hurts. I feel like she is doing this on purpose and she dont give 2 shits.
What do you think ? Im I over reacting or am I hadling it cool or what?
A couple of weeks ago I lend my sister money for an emergency and this friend called stating that she really needs the money . I returned the call and explained that unfortunately I cant lend her the money due to the fact that I lend it to my sister, I just got a coop and I am going on vacation. She never returned my call.
While I was in Florida I called her and she sounded like she didnot want to talk to me. so I told her I would call her when I came back.
Who dont know I am getting married in June and this person was one of the girls in the wedding party. Well I called her this week and she didnt seemed to thrill to hear from me. I apologized for not being there and that I have been very occupied. Then she came out and said that when you think friends are going to be there and they are not that hurts. Well I was like wow she is really bothered, any way when I came out and said well next month I am having a get together with the wedding party so we can discuss the wedding she came out and said I dont think Im going to be in the wedding, I said well u need to make up your mind and she stated for me to do me. Anyway when I told her would you at least come she stated she don't know. I was like alright call me when you want cause I need to do what i got to do.
To be honest this whole thing really semmed phucked up because I feel that she is punishing me for not lending her the money, I feel like a true friend she should have been honest with me and not pull out of my wedding. I said phuck it im not even going to invite her, I would have been different if she pulled out, but not even go that hurts. I feel like she is doing this on purpose and she dont give 2 shits.
What do you think ? Im I over reacting or am I hadling it cool or what?
