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Well, I been divorced for a year and a half, and been single since that time. No nothing. Just loneliness. Man, I have ignored so many girls, it's not even funny. I'm sure they think I'm gay or something, but I don't care. My heart my life, my future, I am afraid I will never meet that special someone. I don't want to be alone forever, or at all. Is this what is getting on my way that does not allow my heart to open? Any male or female has felt like this?

I'm 28, but I feel young inside. I don't even look my age. I guess this is an advantage. I don't want time to take it's toll on me.
 
get the hell outta here!!! u think 28 is too old to start over?

baby... baby... baby.... it's not. 😉
 
Martini LOL 😀

I see I see. I have tendence of putting myself down. Bad habit.

I guess maybe for me, my age is just a number then. 😀
 
ENIGMA IT WILL BE OK SOME PEOPLE REQUIRE MORE TIME TO HEAL THAN OTHERS,MAYBE LIKE YOU SAID YOU SIMPLY ARE NOT READY YET,AND YOU ARE STILL YOUNG WITH PLENTY OF YEARS AHEAD OF YOU.DON'T GO LOOKING FOR MRS.RIGHT SHE WILL COME TO YOU WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!!!😉 PEACE,LISA
 
ur not too old for anything!

my brother in law thought the same thing as u. he is going through a divorce now (at age 27) and up until recently felt very insecure about himself. he didnt think he could ever find another woman who would love him unconditionally. now he's a totally diff person. he met a great woman who accepts him wholeheartedly. You need to let your guard down a little. u cant not let anyone in cuz ur afraid of getting hurt, cuz then u wont even have the chance to get happy. ya know?

let me tell u something... when i go to clubs i meet a lot of men ur age. and most of them are not ready to settle down. u need to go out with ur boys... just forget about finding someone right now. she'll show up when u least expect. and dont turn women away when they come up to you... talk to them. odds are, if ur not feelin them, there's prob a good reason why and it aint cuz of u. 🙂
 
Hey i know how you feel. I was married too She f---ed me over it really took some time before I could date someone. I did'nt trust anywomen . But that was wrong of me to think like that ! It took about five years to fined her . And she is the LOVE OF MY LIFE ! So take your time . ALL GOOD THING'S COME FOR THOS WHO WAIT
 
ohh ohh i know how you feel!!

Umm doubts in my head, will ever find that someone. that will love me as how i want to be loved,. Will i ever be ablet to feel love the way i give love, am worthy of dating, damn it was my fault. umm Those are all the question that we man or women are face up with, after a very painful relationship has ended. Let me tell you as young as im i have been thorugh hell and i have come back, and I seem to find and the only answer is that the man who have betrayed me, not only did it show me that is this world you can only really count on your self!! but that it also show me how strong I was and still are. Enigma, Babes😉 Listen, give time to your self, don't worry things will turn out to be OK!!, we all go through some tough times, right now dotn look for something serious, what you need is someone you can call up on a weekend ask them what they doing if they are down to watch a movie, or how about a walk on the beach but remember something the key to a very succefull relationship is be friends first, i mean is she agrees ok im cool with you and I just being friends, where you can count on me when things go bad, i be behind you 100%, no there is no sex involved the worse mistake you can make with someone you are only friends with, well in other words, Just give your self a chance to get to know people and dont shout them out too quick, remember don;t judge a book by its cover, take the time to read and you even find tha the book you seem to not want to read, might ended been the one you were waiting to read for a very long time, good luck, and do me another favor love your sefl before you can say that word again, get to know your self first deep in your heart you will find the answer to all your questions and doubts well good luck hope i was of some help lol. Frescas # 2@ 100% eyssssssssssssssssssssssssss papi


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Re: ohh ohh i know how you feel!!

Originally posted by DreaMGirl19
what you need is someone you can call up on a weekend ask them what they doing if they are down to watch a movie, or how about a walk on the beach but remember something the key to a very succefull relationship is be friends first,
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Exactly mama exactly! 🙁 That is crazy kool! That is what I am looking for and want. A friend only first, then if things work out, then it happens magically through the aura we give off.

OH BEBE!!! That is sweet! Everything you've said! Damn, you been through hard times, I think more than me, well here is a *HUGGIE* from me okay? 🙁

God bless DreaMGirl19...forever.

-Anthony
 
No need to thank me hahaha

awwwwwwwww im blushing, you are welcome enigma, no doubt when ever you need someone to talk you know where to come, lol thanks for the blessing hahah, i guess my major or becoming a social workers is helping me a lot in life lol, yes enigma i have throught some s*it that is not even funny, i have come to learn from the relatinshiop that I was in, that you can't and shouldn;t put your hopes tooo high unless you know ya both at the same level if not cutt it off you will only ended hurting your self Lol good luck enigma



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Re: No need to thank me hahaha

Originally posted by DreaMGirl19
awwwwwwwww im blushing, you are welcome enigma, no doubt when ever you need someone to talk you know where to come,
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Same here sweety pie. And right off the bat, I want to tell you, that what I write and speak, is true from my heart. I am not one of those online individuals that talks about false sh!t and try to make themselve become something they are not. So basically what I am telling you is, the real world Anthony, me, is truthful here in the forum. I say this that way in case we communicate, so you know it's all real from me. 😛

The last thing I want to do is talk to a wonderful female like yourself, and ignore everything what you say, for the sake of well, acting macho with you and flirting. 🙂 I take a girl's life story seriously, as I am a very sensitive male, and it hurts me inside. I adore the human female because they deserve to be on top of the world, I mean, you go through so much crap in the world, pregnancy, menstruation, jerk offs kicking it to ya, etc. It's hard I know to be a female I can see it. Take care toots and keep your chin high, and follow your heart.

-Ismael (Yeah, my real name, middlename is Anthony)
 
Re: aight ismael anthony lol

DreaMGirl19 said:
aight cool, thanks for the replies hahahahhahaha you one sweetie take care and holla when ever you want ok muah mauzh





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I holla if you holla, we can holla together! THAT RIGHT there was flirting. Are you aware of that! 😱

P.S: If you are going to bed, to sleep, goodnight sweety, and have a wonderful dream and a great morning.
 
Fierce Freestyler said:
Enigma,you trying to get the girls in here to fallin luv with ya right?????lmao,you sound too good to be true j/k Stay sweet,and protect that loving heart!!!!!
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I know what you mean. 😀 I heard there aren't too many guys like that. But I am proof of one. I don't have no high ego, but I think it's time I should give myself a round of applause. I put myself down too much. lol

😛
 
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