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...In your life you wanted to be with forever. And how hard it was to feel the rejection when they didn't love u back - not even a fraction of what u felt?

Remember how hard it was to let them go or even face the fact that they bounced w/o a word?....the many nights u cried yourself to sleep, the many thoughts and questions u wanted answers to ....and the many days w/o eating making yourself sick????

and then to see this person again, it's like the ghost of a loved one. No matter how hurt you were..U still cared. No matter how many tears shed they never knew.

well my ghost just popped into my life.......again.
It's a weird feeling. I was strong though- I gave him a hug, (and a ride home)
Some thing were let out- and some thoughts and advice given.

I wish him nothing but the best- bcuz I think he got so scared of committing himself and learning how to love. That for a long time I was so self concious- thinking there's a reason he didn't want me, why didn't he accept me. I now know the reasons, ans it's all him NOT ME. Which he realized a while after leaving..but couldn't get the nerve to do something about it. And only tell me 1000's of miles away.

He's the ghost of a love that HE could've had. Tough luck Ghost.
 
well Amy we remain friends and if/when he calls , he calls- it took a long while to get over him. I was willing to look past alot of things, but when he ran away ........

I realized how selfish he is and he has to keep "searching" for himself.
 
Really Nice Liz. Aim When You Truly Love Someone It's Hard To Not To Be Nice To Them. Regardless It Just Show The Liz Is A Real Grown Up Now.

🙂
 
i am friendly with my ex bf whom i broke up with in june. i talk to him when i have guy problems.
i didnt say not to be mature i said i wouldnt have benn that nice if he was a ahole.
geesh dont shoot me for my opinion ladies.
and you cant always be friends after being lovers. i move on.:sround
 
Liz_Torres said:
...In your life you wanted to be with forever. And how hard it was to feel the rejection when they didn't love u back - not even a fraction of what u felt?

Remember how hard it was to let them go or even face the fact that they bounced w/o a word?....the many nights u cried yourself to sleep, the many thoughts and questions u wanted answers to ....and the many days w/o eating making yourself sick????
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I know that feeling all 2 well, but i have yet 2 see that person again, and if i do i don't think i would be nice 2 him
:lol
but hey thats part of life
 
u know I'm all open ears for your opinions, matter of fact when I made this thread up last night. I felt soproud of myself....I had to keep it straight and not buckle since we have a past.

But the more I read what I typed, the more those feelings seem to start up and I get teary eyed...cuz things got to a point when I couldn't function at work- and it was noticable.
It was noticable to alot of people.....I wasn't the same, and it took a long time to kinda go back to my "normal" self ( if u think I'm normal)..and as time passed on and he wasn't in sight it made things easier. and today those feelings are no longer there for him. but he's still a friend.
 
aww liz that show you area caring person, noting wrong with that!!
 
Right there mama you showing that person they losted something big that they had in there hand and let it go .. I bet you now he is mad that he let something so good out of his life ... You did good mama it shows him how big of a heart you have ... muahhzz
 
Liz_Torres said:
...In your life you wanted to be with forever. And how hard it was to feel the rejection when they didn't love u back - not even a fraction of what u felt?

Remember how hard it was to let them go or even face the fact that they bounced w/o a word?....the many nights u cried yourself to sleep, the many thoughts and questions u wanted answers to ....and the many days w/o eating making yourself sick????
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Yes I know the feeling quite well.
 
I cant say that I have had one of those but i know what its like to love someone who doenst love you the way you love them or want to be with you the way you do them it does hurt. having to see them hurts even more.
 
I think we all have been there. And I could tell you I've been a ghost myself. We just grow up and remember the good times. As long as we move on and don't dwell on the past.
 
UGH! Just reading this thread ....I feel a sharp stab in the heart!!! My question is how do you accept just being friends???? I am having the hardest time doing that and finding it nearly impossible, especially since there's feelings on both sides (so he says). As much as I want to be a friend..... I can't 🙁
 
Here is my response to Liz's story......

Remember when there was a person...

Then you realize that it was not you, you were a victim of the ghost of love, a person who does not know how to give or receive love. A person that is lost in a world of there own, not knowing how to give back what is given to them.

I was the victim of the Ghost of Love and it torn my heart like a tornado through town. No one really knows why people can be so cruel or heartless but that is life.

Remember one thing, when this ghost comes haunting in your life, run and never look back, because just like a ghost can never become alive, neither can the heart of a person that is made of stone!!!
 
o sweetie- U do understand!!!!

lol- well and that's why sometime women are so mean to men, and use and abuse- yes I know it's wrong. but like we do things to men cuz they do things to us- the next person suffers, and yet it goes in circles

he's a friend, and all I can do is give him advice.
 
marilisa said:
sounds like the story of my life.
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me too, i have the same damn thing. its like this one guy is like the love of my life, and because of him, i'll never be the same :sadsmile
 
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