~*~Relationship Regrets~*~

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Did you ever get into a relationship that you later on regretted? Could be a day, a week, or years later. Did he/she look so good and irrestible to you that you went for yours just to find out that you really wasn't feeling him/her? That's how hearts get broken. Do you know what it was that you wasn't feeling in that person?
 
ahhhh regrets.............where to start! I know now why I strayed away from mines. the lack of communication was a killer. I thought everything was fine and then BAM out of nowhere came the change. glad it happened tho, wouldn't have wanted to waste more years ya know. I AM STILL YOUNG! :lol
 
hmmmm I would have to say there is one former bf that I regret even talking to...he turned out to be a big jerk...we broke up and about 2 years later we kinda got back together (don't ask I was young and stupid) but I'm glad we did cuz that's when I realized how much of a selfish jerk and idiot he was...I saw him actually last week still hanging out at the park as if he was still 18...I regret being with him but the best thing I did was leaving him even if it took twice to fully see it was the best thing to do
 
regrets.....I've had a few...but then again, too few to mention...


My regret is that I haven't had a serious relationship. lmao.....but I'm looking forward to it. 😉
 
ChuckD said:
regrets.....I've had a few...but then again, too few to mention...


My regret is that I haven't had a serious relationship. lmao.....but I'm looking forward to it. 😉
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The thing about relationships is that they're all "gambles". You will never know unless you give it a shot.
 
***begins singing***

Tormented by the heart
It's tearing me apart
I guess that's what they told me it would be in the end
Sad and lonely
Regrets only
:dancepuff
 
LaBettyBoop said:
The thing about relationships is that they're all "gambles". You will never know unless you give it a shot.
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You got that right, but sometimes, the gamble is worth the risk.

You gotta know when to hold 'em. Know when to fold 'em....know when to walk away....know when to run.
 
Well, when I was separated from my husband once, I had this little thing going on, and everytime I saw him I cried afterwards. It just didn't feel right. But I was in a really bad spot and this guy knew it and kinda took advantage of the situation. Toward the end though he regretted it even more- after I called it off, he started drinking. I've felt bad about that but that was his choice. Then my ex came back and I got pregnant with my son and as you guys know, he died and I always kinda felt that I was being punished for having been with someone for the wrong reasons. Haven't told many about that...

As for my ex...I regret that things went so badly. He was my first love and I wanted everything to work out. We had a few happy moments, but too few and he did me a lot of damage. But I have a beautiful little girl, who is my life and a sweet baby waiting for me when my time comes. No guardo ningun rencor(I hold no grudges?) I've learned alot. I believe my hard experiences have helped me to be more understanding and empathetic to others.
 
ChuckD said:
You got that right, but sometimes, the gamble is worth the risk.

You gotta know when to hold 'em. Know when to fold 'em....know when to walk away....know when to run.
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yeah but sometimes the gamble isn't...the hardest part is walking away
 
Yup. Been there done that and moved on to better things! lol..

Life is all about "experiences" whether good or bad.. hopefully you grow and learn from them..remember the good and forget the rest..
 
ricanlips4u said:
Yup. Been there done that and moved on to better things! lol..

Life is all about "experiences" whether good or bad.. hopefully you grow and learn from them..remember the good and forget the rest..
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Sometimes it's hard to forget bad experiences.
 
nessa's302 said:
yeah but sometimes the gamble isn't...the hardest part is walking away
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That is true, but if you don't allow yourself the gamble, you may not find happiness.

Is not finding happiness worth staying safe, but alone?

That is a decison that only the person can make.
 
ChuckD said:
That is true, but if you don't allow yourself the gamble, you may not find happiness.

Is not finding happiness worth staying safe, but alone?

That is a decison that only the person can make.
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Good pointers Chuck.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Sometimes it's hard to forget bad experiences.
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Yea.. i know.. I've carried some of my "luggages" for years.. I finally decided to put some of them away.Others however, I keep front & center to remind me to never let anyone "cojerme" de pendeja like I've been in the past..and to be honest sometimes it hurts to be that way..cuz u keep carrying that with you...

When do u let go?
 
yes i have what was i thinkin i belived everthing she said but she was nothing but a fake had her peeps callin my house makin fun of me and they said i need a life i was not the one callin at all hours makin fun of them i dont waste my time on trash like that .
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Sometimes it's hard to forget bad experiences.
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No one truly forgets bad experiences.

What you need to do is take a step away, think about the situation, learn from it what you can, and move on.

You can't dwell on negative things in your life. If you do, you lose sight of the positive.
 
I agree with you 100% Chuck...you can't dwell on the negative. What's done is done..Ricanlips, you asked when do you let go....when you're good and ready. Before I met my partner, I was involved with someone for almost 3 years....what broke us up was that he chose to be bitter about his emotional baggage instead of dealing with it and healing....I had to walk away because I didn't want to turn out like that, because you never know, someone could be right for you but one's bitterness can make you blind to that.
 
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