~*~Problem Over Here....Help! Advice Needed~*~

[LaBettyBoop]

As the majority of already know, "Lilmsboop" is my daughter in law and she is pregnant, due in the beginning of June or possibly the end of May.

PROBLEM: She wants to be nosey and be a part of the baby shower plans. WE don't want her involved. WE want her to be surprised. She argues with my son about it and he tells her not to worry about any of that. She doesn't listen. So today, I told her that if she continues to involve herself in an event that is supposed to be a pleasant surprise for her, I will not be involved in the plannings anymore. She is supposed to be "Stress Free" and planning any party event is very stressful! I told her just to start making herself beautiful

Need ADVICE over here peeps......................

 

[Krystal]

LilMsBoop...STAY out of the party plannin! Just cuz it's for you doesn't mean you have to be all up in it! 😛

Let it be a surprise mama! You'll enjoy it a whole hell of a lot more! Believe me! 😉

 

[sExXxe]

Lol I Thougt I Was Nosey!! Send Her Away Lol!!

 

[LilMsBoop]

OK I understand this is suppose to be a suprise and stuff but you guys dont know about my family and Im tryen to have everyone in my family there I mean everyone and they live upstate. I didnt want it in manhattan because my aunt is tramatized since 9/11 (she was there) so I tried to make it where she wont have to come in to manhattan. I figured we can do it in Long Island but when I told her that she said it was far so I dont know if shell go and I wanted my whole Family there from My Uncle whose in Philly my cousin whose in New Jersey all of them and if they dont go Ill be upset and cry. NOT EVERYONE HAS A CAR!!!

Unfortunatly I am tryen to tend to everyones needs,

 

[MrsGwedoKing]

Just relax! If you want/need anything, what you do is make a 'wish list' and give it to Yvette. lol

 

[nessa's302]

OK I understand this is suppose to be a suprise and stuff but you guys dont know about my family and Im tryen to have everyone in my family there I mean everyone and they live upstate. I didnt want it in manhattan because my aunt is tramatized since 9/11 (she was there) so I tried to make it where she wont have to come in to manhattan. I figured we can do it in Long Island but when I told her that she said it was far so I dont know if shell go and I wanted my whole Family there from My Uncle whose in Philly my cousin whose in New Jersey all of them and if they dont go Ill be upset and cry. NOT EVERYONE HAS A CAR!!!

Unfortunatly I am tryen to tend to everyones needs,

sweetie, I understand that you want to have everyone there. but the point of the matter is that not everyone will be able to make it for one reason or another. SHOO GIRL! I got 2 kids and have NEVER had a baby shower. this is truly a blessing for you honey, just sit back relax and the best that can possibly be done to grant ur wish will be done. MsBetty will make sure of that 😉

 

[LaBettyBoop]

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Nessa and Diane. I tried to tell her that EVERYONE won't make it. That's how family is, full of excuses. :smirk It's sad but a fact.

 

[LATINAHEAT]

STAY OUT OF IT LILMSBOOP!!! LOL I AM SURE YOU WILL HAVE SOME PEEPS THAT WILL NOT BE ABLE TO MAKE IT! AND YA KNOW WHAT LILMSBOOP, WHO SAID THAT YOU CAN'T HAVE 2 BABY SHOWERS!!! EVEN IF ITS JUST A LIL GET TOGETHER WITH THE FAMILY MEMBERS THAT CAN'T MAKE IT TO YOUR SHOWER :cool I AM SURE YVETTE HAS EVERYTHING UNDER CONTROL!!

 

[LilMsBoop]

aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhh i know i know after last night Im not getting it to nothing I cried and cried cause I want everyone to be there but hey its what ever you know

 

[jazzy4u]

Hey ma dont worry, life is full of surprisess and we are not suppose to know everything, let the surprise be there and have fun, a bundle of joy is coming to the world. Ma and to be honest not everyone could be at anything. Suggestion u already know of a shower and if u want give Yvette a list of family u want there and addressess. I sure everything will work out. OK so sit back and relax and let it be. Let Labetty do what she is doing .