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FREESTYLE??? WHAT FREESTYLE???
ALRIGHT HERE IS A QUESTION...
THEY SAY EVERYTHING CHANGES WHEN PEOPLE MOVE IN TOGETHER....AND THAT EVEN MARRIAGE CAN MESS UP A REALLY GOOD RELATIONSHIP....BUT I BELIEVE HONESTLY IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE...NOT THINK YOU DO....LIKE MOST PEOPLE INTEND...THEN EVERYTHING WORKS OUT. I MEAN I HAVE HAD GUYS LIVE WITH ME BEFORE AND YEAH IT DID GET TO ME SOMETIMES...BUT I DIDN'T LOVE THEM...SO WHO ELSE BELIEVES THAT IF TWO PEOPLE REALLY ARE IN LOVE AND WANT TO BE TOGETHER IT WILL WORK OUT???:boing
 
Anything is possible if two peeps love and UNDERSTAND each other! As long as you keep communicating with each other all will work out 😉

GOOD LUCK!
 
It can work out if 2 people really love each other and they get along really well in terms of communication it can work out. I've known couples (parents of my friends) who have lasted 30 years together. So good luck with whatever your endeavors are who ever it may be. I've been living together for 8 years and it's working out good so far
 
Marriage doesn't make a difference when you move in together. You can live together married or not married that doesn't mean you're going to get along any better. If you can't stand the other person a piece of paperr that says you're married is pretty insignificant anyway.

The only way it works is if you really love each other and communicate, and understand each other, and if you would "walk on water" for that person. If that's not how you feel about that person then it doesn't work, married or not.

When you choose to share a home with someone that means you're allowing them into your inner most personal self. That means you are willing to do pretty much anything for this person. If that is not how you feel then don't do it, because it will never work.
 
If the two people are willing to communicate honestly, and learn to compromise with each other, the coupling should be successful.
 
Yeah it's the communication and the understanding that are really important cuz that's what messed me and my bf up when we moved in together....that's why I'm back home living with my parents
 
sweetheart said:
BUT I BELIEVE HONESTLY IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE...NOT THINK YOU DO....LIKE MOST PEOPLE INTEND...THEN EVERYTHING WORKS OUT.
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I believe sweetheart. But remember it only works out if the heart really cares for the other. It's not that hard. You gotta find your ulitmate companion that knows your likes and dislikes. Once you got that...it's home sweet home. 🙂

-antonio
 
From Past Experiences That I've Had, I've Come Down To One Conclusion: If You And Your Significant Other Are Meant To Be, Things Will Work Out..i Mean In Every Relationship Couples Get On Each Others Nerves, Argue And Have "relationship Problems", But The Best Way To Work It Out, Is By Effectively Communicating With Each Other...and To Answer Your Question, No Its Not Always A Mistake To Move In With Someone, Its A Mistake If You Rush Into It Or Simply Do It For Other Reasons Other Than Loving That Somebody....good Luck!
 
omg what up liz! The only thing that changes by living with someone is that you get to know them inside out......there is nothing that two people can hide from one another when they are constantly together day and night (disregrard work hrs.) That's why I always say "you don't REALLY know a person until you live with them" Everyone hit it on the nose when they say COMMUNICATION & COMPROMISE (yet don't forget TRUST) is the key.
 
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