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I really dont know where to post this... i figured here would be ok...🙁 I'm tryin to figure out what to do in my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I just recently went back to skool and started working. He is also doing the same. Our schedules completely clash with each other. (i.e. my days off he works... his days off I work, when im in school hes workin and when im at work hes in school) Basically we dont have time to talk to each other let alone be together. Shtuff is really goin down the drain. I dont want to lose him but i cant afford to quit my job or school. Im at a point rite now where it looks like imma have to choose between the two... and i dont want to. If n e one can PLEASE help me out or give me advice on what i can,should or could do let me know...

By the way... i just gave ya'll da short version of a loooong story....
 
DiaMoND_GiRL said:
I really dont know where to post this... i figured here would be ok...🙁 I'm tryin to figure out what to do in my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I just recently went back to skool and started working. He is also doing the same. Our schedules completely clash with each other. (i.e. my days off he works... his days off I work, when im in school hes workin and when im at work hes in school) Basically we dont have time to talk to each other let alone be together. Shtuff is really goin down the drain. I dont want to lose him but i cant afford to quit my job or school. Im at a point rite now where it looks like imma have to choose between the two... and i dont want to. If n e one can PLEASE help me out or give me advice on what i can,should or could do let me know...

By the way... i just gave ya'll da short version of a loooong story....
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Ok.. you are just 18? Go ahead w/ your studies and get your future together. Trust me when I tell you, you'd regret it for the rest of your life if you choose a man over your education and your future!! YOU ARE YOUNG! U Got your whole life ahead of you. Whose to say this is the ONE you will wind up being w/ for the rest of your life - right? Whatever you do, Education/Work & your future are more important that a boyfriend.

Good luck!
 
If yall meant for each other it'll all be good, if not you'll know "BELIEVE THAT".......
 
thank u rican and henny for the advice. I talked to him about it... sad to say that we ended things on real bad terms. i have to admit im sad but i guess this was something i had to do for me. now i know that even the sweetest man can be the biggest asshueco. but like i say... life goes on. i'll live...
 
DiaMoND_GiRL said:
thank u rican and henny for the advice. I talked to him about it... sad to say that we ended things on real bad terms. i have to admit im sad but i guess this was something i had to do for me. now i know that even the sweetest man can be the biggest asshueco. but like i say... life goes on. i'll live...
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Good luck to you! Better now then few years down the road wasted!
 
Hm.. i guess your right. better now den waste some more yrs of my life. but it still hurts. Life sucks... gives u da test b-fore da actual lesson.
 
Your welcome !!

Anyway let it go, if he cant support the fact you wanna better yourself in life he aint worth it.
Hey, but why you gotta call us guys "asshuecos"....🙁 we aint all bad.
life does go on and you'll be aiiiiight in due time.
DiaMoND_GiRL said:
thank u rican and henny for the advice. I talked to him about it... sad to say that we ended things on real bad terms. i have to admit im sad but i guess this was something i had to do for me. now i know that even the sweetest man can be the biggest asshueco. but like i say... life goes on. i'll live...
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LoL! im sorry henny. I wasnt referring to u! Im just saying that SOME guys can be so sweet until sh*t goes down, den they throw shit in ur face or insult u....
 
Its all good now that you said some , I feel where you comin from though.
 
Just when i thought things couldnt get worse... it has. My now ex man is talkin **it about me. Saying that its my fault we broke up and that i was trickin (cheatin) on him for about a yr with his best friend (mind u his best friend is gay). But heres the funny thing he got some other girl pregnant, yet im the one who cheated on him? i havent seen him since we broke up... but if i catch... es que lo mato...n e one wanna help?
 
If that nigga is puttin you out there like that you're better off without him.

Cojelo con take it easy, cuz what goes around comes around, he's dirty for talkin s..t about you now that yall not together anymore.
No, no lo mates que despues vas presa....lol
DiaMoND_GiRL said:
Just when i thought things couldnt get worse... it has. My now ex man is talkin **it about me. Saying that its my fault we broke up and that i was trickin (cheatin) on him for about a yr with his best friend (mind u his best friend is gay). But heres the funny thing he got some other girl pregnant, yet im the one who cheated on him? i havent seen him since we broke up... but if i catch... es que lo mato...n e one wanna help?
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lol ur rite... voy presa... and my mama gonna leave my a** in there!🙁 yeah hes dirty, but Im not gonna kill him... just hurt him :dlook . He doesnt have the balls to face me... so imma just let it be. Like u said henny what goes around comes around. Que se puede hacer?
 
Keep on living !!!!
The best thing GOD made was one day after the other, you'll see or hear the outcome (in your favor of course)...
 
how do i go on?:realsad im not gonna say i dont still love him. cuz i do. but how can i make the pain go away ?
 
tha more u put ur mind into it..da longer is gonna stay there...live on move on to better things in live...dont keep looking to ur past
 
theres a part of me thats glad hes gone. i can do what i need to do now. i dont have to depend on him, but theres that other aprt that still hurting cuz i dont have him. after all he did to me, after all i've been thru.. i still love him and i dont want to n e more. but u cant tell the heart what to do.
 
so ur heart is telling you what?? ur mind is tellin u one thing...n da heart another ur confused...understandable..but d only way to move on is to let da past go..
 
Strangest thing happen. I was cleaning my room (not thats not the strange thing) and found some cards that have like lil sayings. The one that was rite on top of the pile made me wonder...i guess things to happen for a reason. this is what it said

Spiritual growth is not automatic-
You must
  • want to grow
  • decide to grow
  • make an effort to grow
  • persist to grow
Let go of old routines, habits, relationships and develop new ones.

Strange considering my situation... guess it wasnt meant to be huh ?
 
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