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DESTINY11

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Isn't attraction more than just physical? Then why is it when someone says a person is "attractive" most of us immediately think about their looks? How do we balance the importance of looks with all the other traits that make a relationship healthy and passionate?

Me: I think I know how to spot a physically attractive man but, I alway's end up with The not so Physically attractive man. I don't think that's a bad thing because, I actually measure Overall attractiveness by a mans personality. I like a man with a sense of humor ( I find that very, very attractive) 🙂 other than that Loyalty, honesty and sincerity are also important to me as far as making it healthy and passionate.
 
GIRL YA KNOW ME LOL I USE TO BE PICKY AS HELL A MAN HAD TO LOOK MAD GOOD FOR ME TO HOOK UP WITH HIM BUT THEN I LEARNED LOOKS ARENT EVERYTHING OF COURSE I HAVE TO PHYSICALLY BE ATTRACTED TO A MAN BUT WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT IS THERE PERSONALITY AND I HAVE LEARNED THAT. THE MEN I HAVE DATED SINCE I REALIZED THIS HAVE BEEN CUTE BUT NOT WHAT I WOULD HAVE GONE FOR BACK IN THE DAYS. A MAN HAS TO STIMULATE ME MENTALLY I DONT CARE HOW GOOD YOU LOOK IF YOU CANT HOLD NO CONVO KEEP IT MOVING. HUMOR HAS TO BE A QUALITY WITHOUT A DOUBT I LOVE TO LAUGH. WE CANT BASE WHO A PERSON IS ON THERE LOOKS WHEN THERE IS MUCH MORE TO EVERY INDIVIDUAL, BUT IF HE IS FINE AS HELL AND HAS A GREAT PERSONALITY BRING HIM ON LOL 😀
 
Dang

True, the good looks couldn't hurt, but, so many females and males look at you physically before they consider any other part of you especially your brain. It's a damn shame 🙂
 
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