left me for his ex....but still loves me????????

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he left me for his ex he tells me he wants to be alone and he needs space but guess where hes at all the time!!! he calls me 4 or 5 times a day still tellin me that he loves me and he misses me and he is makein it harder for me to get over him and i dont want him to stop callin me because when i hear his voice i feel good for the time that we are on the phone....there are alot more messed of feelings im goin through right now but i will hav you people here forever....i dont know what i should do about this i have been cryin for 4 days..


GreenEyez
 
Sorry to hear that Greeneyez 🙁

My advice would be to tell him to stop calling. I know it makes you feel good when he's on the phone with you but when you hang up I'm sure you feel worse then before. I know I would.

The only way you will get over him is to cut all contact with him. It will hurt but if hes intent on staying with the ex...then it's for the best. Good luck!
 
i know i should cut him off but he dont know if hes gonna be with his ex he was here this morning before work adn he was sayin how he loves me and al that good shit..nothing happend with us he just came here for like 5 minutes he was sayin how hes not happy. i told him he made the choice to be alone now hes gotta live with it till im ready to be with him again if i even go back to him i dont know if i can he hurt me alot..

GreenEyez
 
Sorry Greeneyez but that dude's got issues. Why'd he go back to the ex if he still loves you as he says he does? :confused
 
B4 YOU CUT IT OFF, MAKE SURE YOU GET IN CONTACT WITH HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND AND LET HER KNOW WHAT HE IS DOING. IM SURE SHE WILL RECONSIDER STAYING WITH HIM.
 
Hello GreenEyes remember me? 😉

Dump him...be strong...dump him or face the ugly consequences in the long run. Happiness is deserving more than anything else...that is not what you and him equals too...equals to something any smart girl does not want to live and experience.

-antonio
 
Greeneyes, He told you that he "wanted to be alone" {please notice that I put that in quotations because ALL MEN USE THAT LINE at one time or another) yet, he's been with her. Does that sound like being alone to you?

Girl, you have no kids so walk away. That's the only way you will get over him.

What would you tell your best friend if she was going through this same situation??? You'd tell her to get away from him now. Take that advise.

He is having his cake and eating it too. He gives you the phone calls and a 5 minute visit just to string you along.

I know it hurts, and I sure as hell know what it's like to hold on to someone even if it's just a phone call here and there. That's not good enough for you and you should know that. You deserve to be with someone that loves you the way you love them.

Him wanting to be alone yet being with her should tell you that he's playing games.

Gina
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Good Luck.

BE STRONG!!!
 
i stayed the night at his house last night we started talkin and i told him that there was no way in hell that he is gonna have us both it either me or her adn he told me that he loves me. were not back togther cuz im still really hurt over the whole situation but i told him to spend some more time with her and see how he feels but if i feel that i am bein strung along then im callin her and tell her exactly how it is..

GreenEyez

~~~~~Antonio~~~~~HEY BABY
 
sorry to hear that if he calls you again just put in find yourself another puppet . from class the beg of the song says i use to be your puppet and you would pull me strings just to be with u i would do anything .
 
You asked him "Is it me or is it her" and his comment was, I love you.

Does that mean is picked you?

Greeneyez, even if you are not "with" him other then being in his company... you ARE still "with" him in a way that he knows he still has you.

Cut all ties with him... at least until he makes his decision. But don't sit around waiting for him.

Let him know it's a break up. If he wants you back, then he has to work for it.
 
why is it that women get so hung up on guys that r so obvously mistreating them or keeping them around for one reason and one reason only
 
oh god Ed, you just said a mouth full.

DONE THAT, BEEN THERE!!!

I guess we all have to go through this kind of stuff to grow as strong WOMAN!!!

AND STRONG WOMAN I AM so I thank my ex for treating me the way he did. ya know.

Gina
 
maybe i am wrong but in my case if there is someone that wants me as part of there life and wants to be part of mine there is a bond of trust thats formed. its guys like your ex and others that makes it hard for the ones that want to do the right thing
 
its not that he mistreated me while we were together but we ran into some problems before all of this happened he told me last night that he told her that he couldnt be with her in anyway cuz he loves me and it wasnt right that he was thinkin about me while he was chillen with her. so i said i was gonna call her and ask her if it was true that he said that so he said go ahead and call her. he also said that he needed to be away from me for a while so that he can miss me...but we all know thats bull...
 
Why couldn't he have just said I pick you. Why do you even give him the chance to pick between you and her. Like I told you before you really need to think things. Is it really worth it?!
 
im not tryin to make excuses for him but he is mad confused this girl told him its either he or ma and your daughter so he said why should i have to be with you to be with my daughter. you cant force yourself to be with someone if you dont want to be there. she is constantly throwwin the baby in his face which aint right he is there for his daughter in every way i have been there mad times when she wouldnt let him see her because she was with her man..i old them both yesterday that they both have issues and before anyone can be happy they need to think things through cuz the only perso getting hurt through all of this is the baby.
 
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