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Have you ever went through a time in your life when you had to sacrifice someone because all you cared for was to make them happy even if it weren't with you?

I had someone in my life who was so dear to me... I met this person when I was on a break up with my boyfriend. We were friends and we got along so well that we got attracted to each other. But then when my man and I made up and started going out again, this left this new friend of mine hanging loose. So I said it's best he started looking for another girl. In a way I was afraid that liking two people would mess up my mind and i'll end up losing both... so I had to choose.

Today I've seen him since a while back (2.5 mnths)... and he had a girl with him, he introduced us... and I had a weird feeling inside of me... I mean it's like I was jealous... the thoughts such as "I could have had him first" were not leaving my mind.... I was irritated by the thought that he was happy.

In private he told me that he wasn't over me but that this girl is someone who he believes will make him happy.

Anyone can tell me why am i feeling this way?

:crap
 
i can't exactly pin point out the reasons why, but it may be because the time that he made you happy was the time your bf made you mad/cry whatever. He was there when your bf wasn't. Even though it was such a short time before you and your bf got back together, it must have meant so much to you (and him) that its hard to forget the feelings you wanted to hold onto.
 
yeah maybe u r right... cos what u described was what happened.
 
i am happy girlie, it's just that i saw him today and i coulnd't put myself together! it's crazy! that never happened to me before.
 
Just be glad that you did the right thing by letting that other guy go...you spared him a world of hurt
 
thanks girls... i'm feeling better today.... i just coulnd't help but think... WHAT IF... WHAT IF.... but it's ok.. i mean i am happy... i guess i was just a little selfish 🙂
 
its cool though. u just need to remind urself that all sorts of feeling will come into play once u fight with someone u love - but u will work things out eventually, cuz u guys r strong enough! the feelings u had don't sound selfish, they're normal. 🙂
 
vixen said:
the feelings u had don't sound selfish, they're normal. 🙂
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thanks Vixen! for helping me out >>hugs<<

KING huh? :stoned
 
No I just thought you said shellfish 😉 no biggie right :hearton
 
lmfao... uh huh *scratches her head in confusion once again*
 
But .......but........butttttttt It's not funny..I'm gonna go stare out my window :yeey
 
I neglected to say I have my Binoculars w/ me and I caught a TV show accross The Street! LMFAO j/k Because I wanted to go outside but It was too cold to go out and play pool So I was stuck inside 🙁
 
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