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Dianita

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Okay, maybe I'm being a little over-dramatic over something stupid, but if two people are living together and one of the people is gonna be late, is it ok to ask them to call to let the other person know??? I'm not talking about a few minutes, but I mean a few hours or if there are plans. To me it's not a trust thing, but I myself after a certain point start getting worried. Am I wrong in asking my man to call me when he's running really late?
 
In my eyes you are not wrong at all. You just expressing concern thats all. Nothing wrong in that. When two people love each other they care for one other. 😉
 
It just drives me crazy too cause the car is in my name and he has no license. So I'm picturing all sorts of scenarios with the police. It's even worse when I hear sirens around the time he's due home. Even my sister knows that if she's running late, she's gotta call me because I start imagining the worst. It seems like alot has happened to people who are close to me and I just get scared.
 
Awww sweetheart I feel you on that. 🙁 Does he carry a cell phone? That would be cool 😉
 
Yes he has his cel but we just paid and it's all screwed up and he can only call out and receiving calls aren't coming in. If his with his friends, his ol' macho self won't call cause he don't wanna look whipped in front of his friends. Darn it, why do I gotta be soo paranoid?
 
Tell him how you clearly feel 😉 Communication is everything! 😀 And if he comes really late then throw him out the window. JUST KIDDING! :shush
 
Phooey. I have told him. If anything I overcommunicate. He knows alot of crap happened to people I love and I just worry. He sees me as paranoid.
 
Well as long as he knows how you feel then thats all to it. 🙂 Just go with the flow I and hope that everything will be ok.
 
U are not wrong at all hun. The call should come in out of respect. I think its the polite thing to do..
 
Thanks guys, at least I don't feel so overdramatic. I think if the tables were turned, he'd understand more how I'm feeling. BTW, he finally got home at 9:30. He went to a side-job so he has the deposit money for Sunday.
 
Dianita said:
Okay, maybe I'm being a little over-dramatic over something stupid, but if two people are living together and one of the people is gonna be late, is it ok to ask them to call to let the other person know??? I'm not talking about a few minutes, but I mean a few hours or if there are plans. To me it's not a trust thing, but I myself after a certain point start getting worried. Am I wrong in asking my man to call me when he's running really late?
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its just a matter of common courtesy to call......I'm sorry but he shoulda called
 
I don't think your over reacting at all mama. My man knows to call me if he's gonna be late..it's out of respect & I do the same for him. It's only natural to worry about the ones you love
 
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