Is it about Pride?????

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Was wondering what some of you would do in this situation. I kind of already made my mind up but I'm curious anyway.

If there was a person out there that you knew was your soulmate. You knew that you were made for eachother. But when things came down to the wire and it was time to take that next step and be together as a couple, that other person messed it up. That other person screwed the whole thing over more than once.

Would you swallow your pride and do what it takes to get this person cause you know you will be great together????
or
Would you stop thinking with your heart and listen to your mind and walk away from the whole situation for good????
 
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No it had nothing to do with another guy. Bottom line she got nervous everytime we were suppose to take that step of becoming a couple.
She dissed me as far as canceling plans and things like that, but it had nothing to do with another guy.

The girl would leave me roses and notes on my car at night, but its like she gets to nervous and chokes when it comes down to it. What am I suppose to do wait till she gets brave enough??? Life is to short to wait for people..........😕
 
I think i waited long enough I made alot of other S**t pass me by cause of this, Putnana your right but maube I'll give her 5 minutes....hahaha

Goodlookin out fellas thanks for your replies.......
 
HMMMMMMMMMM LET ME SEE HERE. PERSONALLY THERE IS ONLY SONG LONG A PERSON CAN WAIT AND WHEN YOU HAVE WAITED AND TO NO AVAIL HAS THIS PERSON MADE ACHANGE OR SHOWED YOU THAT THEY WANT TO GO THAT EXTRA STEP THEN I SAY LET THEM GO. TO ME A SOUL MATE RUNS DEEPER THEN JUST GOING GREAT TOGETHER. SURE I HAVE FELT THAT I I COULD HAVE SOMETHING GREAT WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE OF THE CONNECTION THE FEELING OF COMFORT ETC. BUT TO ME A SOULMATE TAKES YOU BEYOND ALL THAT ITS AS IF EVERYTHING BETWEEN YOU AND THAT PERSON IS SO INSYNC. EVERYTHING FLOWS FROM ONE THROUGH THE OTHER THEY ACTUALLY LIVE WITHIN YOUR SOUL IN THAT SACRED PLACE WE HOLD DEAR. OK I AM GETTING TO DEEP LOL. OK HONESTLY SWEETY IN THE END IT IS A CHOICE YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOU HAVE TO DECIDE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU, BUT IF THIS WOMAN HAS YET TO COMMIT TO YOU FOR AS YOU SAY HER GETTING NERVOUS AND CHOKED UP. YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE MORE SHE IS NOT READY TO GIVE WHAT YOU WANT, SHE IS UNSURE YOU HAVE WAITED AND NOTHING HAS CHANGED SET HER FREE IF SHE IS TRULY YOUR SOUL MATE YOU WILL FIND EACH OTHER AGAIN BUT FOR NOW WHY WAIT FOR WHAT SHE ISNT READY TO GIVE YOU. 🙂
 
Your right Angel there is nothing deeper than being someones soul mate, and at this satge I can definately not say for sure that this girl is my soulmate.
I was never the type of guy to get down over a girl, even girls I was in relationships with, I get over things real quick.
I know I have to do whats right for me and just move on, but damn I feel like smacking the sh*t out of myself cause I can't get this girl out of my head.
 
WHOCAREZ BELIEVE ME I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH LETS JUST SAY I WAS GOING THROUGH THE SAME DAMN THING A MINUTE AGO LOL, BUT I REALIZED THAT WHEN A PERSON TRULY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU THEY SHOULD NOT LET ANYTHING GET IN THE WAY. WHY MAKE A PERSON WAIT IF DEEP INSIDE YOU WANT TO BE WITH THEM NO POINT IN PROCRASTINATING, BUT AS I SAID I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. THERE ON YOUR MIND AND YOU CANT UNDERSTAND WHY. HEY YOU WILL GET OVER HER. JUST KEEP IT MOVING NENE 🙂
 
Thanx Angel appreciate the advice. Your right I'm don ewith the whole situation. If she wants to wait for whatever reasons she has its her loss.
It sux😡 but oh well life goes on.....

Thanx again sweeety
 
Its all good Putana, I like the jokes. trust me im not that sensative of a person. Don't get me wrong I was hung up on this girl for a while but screw that, I'll be fine.

You the man, without jokes this stuff would be boring..........😀
 
YOU KNOW HOW THAT SAYING GOES ONE MANS LOSS IS ANOTHER MANS GAIN WELL IN YOUR CASE ONE WOMANS LOSS IS ANOTHER WOMANS GAIN. JUST MOVE ON WITH THOUGHT IN MIND, AND YOUR WELCOME LOL 😀
 
hmmm,

well I am one to believe that if its meant to be it will happen in time.

Believe me, I was in a very similar situation.

I hope it all works out for you
 
You are all right. If its ment ot be it will happen and if its to late then that means I found the right person for me and she lost out.

SweetAngel your the best...............😛

Thanx everyone for your replies and opinions..
Putana, you sicko, dont start getting all serious on me..........😎
 
well bro..... if yall were "soul mates" you would feel it within you, without a doubt, and you wouldn't have to question any of this..... that whole "if its meant to be... " and yadda.... thats great, but nothing just falls into your lap... you gotta work for it.... so if its "true" and you feel within you its real, then don't question the sh**, ...just do everything in your power to brighten the eyes of this amazing gurl......

one.love
midnight.eternal
 
TO be honest I wasnt ready to give up on this girl yet. SO this is what I did. I called her and told her to give me a call whenever she is ready to take that step. In the mean time I am moving on with my life and gonna do what I have to do. If shes calls and im available then I guess it was ment to be, If she doesnt call then oh well I guess it wasnt meant to be.
We will see what happens, I will keep you guys posted.
Thanx for your opinions........😀
 
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