inter-racial relationships

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hmmm well r u talking about cross nationality too i dont really care but mind u i dont know im usually attracted to guys that are my nationality mind u i have gone out with others...
 
k well importuguese and my bf is italin but thats not inter racial but still i dont think it should really matter
 
I think its a beautiful thing... I have 3 bi racial babies and they are beautiful!!!!!!! Its all about the persons heart and how they treat you, not whats on the outside.
 
well maybe i can get some advice then.. i'm fully italian and the guy im "with" is black. we're not really together because my mom would kill me, its not that shes prejudiced or racists she is just stuck in the old days. i am in love with him and i dont care that he's black but what she doesnt understand is that my preference is black guys for some reason, and they've met she thinks he's nice but she says i'm not allowed to date him. i mean we act like we're together but im afraid to be open around my mom since she doesnt approve of this situation. i've tried to tell her soo many times before that its just who i like and she cant change that, and she cant stop me or anything, and her making me feel bad about this whole thing isn't gonna change my opinion or my feelings ya know? well idk what should i say to her? how can i convince her that this is just the way i am and i dont know if i will change. i mean she thinks everyone looks down on a relationship like this, and she says that if me and him are together we'll be made fun of.. first of all thats not true, second i dont even care!!! but what should i say to her and how should i deal with this situation? cuz its not right to him, i'm sure he feels like shyt cuz he cant get her approval.. :crap
 
gerl i would wait a bit im half italian half portuguese (but was raised fuly portuguese so thats wut i consider myself) and yeah portuguese italian same thing really and i know cuz of my parents just wait it out and if it turns into something more serious then i would lether know...good luck
 
well fantasygerl... i'm in the inter-ratial relationship.. i'm white, eastern european.. he's south american. i love him... period.
we've been together for 4yrs now. Had the ups and downs, but we're still strong!
Thing is ma... people tried to separate us since the beginning and his dumb family is STILL trying 🙄. They will lose.. no matter what.
Hun, i would wait a little... you're young. Your parents are still inferior of u. They still dominate. If u tell them, and they're not OK with the bi-ratial relationships, its in their power to stop it.
Just be happy with who ur with. Regardless what people say. Like i used to tell my EX-friends "I'm with him... not u."

good luck sweety
 
true sxy, it's in their power to stop it but noo! lol i dont want them too! well thank you very much for all the words 🙂

gina.. my lil cousin is sicilian/portugese - she's soooo cute! lol
 
Dayum girl im a latina Puerto Rican & Dominican to be exact and I what a person ethnicity (I dont think I speeled that right lol) to me dont mean shiat you cant control who your heart falls in love with love is love people come in different shapes and sizes lol and flavors. My mother is my mom and my homegirl and she has never had a problem with who I involved myself with if she didnt approve there race was never the case it was mostly cuz she knew they was assholes lol. The man I love is moreno, the man my mom loves is moreno the man my sister loves is turkish. My point being is my grandmother was like that when my mom and dad first got together because my father was darker, latino but darker and she was real ignorant about the whole thing she was raised to believe that you didnt date outside your kind hence No PR&DR so she was prejudice against latinos but when I was born she sang another song and now my grandmothers views are nothing like that its as if she never thought like that. I was raised to believe that when I fell in love it didnt matter what they looked like if they made me happy so be it. All I can say is it give it time when your parents are brought up as they are only time can change there views sooner or later they will have to except that it isnt a preference that you have its who your heart chose mamita. 🙂
 
awww ang!! thank you soo much! i guess in due time everything will be just fine, the more my mom gets to kno him it'll be okay, thank you all!!! 🙂
 
I see NOTHING wrong with it, as a matter of fact, all my relationships were inter-racial... LOL
 
Shit, my mom hated it but she had no choice... I am an adult and if she didn't like it, she got used to it... She liked my exs after she got to know them... And my daughter is biracial also, and she got used to it...
 
You know, people can be so judgmental about shit that is none of there business. To them I say: BLOW IT OUT YOUR ASS AND GET A LIFE! Love is love, no matter who it comes from. So fantasygerl, if your mom is stuck in the stone age, then leave her there. If you're really feeling this guy, then run with it😉
 
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