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Orgntr1 said:
How can a negative individual change his ways?
Answer this however you'd like but no jokes. 😉
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Have plastic surgery and call yourself Walker.....


sorry soap opera joke......
 
First to admit to themselves they have negative ways
 
well org,

to answer you honestly, I am not so sure one that has always been negative can change, but then again I could be wrong. Many will say that people can change, but it hasn't been my experience. Not to say that they can't change, I guess they have to want it bad enough, want to make a difference in themselves for themselves first, and be content with themselves. Negativity is always so easy to fall into, but when they start to turn that into a positive, that's when they got it going on😉 you.
 
Most changes people need to make starts mentally. I suppose the person would have be serious about changing and get tired of themselves. Most negative people live miserable lives. A person needs to make different choices and change their perspective. You can't keep making the same choices and expecting different results.
 
do/say the opposite of what u would usually.

nah its hard to change a negative person... almost impossible.. u need to have a lot of WILL POWER... that's the only way.. cos if u keep being stubborn, then wha'ts the point of trying.
 
Nyasia said:
well org,

to answer you honestly, I am not so sure one that has always been negative can change, but then again I could be wrong. Many will say that people can change, but it hasn't been my experience. Not to say that they can't change, I guess they have to want it bad enough, want to make a difference in themselves for themselves first, and be content with themselves. Negativity is always so easy to fall into, but when they start to turn that into a positive, that's when they got it going on😉 you.
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Well I think it can happen. Have you ever been stuck in between (positive, negative) worlds? I think it's just a sign of change in progress. It's either one or the other but you can't be both. And eventually you will be one.
 
A negative person has to want to change. Nobody can make them change but people can help along with process as long as the person is open to suggestions.

Maybe this person needs positive people in his/her life.
 
Orgntr1 said:
Well I think it can happen. Have you ever been stuck in between (positive, negative) worlds? I think it's just a sign of change in progress. It's either one or the other but you can't be both. And eventually you will be one.
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your right eventtually you will be one, adn that's when they have to ask themselves which one they want to be? hopefully they will go with positive😉

MCB, I agree with you 100% on having peeps there to help along.
 
RainaMichon said:
Most changes people need to make starts mentally. I suppose the person would have be serious about changing and get tired of themselves. Most negative people live miserable lives. A person needs to make different choices and change their perspective. You can't keep making the same choices and expecting different results.
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That's true.
 
You have to have a lot of will power to put up with the individual. Just continue to do positive thing about the person and don't do the negative thing that they do. Remember goodness always win against evil. Eventually, the person will see your kindness but you have to be patience. ricanlips4u your exactly right!
 
Most negative are individual who were hurt as a child in one way or another. So, they become negative as self-defense mechanism. You got to go within yourself and see when it started. Then realize what was going on with you at that moment. It's a learned behavior. So, you can change. It's not like genetics. it's something you picked up and learned growing up. You saw that if you were negative maybe people wouldnt pick on you or maybe you got more attention being negative. So, you stuck with it. I use to be real sarcastic, to the point that I could be a real jerk and annoying. Till I learned it was a learned behavior and not something that i was born with. Took me alittle over a year to stop. I had to make a conscious effort to stop and it wasnt easy. But I did it. Sometimes it still comes out but hey i'm only human. lol



Good Luck
Tank
 
tanktruck said:
Most negative are individual who were hurt as a child in one way or another. So, they become negative as self-defense mechanism. You got to go within yourself and see when it started. Then realize what was going on with you at that moment. It's a learned behavior. So, you can change. It's not like genetics. it's something you picked up and learned growing up. You saw that if you were negative maybe people wouldnt pick on you or maybe you got more attention being negative. So, you stuck with it. I use to be real sarcastic, to the point that I could be a real jerk and annoying. Till I learned it was a learned behavior and not something that i was born with. Took me alittle over a year to stop. I had to make a conscious effort to stop and it wasnt easy. But I did it. Sometimes it still comes out but hey i'm only human. lol



Good Luck
Tank
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That's exactly how I feel I am. It's making me unhappy and not wanting to live life the way I want to. Thanks for the advice.
 
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