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I think so, otherwise, I wouldn't have my beautiful daughter. There was a time that I had met someone and did what I thought was right instead of following my heart at that point, and for many years, I was haunted by the "what ifs."
 
Yup because even if i had only felt it for a minute it would have been worth it, if I had only touched,kissed, held, felt him for 1 minute it would still have been worth it. Noone deserves to cry noone deserves to hurt but we all do for some reason or another but if you can feel love at its greatest everythign else is small in comparison. To love is the greatest gift God has ever given us as well as the most painful but think abotu each moment you sepnt with someone you knew in your heart of hearts you would always love and ask yourself was it all worth it. when its that great thenits worth fighting for no matter what you know now it wont change what you felt then.
 
Yeah I would too guys. The endings might have sucked but there are still alot of good memories and I think we need to hold on to those and just let go of the bad.
 
Ohhh.....that's a good question.


wish I had an answer from experience.

All I can say is, even though it is hard to believe, you should never regret following your heart, as long as there are happy times, even if it doesn't last.

Allow me to quote "The Dance" by Garth Brooks, later by Rockell.


Lookin' back, On the memory of
The dance we shared, Neath the stars above
For a moment, All the world was right
How could I have known, That you'd ever say goodbye?

And now, I'm glad I didn't know
The way It all would end
The way It all would go
Our lives, Are better left to chance
I could have missed the pain,
But I would've had to miss the dance.

Holding you, I held everything
For a moment, Wasn't I a king?
But If I'd only known, How the king would fall
Hey who's to say, You know I might have changed it all

And now, I'm glad I didn't know
The way It all would end
The way It all would go
Our lives, Are better left to chance
I could have missed the pain,
But I would've had to miss the dance

It's my life, It's better left to chance
I could have missed the pain
But I would've had to miss, the dance
 
Yup even history teaches us every struggle every painful moment endured in the end it was always worth it. 🙂
 
yes I would. I would do it all over again in the same manner cause if not I won't get to where I am today.
 
No I Wouldnt Follow.now That I Am Older,and Wiser,i Truly Know The Meaning Of Love,and What I Want Out Of Someone,and What I Can Offer.i Know,god Would Of Blessed Me With Children,sooner Or Later,i Just Wish It Was Now,instead Of 4 Years Ago,cause I Know The Person,im With Now,if Bared My Children,would Be Forever!!,and Because Of The Two Young Mentallities,that Had Two Children,my Babies Are Now Part Of A Broken Home,and They Miss Daddy!!!!!!now I Gotta Cry!
 
italo512 said:
No I Wouldnt Follow.now That I Am Older,and Wiser,i Truly Know The Meaning Of Love,and What I Want Out Of Someone,and What I Can Offer.i Know,god Would Of Blessed Me With Children,sooner Or Later,i Just Wish It Was Now,instead Of 4 Years Ago,cause I Know The Person,im With Now,if Bared My Children,would Be Forever!!,and Because Of The Two Young Mentallities,that Had Two Children,my Babies Are Now Part Of A Broken Home,and They Miss Daddy!!!!!!now I Gotta Cry!
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In my eyes the only homes that are broken are the ones that forget about the children. You have your babies, you love them and are always there for them. Believe it you are home for them. As for missing they daddy hopefully he realizes that his children need him and he won't let them miss him.
 
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Things could have been vastly different for me if back then I knew what I know now 🙁 I could have avoided costly mistakes.
 
La Mas Grande said:
In my eyes the only homes that are broken are the ones that forget about the children. You have your babies, you love them and are always there for them. Believe it you are home for them. As for missing they daddy hopefully he realizes that his children need him and he won't let them miss him.
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Wonderfully said LMG.....

Italo512, you and the ex may not be together, but you both love your kids, an they know you love them. It's all good, buddy.
 
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Just realized Italo you are the daddy...... on that note, that fact that you acknowledge that they miss you and you've taken the steps to recitify that shows that you love them.
I resent being called a single mom, because Im not. Both me and my ex's have taken steps to make sure that none of us are doing it alone.
 
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