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I wasn't gonna write about this but I'm soo angry & upset over it I just need to vent. So I met this guy a few weeks ago at a club. And ladies when I tell you the man is FINE I am not lyin...he's beautiful. So we start talkin & shyt...we hit it off. He calls me the next day & stuff. Everything was cool. I asked him did he have a girl, wife, etc. he says no & then I asked him did he have any kids...he says no. Ok fine. I thought it was a little unusual for him to not have a girl cuz damn i tell you he looks good as hell. I kept sayin that to him to but he kept on insisting he didn't have a girl or anything. So like a couple weeks go by & everything is cool. I'm starting to really dig him & shyt. And he tells me the same...blah blah blah.
Well then last week I get a phone call from none other then the fool's WIFE!!! She was very nice on the phone which if that was me I wouldn't have been. She said she checked his phone & found my number. She said they lived together but were seperated...how the hell that can be I have no clue. She said they were trying to work things out but because he can't keep his d*ck in his pants they were seperated. I told her I had no idea cuz all he did was tell me lies. She told me that he's done this before with girls from the same damn club. I asked her why she stayed with him thwn & she said that even tho he's a dog she still loves him cuz they been together since they were 15 & married for 5 yrs. But the best was she said becasue of the kids...I said kids? He told me he didn't have any. That really pissed me off. He has 2 boys. I was like how can that mofo lie about having kids when I'm over here with a child who's father is dead. UGHHH
So anyway we talked for a little bit & she actually thanked me for talkin to her cuz she said the other girls just hang up on her or whatever. I felt bad for her but then again not really cuz I'm sorry I feel she is stupid to stay with him when she knows he is out there doing whatever & not givin a shyt about her or their kids. The bottom line is I was a fool & believed whatever he had to say. And usually I ain't like that. I haven't talked to him since then but I feel like he owes me an explanantion of why he did what he did. Why are men dogs??? UGHHHH :bangbang
 
sounds like the guy i was with from college. i dumped his ass rght when he confessed. the wife is dumb for putting up with it and lettign him get away with it. he probably will always cheat on her cause he knows he can and still go back.

at least you know now. its not your fault. dont give up on all men.most guys at clubs are only looking for 1 thing.
 
Yeah I know but damn he is fine as hell. I guess that's what sucked me in, his looks...LOL. Damn why can't i just find someone who ain't a fukin dog?
 
cause alot of guys r dawgs nowadays. they all seem so nice at first. you can usually feel if something is not rght. you are a pretty women so the guys will sell themselves to you at any price.the wife needs to clip off his cojones!!
 
by any chance is his name Jay?

girl i went throught the same thing, and after the wife called me, i spoke 2 him and he was on the phone for about 2 hours or more telling me it was a lie, that was some one out 2 get him, that he really cared for me blah blah blah
men r dogs why i don't know but they r

 
omg crazygirl that is f'd up. what a pig. i could never cheat.
 
i feel for the wife but she is allowing it so he will continue to do it
but as for you lmg you dont need to deal with trash like that you can do better than that.😉
 
You did the right thing by talking to her. She probably has insecurity issues with her self that is why she does not leave him, because as a woman who has been there, i would not accept that. He is not worth even hearing an expalnation from because he is a dog and you are very lucky to have found out sooner than later. i don't know how long the relationship lasted but like a say the truth always comes out.
 
jennifer, girl, your gonna be alright!! i think he does owe you an explanation, but after everything, do you think you can believe anything he says? what kind of man denies his children? there are other men out there, you know that....you are beautiful and you deserve better!! keep your head up, girl. i'm here for ya! 😉
 
Thanks everybody...I know yall are right about him. I feel like a fool cuz I allowed myself to be sucked into his lies when i had this feeling something wasn't right with what he was tellin me. LOL Crazygirl nah ma his name wasn't Jay
 
grrrr. i dont blame u for being mad!!! i would be pissed but honestly after all that drama i would leave everything the way it is... F his explanation....he aint worth s@it!!!
 
Damn Carlito's you don't gotta be all rough about it. And I don't expect anything from anybody I meet regardless of where it is. I just wanna know why he lied about having 2 kids...what's the deal with that?
 
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