I did not want to make my topic personal that is why I did not mention names but Barinella thinks everyone should know the truth. He is really nice, funny and sweet. He is just not good to have a committed relationship with because he likes to cheat. But Barinella took it there and I feel bad becuase I was just telling a general story about what happened and now it's personal. I am a pissed off about this right now. This is not cool.Baby1010 said:Sounds like a punk ass Bi*ch to me... but then again i dont know him :lol
naynay102 said:I did not want to make my topic personal that is why I did not mention names but Barinella thinks everyone should know the truth. He is really nice, funny and sweet. He is just not good to have a committed relationship with because he likes to cheat. But Barinella took it there and I feel bad becuase I was just telling a general story about what happened and now it's personal. I am a pissed off about this right now. This is not cool.
You are right and my beef was exactly that, things would have been 100% different if he would have been honest. for example, he could have said this b4 we actually became a couple " Nay I am a dj and I like to sleep with alot of women so if you want to be one of them I will hit you off when you need to scratch your itch," but instead he says. "I want you to be my wife, have my baby etc......" and acts like he wants to be committed to me. I was giving this man my all in the relationship, until one day after losing the baby I felt different when we were together. I changed with him and he changed with me. Honesty is always the best policy, who knows how things would have been now. But as a person he is not bad at all. And this is why I did not want to mention names. I don't want people thinking bad and judging others because we as humans can be very hurtful towards others.Baby1010 said:Hey any guy who cheats is a punk as B*tch to me :lol.... soweee im in my "MEN SUCK" phase... dont mind me LOL
Getting into relatioships are tricky, because you don't know what peoples intentions are. I am very big on RESPECT. It is something that has to be valued and if you do not have that in a relationship it will go down the drain. I have been thru alot. b4 this happened I was single and I stood single for two years after breaking up with my fiance, because I did not want the headaches that some men come with. However sometimes things happen and it is out of your control, the relationship that just ended is a big learning experience for me because I am the type of person that goes all out for my people, if I have it they have it and not everyone deserves that kind of treatment. But you live and learn right? You are right about u can't live with them or without them. But I choose to be alot more cautious who I do become invovled with when I decide I am ready to start dating again. And no man will ever get my all until I do all my homework about them. The relationship that just ended was something that came out of the blue, we were friends and then we became lovers and I got pregnant right away. I did not even believe what was happeneing to me but everything happens for a reason. I really do miss the friendship and I wish I would have never gotten involved with him to the extent that I did, but what can you do like my father says mistakes are made and mistakes are paid.Baby1010 said:U r so right.. Girl im sorry u had to go thru all that... believe me i know how it feels i broke up with my ex after 5 years.... After thinking he was the one i was gonna marry & have kids blah blah blah... i found out he was cheating (caught him big time) & to this day he deny's it thats what makes me so mad that he cant tell the truth & take responsibility for his actions....oooh dont get me started LOL MEN!!!!!... cant live with em...cant live without em....LOL...
I have been thru alot and everyone who knows me will tell you that I am a cool person, if I can help I will. Thank you for your concerns. Is it me, was I right not to mention names when I started Games?Baby1010 said:You have been thru alot girl.... i hope everything works out for u U seem like a good person...🙂
I agree but it's too late now.Baby1010 said:Yes... i dont think any names should be mentioned....
Yes,FantasyGerl said:So Barinella, you and the girl your man cheated on you with are now best friends? That is so strange.
Thank you for the compliment, you are too kind. I will pick up the cd's later on. Guys sometimes think of one thing and that is why they lose out on someone with good qualities.Barinella said:Yes,
We are good friends now. She seemed to have rubbed me the right way. She's funny, cute, sweet, sincere, outgoing, rich, great body, smart, jokes alot,
I dont know why anyone would cheat on her.
If I was a guy .........I'd ask her out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But she's just my friend.
And for that I am happy.