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Well I Was Dating This Guy For A Few Months. I Really Loved Him Everything Seemed So Perfect Until One Day We Were Supposed To Go Out And He Stood Me Up. He Told Me He Had To Think About Our Relationship And He Just Decided We Can Not Be Together Anymore. (he Told Me He Did Not Want To Be In A Relationship With Anyone But I Found Out He Was Going Out With This New Girl For A While.) The Problem Was That I Already Fell In Love With Him. I Was And Still Am Heartbroken. He Only Calls Me When He Needs Something And I Have Tried So Hard To Try To Get Him Back But Nothing Is Working. He Always Made Sure He Said Thank You To Me For Always Being There For Him And Loving Him For Who He Really Is He Says No One Ever Loved Him Like That. Well I Do Not Understand Why He Would Let Me Go If Thats So True. I Get So Angry Because I Drop So Many Things For Him And He Treats Me So Bad. I Just Want Him To Realize What He Is Losing Here And Im Afraid He Has Too Much Pride To Ever Let Me Know Or To Even Come Back To Me. I Love Him With All My Heart But I Dont Know What Else I Can Do But I Am Sick Of Him Always Taking Advantage Of Me. How Can I Forget About Him? Any Advice?
 
man i went through a simaliar situation with my ex i always did for him and nothing ever came back my way no matter how much i showed that i cared he never seem to care so i thought about it this way if he really cared for me then he wouldn't of treated me like that so maybe you should do the same if he really apprieciates you he would be with you hope that helps don't worry better days are coming keep your head up girl
 
Melly22 said:
man i went through a simaliar situation with my ex i always did for him and nothing ever came back my way no matter how much i showed that i cared he never seem to care so i thought about it this way if he really cared for me then he wouldn't of treated me like that so maybe you should do the same if he really apprieciates you he would be with you hope that helps don't worry better days are coming keep your head up girl
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YEAH THANK YOU FOR THE REPLY BUT I TRIED TO THINK OF IT THAT WAY BUT ITS JUST SO HARD BECAUSE I LOVE HIM
 
Yeah i hear you girl but sometimes you have to let go its not easy but if its meant to be then he will come back to you til then I hope you feel better 🙂
 
I Went Through That Too, Omg This Man Took Such Advantage Of Me. Then I Thought One Day "do I Want My Future Children To Know That I Put Up With "this" In The Name Of Love? I Don't Think So!" I Cut Him Loose And It Took A While To Get Over Him But I Am A Better Person Today For Doing So. In The End, Just Do What You Feel. You Can't Make Everyone Happy, And If Putting Up With It Makes You Happy Then Go For It; But If It Makes You Sad Mama, Let It Go. Love Ya!
 
I believe every girl has gone through this once or twice.
My advise: And it's just an advice.

Take your sweeeeeeet time and don't go after him. Why, because he KNOOOOWWWS that you love him and that whatever he does you'll be there for him.

Turn the tables on him for a change, why?? You already proved to him that you'll be there for him--BUT he hasn't proved shiat to YOU. And you know what you are so much better than him, because you're brave enough to give him your :hpound Not everyone is brave enough to give their :hpound because we don't want to get hurt(again and again and again).

So test him for a change. If he calls you don't go running to him, don't answer the phone (if you know it's him) at least once, don't call him back so quickly. If he asks you out, say yes but it should be YOU the one deciding WHEN & WHERE not him. TAKE CHARGE and just be a little more stronger.

If you want to get over him--that's easy(NOT!!!!-I'm just motivating you) don't answer his phone calls, don't visit the places you'll know he'll be there. Just shut him out even though it's hard. What if you take a different road than the one he's taken what if you meet the real man of your life in that different road.

Remember even though hard situations may break us apart, but when we heal, we become stronger and learn to recognize the hard road ahead and we'll be a little more caustios at time.

Hope this helps you. I've done it and it works, believe me if he realizes he's losing you and lets you go then he doesn't deserve you. If he comes back to you then he really knows how valuable you are.

Sorry for the long sermon. :yeey
 
Oooooh And If Ya'll Are At The Same Place And Bump Into Eachother Blow Him Off! He'll Start Thinking Girl!
 
atx said:
I Went Through That Too, Omg This Man Took Such Advantage Of Me. Then I Thought One Day "do I Want My Future Children To Know That I Put Up With "this" In The Name Of Love? I Don't Think So!" I Cut Him Loose And It Took A While To Get Over Him But I Am A Better Person Today For Doing So. In The End, Just Do What You Feel. You Can't Make Everyone Happy, And If Putting Up With It Makes You Happy Then Go For It; But If It Makes You Sad Mama, Let It Go. Love Ya!
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THANKS I KNOW I HAVE TO LET IT GO BECAUSE I AM NOT HAPPY AT ALL. I MEAN I LOVE HIM A LOT BUT HE BRINGS ME DOWN. I TREAT HIM SO GOOD AND HE TREATS ME LIKE HIS ENEMY BUT IN ORDER FOR ME TO BE HAPPY AND STOP CRYING I HAVE TO TRY MY BEST TO LET HIM GO AND JUST HOPE ONE DAY HE REALIZES.
 
G_I_JOE_EMR said:
I believe every girl has gone through this once or twice.
My advise: And it's just an advice.

Take your sweeeeeeet time and don't go after him. Why, because he KNOOOOWWWS that you love him and that whatever he does you'll be there for him.

Turn the tables on him for a change, why?? You already proved to him that you'll be there for him--BUT he hasn't proved shiat to YOU. And you know what you are so much better than him, because you're brave enough to give him your :hpound Not everyone is brave enough to give their :hpound because we don't want to get hurt(again and again and again).

So test him for a change. If he calls you don't go running to him, don't answer the phone (if you know it's him) at least once, don't call him back so quickly. If he asks you out, say yes but it should be YOU the one deciding WHEN & WHERE not him. TAKE CHARGE and just be a little more stronger.

If you want to get over him--that's easy(NOT!!!!-I'm just motivating you) don't answer his phone calls, don't visit the places you'll know he'll be there. Just shut him out even though it's hard. What if you take a different road than the one he's taken what if you meet the real man of your life in that different road.

Remember even though hard situations may break us apart, but when we heal, we become stronger and learn to recognize the hard road ahead and we'll be a little more caustios at time.

Hope this helps you. I've done it and it works, believe me if he realizes he's losing you and lets you go then he doesn't deserve you. If he comes back to you then he really knows how valuable you are.

Sorry for the long sermon. :yeey
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THANK YOU SO MUCH SWEETHEART THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED TO KNOW RIGHT NOW. YOU ARE HELPING ME SOOOOO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA. ITS JUST SO HARD BECAUSE I LOVE HIM BUT I CAN NOT KEEP LETTING HIM TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME. IM GOING TO START IGNORING HIM AND MAYBE HE WILL REALIZE. MY FRIENDS ALSO TELL ME HE TAKES ADVANTAGE AND TREATS ME THE WAY HE DOES BECAUSE HE KNOWS I TRULY LOVE HIM AND WOULD DO ANYTHING. HE KNOWS THAT TOO BUT IM GOING TO TRY MY BEST TO LET HIM GO.
 
atx said:
Oooooh And If Ya'll Are At The Same Place And Bump Into Eachother Blow Him Off! He'll Start Thinking Girl!
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I DID THATS ONCE BEFORE BACK IN JUNE AND HE WAS LIKE WHY DID YOU BLOW ME OFF AND HE KEPT CALLING ME BUT AS SOON AS I STARTED CALLING HIM HE STOPPED AGAIN.
 
If He Doesn't Realize How Great You Are And All The Love You Have To Give Then Someone Else Will. Just Look To The Future And Not The Past (as Far As He's Concerned) And You'll Be Fine....
 
atx said:
If He Doesn't Realize How Great You Are And All The Love You Have To Give Then Someone Else Will. Just Look To The Future And Not The Past (as Far As He's Concerned) And You'll Be Fine....
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THANK YOU. HOPEFULLY THAT IS TRUE IM TIRED OF IT. THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR A YEAR AND IM FINALLY READY TO LET IT GO. I DESERVE HAPPINESS.
 
he was cheatin. move on. forget him. your life was good before him and it will be after. go date others. you deserve the best in life.
 
I Ahve Been Through This Ishhhh Before...i Know It's Hard But Keep Busy...start Going Out With Your Friends...jsut Stay Busy....don't Call Him And If He Calls You Don't Answer Or Pick Up. He Will Start Thinking Hmmm What's Up With Her??? Why Isn't She Answering My Calls? Or Why Isn't She Calling Me Anymore?? Or Just Move On Mama!
 
Ma go with what G_I_JOE_EMR said it is so true .... With my ex it was the same way when I stop looking for him and I kept him out of my life when he saw that I was doing me he came calling me emailing me tryin to get intouch ......

Now we back together but I let him know from the door how things are going to be ..Sometime you just have to put your foot down so they understand you cant play that game again I respect you then you respect me if not go the same way you came ....

Hope you feel better is not easy cuz it sure wasn;t for me I tell you that ... But you have to give it your all to put it lil by lil aside do you ...... You see in time he come back to you ....

Some Guys are azz some times when they have it they dont want it and when they dont have it they want it no matter what they want us to jump when they say so ...
 
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