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Ok... Girls!

Have you ever been with a guy that is Jealous? And did u let that break u 2 up?

Like my man and I have been together almost 2 yrs.. and he is jealous!!! Like sometimes he gives me chit for coming on here so much to talk. I mean my man doesnt like freestyle. He listens to it for me. SO I tell him I get on here, B/c all of you like freestyle. I dont know maybe I am just taking it all wrong. I mean I love him and all but sometimes I get so tired of it! You know what I mean?

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Amanda aka Bonita!!!
 
Girl..that is a situation that is never gonna change. I was with my boyfriend ( now EX) for 4 freakin' years!! He was the VERY jealous type. If he caught me talking w/ another guy he would freak out! Even if he knew i was on the internet he would go crazy thinking i was talking to other guys! ..it was crazy and as much as I loved him and proved it to him it was never good enough for him. I got soooo tired of it that I broke up with him. He kept telling me that he would change his jealous ways for me..but it never happened, it only got worse! Girl, just be careful and try not to let him trap you for living your life because of his jealous ways...
 
My ex used to be jealous all the time. We would have these stupid ass fights over things like me hanging with my best friend. And the thing was we were not even together, we were only friends with benefits. Well I told him that he had to stop being so jealous and that I wouldn't do that to him. The I liked him too much. He believed me for a while, but we broke up any way cause it just came back. I told him if he didn't trust me then there was no reason of us being together. so that was that.
 
being jealous does change. i changed. but, instead of being so mad at your boyfriend, get to the root of the problem. dont ignore it.

there had to be something in his life to make him so jealous.
 
WURD UP LISTEN TO GUIDO
JUST GET TO THE ROOT AND SEE WHY ITS JUST THE INTERNET
IF YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND THEN YOU DONT WORRY JUST SHOW HIM ITS ALL HIM AND YOU ONLY WANT HIM IF THATS HOW YOU FEEL
 
Jealousy is cool to a point cuz it makes you feel good...but when it gets to a different level it becomes obsession.

jealousy is a sign of insecurity.....not all jelousy but that type of jealousy. Be careful!
 
I have tried to get to the root of the probelm. But we just get into big azz fightes. " WHy you gotta get on the internet" He alwasy tells me that. I have broke up with him 2 times...and he cries for me. And I feel so bad cuz he moved from San Antiono to live here with me. I mean he hardly knows anyone, so where would he go if I kicked him out? I mean Its my house. I have nothing to worry about. I dunno what to do. 🙁
 
Hmm...

Well he's obviously possesive. You can either accept him the way he is or leave him. Why make a person change if THAT is the way he is? You can't make him change. If he is this because you cheat on him I could understand, but if he is insecure for no reason then you should try to tell him that you're not going to do anything bad on the net and having internet access is very important to you. Besides posting here all day I use it for work, pay my bills, keep in contact with family & friends, buy groceries, trade stocks, order cosmetics... If its on the net most likely I will do it or buy it.

If you love him then talk to him. If he's a pain in the culo then do what my grandma always says to me "Lo que no sirve, se bota!"
 
I don't understand why some girls tell their man EVERYTHING. I posted in da Freestyle Nation BB for 3 yrs, and my man never knew of it,...I'm posting here now,.....he doesn't have a clue either...(it's none of his business.lol) when he's around, and i'm on the internet, i'll be taking care of my family e-mails or buying cd's searching for stuff etc...he doesn't know my password and is not allowed to read my e-mails...what I'm trying to say is at some point in your relationship u must've allowed him to have some kind of control over u....Jealousy IS insecurity, and the only way they feel better is to control and limit the time u spend with someone other than him.....U HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL AGAIN....If the situation doesn't get better, then move on.......much luv!!!
 
I think you should talk to him about it.......(being online) I mean get real it's so important to be online....if your not your missing out big time......everything is on the net; not just chats.....hey maybe you can get him to check out the website so that he can see that nobody gets out of hand and everyone respects one another and it's not like a dating meeting website
 
HMMMMMMM...I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION LONG TIME AGO...AT FIRST I THOUGHT IT WAS CUTE CUZ IT SHOWED HE LOVED...OR SO I THOUGHT...ANYWAY THEN HE JUST STARTED TO GET ON MY DAMN NERVES...SO I WOULD TELL HIM THAT I HAD A PROBLEM WITH HIS JEALOUSY...WE WOULD GET INTO HUGE FIGHTS...SO THEN I THOUGHT OK I'LL JUST GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE...WHATEVER HE DID I WOULD GET ALL MAD LIKE I WAS JEALOUS...THEN WHEN WE HAD ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER ARGUING WE BROKE IT OFF...AND IT FELT GOOD TO BE FREE!!! MUCH LUV, LISA 😛
 
LABON1TA

I AGREE WITH KENNY, BUT ALSO IF THE MAN DONT LIKE FREESTYLE, DROP HIM. J/P.

KENNY GUIDO said:
being jealous does change. i changed. but, instead of being so mad at your boyfriend, get to the root of the problem. dont ignore it.
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I for one do not hide anything from my wife. She knows that I am on CF & it doesn't bother her. I talk to many girls from the net on IM's & I even have like 5 girls (TONI & LISA from CF & 3 other girls from the net) call my house & I call about 6 girls. BUT at no point does she get jealous. She just doesn't like when they call at 4am right TONI & COZMIK? OOOps Cozmik will call occassionally. But anyway we have a loving & trusting relationship. I mean I for one am not jealous if some guy talks to my wife. BUT there is a line of respect to be followed. I will not get jealous, but if that person says something he ain't supposed to, you can bet that his ass will be buked. I just think that jealousy is for kids.
 
Jealousy is for kids

It must be true if the "old fart" himself said it LOL But seriously, I think you should let him know that it's gotten to the point that if he doesn't change his attitude that you'll leave. Maybe if he really loves you like he says he does, he'll change if not--c ya. For reals you seem to be young still, there's plenty of other nice respectful guys out there. You shouldn't spend so much time being miserable.>>
Best of luck--ur friend TERESA🙂
 
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