I called my Ex-Boyfriend

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Oh my god guys , I called my ex-true love on his cell phone last night at 2:40a.m. from my friends cellphone and left try me by James Brown as a message. Well she called me early this morning and said that he called her and he asked who she was and she told him and then she said that Maria had called him and he asked Maria who and she said my last name and he said oh, and she said i will tell her to call you and he said ok. So what do I do? I feel so embarrassed but at the same time like who cares. Keep in mind that it has been about 8yrs since we really talked. Oh yeah I was his first love also.
 
so call him. it will not hurt. if nothing comes out of it, at least you tried.
 
well the question is do u wanna go back with him? is like i get the impression that u wanted to get in contact with him in some form maybe to talk about old times or whatever since u also said, who cares like whatever happens...happens u know?
 
lmao eze!

marilisa hun?
uh, not a good idea to start a ball rolling if you're not gonna roll with it hun. 😉
 
d only thing well is not my busines is the fact you still with your baby daddy w/e n u still wanna be with this ex of yours basically just get out of the relationship that your on now if you feel the love is not there... I mean damn nahh forget it : \
 
I agree wit eze!! either way someone is gettin hurt . . dont let it be the guy your with now
 
EZE_2K3 said:
basically just get out of the relationship that your on now if you feel the love is not there...
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good point eze!

um mamas? where was your man while you were calling this other man? have you done anything about that? would you be hurt if he were trying to contact an ex-love right now? :sadsmile
 
My friend told me the same darn thing, that why did I call him last night if I was not going to call him now. Man you know when you start feeling tipsy you get brave. So that is me, I was brave last night and now I think he has been calling me because I have been getting private calls on my cell phone and I am scared to answer. My friend said that when he called her it was also private. Me and my baby daddy let one another go out with friends sometimes and I had not gone out in 4 months. But when I do get the nerve to call him I will just tell him how he was someone speacial to me and I was would like to be friends. Sorry guys if I am a bitch, but I am sure we all have issues that we just don't address. Much Love CF peeps.
 
I say never look back. There are some many men out there. Give yourself time and give love some time. You will find someone. Why waiste your time. Like they say Just Let Dead Dogs Lie!!! Because, guys get off knowing that someone is out there still wanting them. It gives him a wierd sense of security. But good luck!!


Tank
 
nah no issues here i wouldnt put my self in a situation like that anyways but we all different...Really your saying your man and you go out umm ok whats the point there???! Is he talking to other females? Who knows anyways...But you wanna b friends with this ex and hell maybe being friends can lead to something else...Most likely you wouldnt mind if it did lol since you like him...Ok now let say this guy calls you w/e and your husband finds out whats REALLY going on??!? Then what?? Things might get ugly who knows...Cuz i know you wouldnt like if your MAN was trying to get in touch with his ex...Think about the other people around you father/daughter...Your just thinking about your self...Do whats really best for you.! If you think this is right..Sneaking around and talking to this guy then hey go head best of luck with it...Im just saying you dont see happy at all in this relationship that your in shit you havent being i think for 8 years or so...
 
hey liz good thinking there. gonna pm u when i need a good excuse.
 
I'm sorry but like eze said. Why even open that up again. Like you said it has been 8 yrs. It's done and over why even go there. You are both entirely different people now. If you're happy with you man now why even go there.

I laugh at when women talk about things like this and think it's cool. If a man did it we are dogs, and just looking for a piece.

Just my opinon.
 
Marilisa, just because you and this man loved each other a long time ago doesn't mean you are necessarily getting in touch with him to start things up again. Do you know what his situation is? It is obviously an unresolved issue for you. One that you need to put into perspective. Perhaps you are going thru a period of confusion with Mr. there now, and it is making you think about something you felt was good, and right now, safe to remember. We as people always look at the grass on the other side as greener. If you want to get in touch with Mr. Past, do it. Perhaps you will see that what you have now is worth fixing. Fairy tales are in books and movies, mama. Concentrate on what's making YOU have these feelings. The answers will come soon after.
Good luck
 
Just friends... are kidding me?

Not to sound rude or anything, but come on... your man isn't going to like it if this new guy comes along... let alone, him being your 1st love.

Look, the saying is... don't do to someone else that you wouldn't like done to you. (granted, that's the ghetto version, but you get my point).

If you don't love your man, let him go already. He doesn't sound like he deserves this.

I just hope that what comes around doesn't come around for you. You're letting a good thing go for something you have no clue about... chancing that it won't smack you in your face in the end.

Good Luck.
 
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