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Ok guys I know you all told me so. But here it goes , I called my ex-love this evening and I was so disapointed because , I am not sure if I expected anything from our friendship but , I asked him what he was doing tonight and he said that he was going to the movies to watch Passion of Christ and I asked him with who and he said with his friend Vanessa. Well he started saying how cool she was and that everyone tells him that he should get with her because she has a good career and she is going places , he said that he likes her but she makes more money than he does and that he could not be with her, I told him that he was selfish and if he really liked her then he should tell her, he asked me if I would be happy for him I told him I would. He said that that I probably would not call him anymore and I told him that I did not expect anything from our friendship and that if it happened then it happened that everything happened for a reason. Well I was cool on the phone but after we hung up my tears came down. I encouraged him to be with her . Was that the right thing to do?
 
i think so....... you did the right thing you let him go, i know it hurts, its a tough thing to do, but you had to do it... keep your head up and smile
 
You know you did what alot of grown women can do and thats be a mature adult. It takes a woman to do what you did. although you hurt you were unselfish. All I have to say is bravo.
 
It was hard, but I should have let him go along time ago. I thought that I had let him go but I was just lying to myself. Well I called him this morning just so that he does not think that I am hurt and that I am ok with what we talked about last night. He did not answer so I left him a message , that I was calling to see how it went last night and how the movie was. Should I stop calling him now?
 
I Know That Its Hard But I Think Its The Best Thing To Do. Now Spoken Like A Mom "listen To Your Mother And Everything Will Turn Out Okay".

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I agree with Diane and Vicki, it is hard to let go of someone you love but if they choose there happiness else where so be it all yuop can do is try and be happy for him because in the end thats what matters that he si truly happy. I say dont call him no more it takes two to make a friendship work 🙂
 
sorry to rain on your parade here, but remember we told you this would happen. you ruined your steady relationship for this ahole. he probably was with this girl all a long and was waitng to see what u could do for him. i suggest you try and get your man back. i hope in the future you will have learned your lesson and keep the past in the past and not let it ruin your future.

dont call, write or visit this guy. move on to better things. work on your life and putting the peices back together. i wish you luck.
 
Thank you so much Aim.... everyone seemed to forget how she ruined her current relationship for this Non-existing one and bam, it's been put right back in her face.

Granted, I don't like to see anyone hurt, but we told you not to get confused with what you and your ex HAD and we told you to concentrate on making the relationship you had with your baby's father work.

I do give you credit for giving him that advise, that must have been hard, especially since you threw everything away to be with him.

Look, a friend is not someone you are secretly in love with., so let him go. It's the only thing you can do. Do you honestly want to see him with another woman?
 
hey gina how are you? was wondering if you'd see this thread. you added some valuable advice.
 
marilisa said:
Ok guys I know you all told me so. But here it goes , I called my ex-love this evening and I was so disapointed because , I am not sure if I expected anything from our friendship but , I asked him what he was doing tonight and he said that he was going to the movies to watch Passion of Christ and I asked him with who and he said with his friend Vanessa. Well he started saying how cool she was and that everyone tells him that he should get with her because she has a good career and she is going places , he said that he likes her but she makes more money than he does and that he could not be with her, I told him that he was selfish and if he really liked her then he should tell her, he asked me if I would be happy for him I told him I would. He said that that I probably would not call him anymore and I told him that I did not expect anything from our friendship and that if it happened then it happened that everything happened for a reason. Well I was cool on the phone but after we hung up my tears came down. I encouraged him to be with her . Was that the right thing to do?
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Im proud of u girl!!! i know it mustve been hard but u did the right thing....🙂
 
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