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How do you deal with those days where you feel completely alone and unwanted? Those mornings you wake up feeling completely empty and not worth a damn thing? When you feel ugly both inside and out and there seems to be nothing that can change that for you? How do you deal?
 
I look at my son and how beautiful he is and know that I brought that beauty into this world and it reminds me how beautiful I am to have been able to give life to such a beautiful blessing. My son is my inspriation and my will to get pass the negativity.

I have had days where I felt alone and weak without any knowledge ofhow i wold make it to the next day feeling so down, I have looked int he mirror and felt ugly looked at my body and felt ugly and cried and felt disgusted with myself. Even now I have my momnets on how I will do this and that how I will make this or that happen etc etc.

Then I look around me and now I need to be thankful for what I do have it may not be much in the eyes of most but I struggle and have struggled to have it, I become aware that the more negative energy I put out the more I am going to get back. The more you believe in the negative things the more you realize them, if you feel you cant get passed something you wont its as simple as that noone but you can make changes in yuor life noone else. You cant dwell on things of the past because there done and over with and you cant go back and change them you can only move forward take what youve learned and use it to better yourself and those in your life, life is to short and to precious to dwell in misery only you can make you happy. I am thankful because I have a man who despite my ranting and raving of my ugliness reminds me and tells me every day how beautiful I am how attracted he is to me and how he adores me and my body scars and all. it means the world to me but I too know I need to see those thigns and daily I do even jsut a little I do because I know I dont want to dwell on teh uncahngable but move forward with the positive in my life even if it is small hold it craddle it and watch it grow.
 
I remember that I have a circle of people around me who love me, and that I deserve the love I get from them.
 
Personally, that's when I know I have to up my medication...the Zoloft is not working...LOL

No, on the real, I have been there many a times...it's hard because it seems like nothing seems to workout...but you have to pray to one above (God I mean)...he is always there for you through the good and the bad...Remember you are never alone...you have us at CF 🙂sflower), you have your honey, you have your family and most importantly you have God...
 
very well put Angie thx......some days are tougher than others but you are all right. I do have my family whom I look at every day and thank God for bringing them into my life, I have my honey who adores me as well and my circle......
 
Cono Yahi you a trip girl lol.

Your welcome what is most important is knowing everyone has those days as long as there is love and good health everything else is small.
 
NP your so right Chuckie and then we look back and we are like shiattttttt all that crying for that que mierda lol my son smiles and wipes it all away so I am thankful to God for his pure immense love. there are people who have less and go through more daily its them we should be feeling sad for.

yahi I see you and Chuck be killing me lol 🙂
 
First of all would be my daughter- she is my reason for everything good I do. Lots of prayer, when I pray, it reminds me to be thankful of all the good things I DO have. Usually things happen in cycles. At some point they can only get better. Thing of all the hard things you've aleady been through and remember it made you stronger. I remember there are so many people who have it worse, and then I come here for the laughs and encouragement.
 
nessa's302 said:
How do you deal with those days where you feel completely alone and unwanted? Those mornings you wake up feeling completely empty and not worth a damn thing? When you feel ugly both inside and out and there seems to be nothing that can change that for you? How do you deal?
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SOMETIMES I FEEL THE SAME WAY MA.....IT'S MY FAMILY THAT HAS COME WINNING AT THE END.....TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME....KEEP YOUR HEAD UP MA.....TRUST ME.....
 
i sleep and dont worry about the ones who dont want me if they dont want me they are not true friends and they are not worth my time and i wont lose sleep over freeloadin losers like them
 
OdilioMunoz said:
you sound 2 good of a catch to be feeling like that. my e-mail, linemedic2005@yahoo. com im in iraq so give me some time i only check out my e-mail once a week or when i get a chance.. peace out
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LOL @ 2 good of a catch, thank u hun but I'm already involved w/ someone 😉
 
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