How Can You Mend A Broken Heart?

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Can anyone truly answer that question? I am trying to get over a guy who played with my heart for a few years now. I was so in love with him that I just was blind to everything. But I dont know how to fall out of love with him even though he is a jerk and I know that I have to move on. Until someone else comes into my life who can make me forget he ever meant anything to me, how do I move on? Does anyone have any suggestions? I would greatly appreciate some help!


Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Do wat i do just focus on something else other than him also go out have fun meet new people it may sound corny but it works. dont worry ull meet some guy who will treat u like a queen.
 
My way of getting over her

I am a guy and I was played by a girl, so I know how it feels.

What I did to get over it was changing my lifestyle, but not my life.

I started hanging out with my boyz, partying, clubbin'

I was going to the GYM and workin' out, eating right, losing weight.

This activity made me feel better about myself.

Now I got a girl that treats me right. She can be a bitch sometimes but she is faithful and she loves me and ditto.

You don't need another man to take your mind off the player. You just need to "play" before you need another man.

Hope what I did will spark an idea for you to get over that clown.


Peace

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Dont worry, You wil eventually get over him but it does take time... Deep down you will stil lcare for him but in the meantime start hanging out with your friends go out and just do you... Have some fun and in the midst of this you might end up finding the right one for you.... Tak eyour time and concentrate on you spoil yourself and keep in your mind for now I come first Not him!
 
Thanks so much to everyone who responded! I know time heals all wounds so I know in time, I will get past this...

Loca, girl, you are so right about what u said...I dont think I will ever forget him or stop caring about him...but I have to put myself first, because god only knows that he doesnt put me first.

Thanks again!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
ok there is no right answer to ur question because everyone deals with things differently...

my suggestions...

-keep ur self occupied cuz if u are then u'll be too busy to think about anything else

-take down pictures,gifts and other things that remind u of the person cuz u go the whole day doing well and then u go home and see all the reminders

-go out and be around people that like u family/friends cuz they will help u keep ur mind off it

-and lastly do talk about it not all the time but u cant keep it all inside talk about it with friends and family cuz they will give u their views and itll help

these are my suggestions and this is wut i do, maybe if u get a lot of suggestions u can pick the ones that best suit u and it will help u

GOOD LUCK!!
 
Okay get a VOODOO DOLL and Play with him!!! Stick pins where it would hurt..J/K LMAO. 😉
MAMA all these people gave you good advice. Time heals all wounds. You will be all right you are a woman we always bounce back.!😀
 
As much as alot peep's hate to hear it, IT TAKES TIME! Trust me I know this! I was in love with a girl for a year and a half. In the end She wasn't what I thought and vice versa. Anyway's......I was miserable for awhile. What I did was focus on myself and things and hung out whenever I could with single friends, buddys. It suck's I know but stay strong and focus on being happy with your self. Then one day you will find that someone to be happy with as well!! Take care and good luck!!!!😉
 
Freestylegod...you are right...it does take time!! I have been in love with him for so long, that I dont know how to fall out of love with him just like that. But I will try to be strong and hopefully the right guy will come along soon!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
like i said everyone is different but i was with a guy that i loved off for like 2 years and cuz i was like 16 17 at the time and he was first serious bf it was hard when we broke up, ive been basically single now for almost 3 years and im young and all and i love it cuz i look at my friends that are about my age in serious relationships and its like wow i dont want to deal with that rite now i like to enjoy lol but all are diff...
 
no one will ever know the answer to that question FreestyGal, or else no one would be depressed. I wish i knew!
 
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