Help Understanding Music Industry

[SEXYANGEL2LOVE]

My fiancé is a DJ/Promoter, we moved in about a year ago, the problem I have is that anything to do with his job he keeps it a secret from me. I found him several times chatting online with other women what brothers me the most is that he said that’s how business is done but why are words suck as, Babe, Hun, Bobbie, Cutie, used. Lately I found an email inviting a girl out to eat “went can we go out for lunch or dinner” (I can understand lunch… why dinner? I don’t want to confront him because I trust him. But the problem I have is that he doesn’t want me going to any of his gigs and he doesn’t want me chatting online either. He said it doesn’t involved me but is but I would be nice a least to know about it. I need to know how the get involved more cause this is causing problems. – Help

 

[tanktruck]

My fiancé is a DJ/Promoter, we moved in about a year ago, the problem I have is that anything to do with his job he keeps it a secret from me. I found him several times chatting online with other women what brothers me the most is that he said that’s how business is done but why are words suck as, Babe, Hun, Bobbie, Cutie, used. Lately I found an email inviting a girl out to eat “went can we go out for lunch or dinner” (I can understand lunch… why dinner? I don’t want to confront him because I trust him. But the problem I have is that he doesn’t want me going to any of his gigs and he doesn’t want me chatting online either. He said it doesn’t involved me but is but I would be nice a least to know about it. I need to know how the get involved more cause this is causing problems. – Help

Gurl, you need to see all the red flags. Come on now! NO business of any sort, except prositution or escorting, deals with flirting with the opposite sex or calling each other babe, hun, bobbie(whatever that means), etc etc. I'm sorry there is a thing call Professionalism. He doesn't want you on-line so you won't chat with other men. HE'S INSECURE AND FEELING GUILTY OF WHAT HE'S DOING. You need to get the bull by the horns and say hey I don't like this chatting with other woman bullshiat and it needs to stop. But you can always get some spyware and see what he's chatting about when your not around. All the red flags are there. This is the time you decide your course of action. If you not happy you need to move on. No one is worth you being being unhappy and miserable. You can do that by yourself and without there baggage.

 

[Enigma]

He's hiding something sorry.

-antonio

 

[Freestylepete]

Hes cheating on you plain and clear.

 

[ChuckD]

Yeah, Ant and Tank are right.

If he had nothing to hide, he wouldn't mind if you went to the shows and stuff.

 

[aim4night]

sorry to say but the men are right on this one. you need to leave this guy to his cheating ways, pronto. guys like that dont change. just show up at one of his gigs. then u can see for yourself, make sure you have a guy with you so you can teach him a lesson.

 

[mzcrazybtch]

I agree w/Aim except for the eye for an eye part.....(you don't need to stoop to his level) been there. 😉